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How do I know when I've turned my boyfriend on?

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Question - (11 June 2006) 9 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

heya just wondering - how do u know when a teenage boy has an erection? do they act differently or have a different facial or body expression? do they give off any clues to having an erection?

also second question me an my boyfriend have been together for 1 month an i wanna know how i can tell when he has an erection over me (if he ever does). or would he only get an erection over me when having sex or just when we hug or kiss? when would he get an erection over me or would he? thanks for advise

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2006):

I think your too young to be thinking about sex i,m 18 and had a baby 1 mon before i turned 16 I learned my lesson.But i,m glad i had her. Be careful use protection.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006):

The biggest "clue" is when you feel something hard down below. That would be the erection...

When you ask if the erection would be during sex, that is the sex, honey.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006):

if ur bf is haveing sex mit u and getting hard then u have no problem but the day u hear out of his mouth that he doesnt wanna have sex is the day u have to worry...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006):

if ur bf is haveing sex mit u and getting hard then u have no problem but the day u hear out of his mouth that he doesnt wanna have sex is the day u have to worry...

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A male reader, DoctorGayLove +, writes (11 June 2006):

You're too worried about whether his dick gets hard and what it gets hard to. You should be more worried if he likes spending time with you or not. Afterall, it's not all about sex.

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A female reader, Smiler +, writes (11 June 2006):

Smiler agony auntHey there

Well sweetie as said above if your kissing and cuddling closely then trust me you will feel when he is aroused and has an erection though if he is a typical teenage boy he will probably get all embarrassed at the fact that he's turned on so he will probably pull away act shy and go red in the face slightly and try to cover the area with his top or something, then maybe want to go to the toilets straight away...

I hope my advice was able to help you out with your situation sweetie and good luck with this... if you ever need a friend or a chat or just more advice don't hesitate to email me sweetie, I would love to hear from you again and know how you got on... Remember i'm always here for you anytime ok

You Take Care Sweetie X

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A male reader, David Lewis United Kingdom +, writes (11 June 2006):

David Lewis agony auntIf u were laying down or standing up, you would probably feel the movements.

Like I said, it would really depend on what you were doing to try to turn him on.

If you were sitting, you would probably be able to see the difference.

If that fails, have a feel.

If he wasn't already turned on, he would be then.

Just be careful, make sure you are both ready.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2006):

i am the one who asked this question - im 15. how would i notice the difference instantly though?

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A male reader, David Lewis United Kingdom +, writes (11 June 2006):

David Lewis agony auntOk, can I just ask your age?

It would depend on what you were doing to turn him on.

An erction isn't the hardest thing to notice (no pun intended)

If you were kissing and cuddling closely, you would probably feel the difference instantly.

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