My girlfriend hid the fact she had a son. Could this indicate a potential pattern of lying?
Q. Girlfriend of three months tells me via text message that she has a son. We just started getting slightly serious, and I still feel a little lied to. I am 25, she 23, I have no idea how old her son is. I had no idea that she had a son, not e...
A. 22 October 2009: look mate i dont know the ans to your question, all i know is my gut feeling. she aint lied to you, she is open and honest and for that i give her praise. ok maybe she didnt go "I HAVE A KID" on the first date but you were willing to see her again. ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant if I forgot to take the pill?
Q. Hello, i had unprotected sex a week yesterday (13th) and i forgot to take two pills (contraceptive pill), today i have been getting small craps and little heartburn and i felt sick and faintish this morning, im due on my period in 9days. Also when i ...
A. 22 October 2009: yes you could be but now is the real time to take stock. yes im angry at you but only becuz i got pregnant at 14 please please please take a test they are cheap enough for you to get one. once you have that please get yourself too the brook clinic ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend hid the fact she had a son. Could this indicate a potential pattern of lying?
Q. Girlfriend of three months tells me via text message that she has a son. We just started getting slightly serious, and I still feel a little lied to. I am 25, she 23, I have no idea how old her son is. I had no idea that she had a son, not e...
A. 22 October 2009: i also agree with married lady. your future relationship is based on wheather your compatible with your lover. she doesnt want to take the risk of you falling for her without you knowing the truth. she also doesnt want her child to become attached ... (read in full...)
I feel she's changed, and now it's making me feel very insecure. What should I do?
Q. I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 6 months now. Since she got back from holiday she has been different. We were very much in love. Telling each other every day how we felt. Since she has been back we have been different. She doesn't tell me h...
A. 31 July 2008: im not the one to tell you how u should act.but to me she is giving you all the signals thats this is dying. u never said how old she was but from the message u have left there is very little there. you are the one that is making all the moves and ... (read in full...)
Can suffering from S.A.D. "Social Anxiety Disorder" affect your sex life or performance?
Q. Does anyone suffer from social anxiety disorder? If so, how does it affect your sex life/sexual performance? Do you suffer from feelings of embarrassment or guilt after having sex with a new partner?...
A. 31 July 2008: ive only ever heard of the depression which i suffer from which is seasonally defefected disorder thats a tye of depression... (read in full...)
How long should I wait before I make a move on this guy who broke up with his long term girlfriend?
Q. How long should a girl wait before making a move on a guy who recently broke up with his girlfriend of 3 yrs because she cheated on him? He sms'd me once and seemed to show some interest in me by starting a conversation with me at a party but i kind ...
A. 31 July 2008: excuse me, how would you feel if some one at a party decided to give you one word answers you would think that they werent interested in you wouldnt you. you know how they split up obviously, and you have an interest in this man so just take the ... (read in full...)
I'm not interested in this guy, how do I let him know I was just flirting?
Q. Ok, i will be the first to admit I am a BIG TEASE! I love the attention I get from men. Guys at my work flirt endlessley with me, and I LOVE IT. I flirt back all the time but it's kinda a big game for me, I really just love the attention, i have no ...
A. 22 July 2008: i agree whole hearted with lotus. boy have you got some stick to come now, not only will you have to admit to every bloke in there that it was a bit of fun but if you dont do it the other bloke will do it for you. you have acted in away that men ... (read in full...)
I want to makeout with him, how do I let him know?
Q. i wanna makeout with my boyfriend but i don't know how to let him know. can anyone help me??!! we've been goen out for bout 3 months and we've kiss like little pecks on the lips but i wanna makeout with him and i don't know what to do. like if i ...
A. 22 July 2008: im so sorry to say this but your so young at the moment and the last aunt should have told you like im going to, not to rush into it your a child and what your going to give away (your body) is so precious. you are posted at 13 to 15 years old thats ... (read in full...)
I know him for a week and fell madly in love with him. Should I give it a try?
Q. I have met someone on holiday and fell madly in love with him and he has fell in love with me too.....i havnet seen him for a week but i am sleeping round his house on saturday....we live 2 hours away from eachother....i really want it to work ...
A. 6 June 2008: oh sweetheart i feel for you i really do you are so young and it seems to me that you already have trust issues and at your age these trust issues are very common. maybe you have given yourself to someone and they have betrayed you, or you just feel ... (read in full...)
Ex from years ago, what do I do? She is in love with someone who does not want her!
Q. Long story! I went out with a lovely girl for 18 months back in 1999/2000. We lived together for a while, she was only 19 and I was 25. I broke it up as I thought we were too young to settle down and get married, it broke her heart. ...
A. 4 June 2008: im so glad your back to friendly terms and that you have taken your own advise to reel in your emotions for now,im sure that if you take it steady and just take things as ive said at snails pace then you might have your future with her. women are ... (read in full...)
What's the risk of sexually transmitted diseases from oral sex?
Q. We worn a condom but also had oral sex without one. What is the risk of infection? We've both had blood tests in the past for sexually transmitted disease and the results were negative....
A. 4 June 2008: hi there the sexually transmitted diseases that you can catch from unprotected oral are aids/hiv, hepititis a b and c, herpes, genital warts, chlamydia, gonorrhoea.and even down to pubic lice in your facial hair. i dont want to worry you but before ... (read in full...)
Ex from years ago, what do I do? She is in love with someone who does not want her!
Q. Long story! I went out with a lovely girl for 18 months back in 1999/2000. We lived together for a while, she was only 19 and I was 25. I broke it up as I thought we were too young to settle down and get married, it broke her heart. ...
A. 4 June 2008: hi there it sounds to me like you have answered your own question. it was nearly ten years ago that you were together and although you said you broke her heart when you split up she did actually move on and get married. unfortunatley that didnt work ... (read in full...)
Weird bumps on my private parts. What's going on?
Q. I have these bumps on my private part.i have never had sex,so I couldn't have an STD.What's going on?...
A. 2 June 2008: you dont give much detail as to where they are apart from your private parts. every woman is different. women have thigs called libia (i think ) they are the flaps that hang down and they should be realatively the same size on either side with no ... (read in full...)
I've shaved my pubic area... Now what do I expect? Is there a major risk of ingrown hairs or itches?
Q. My question is simple guys - I've shaved 'down there'... Now what do I expect? Will it start growing back straight away? Is there a big risk of in-growing hairs? I'm really worried about those! Will it hurt and itch and never grow back the same aga...
A. 31 May 2008: i always shave there it takes a bit of getting used to but ive never had any probs. ingrowing hairs ive never had them but if your in any doubts get some immac or nair hair remover and that will do the trick... (read in full...)
I'm willing to have anal sex though I have no clue about it. Can anyone please give me advice?
Q. My boyfriend has asked me to have anal sex with him, im willing to do it but i have never done it before. Can anyone please tell me does it hurt or any advice, tips, etc. Thanks xxx...
A. 31 May 2008: hi there, you dont need to do this form of sex act to impress your partner especially if he loves you. you are so young and yes the second part of your question yes it hurts like hell. my man has only sliped and it has put me off the whole nights ... (read in full...)
My wife abuses, dominates and bullies me. What can I do?
Q. Hi. Hope someone can help. I am married to a controlling, dominating, mentally abusive, bullying wife and have been for 4 years. I have 2 very young children and one due in 4 weeks. I have tried everything to help her stop being Angry, even ...
A. 17 May 2008: you have to leave her now this situation is so dangerous please take your kids even if you book into a b b for the night please leave she is so unpredicatable. i no you want the best for your family but that can only be achieved with you and the ... (read in full...)
How do I let my mum know I want to see a counsellor?
Q. I havn't really got much goin' for me right now and i havn't come on here for sympathy like a tragic teenager BLAHBLAHBLAA. I know every teenager seems to be "depressed" atm, so its hard to tell whether it's genuine or not, but i really feel as t...
A. 15 May 2008: hi there, in coming forward and sharing this problem you have taken the biggest step the rest is really easy. You say that your mom knows that you have self harmed in the past but does she know that you are still doing it, self harm is a very big ... (read in full...)
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