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Caught in the middle between Mom and Dad...help!

Q.   my parents got divorced a few years ago, and my dad is getting remarried . I live with my mum and everytime I go see my dad she will make little jokes when I get back home, she always says little smart ass jokes like "oh your dads wife" and laughs ...

A.   8 August 2009: In this kind of situation you have to women up and say cut the sh*t mom I'm 16 17 how ever damn old you are and say don't keep me away from my daddy. Then tell yer dad you love him and your mom and noone can take the place of her (yer mom) so don't ... (read in full...)

How can I make this LDR work?

Q.   I fall in love quick. But you kno what different about this time? When I'm not with Brandon my my heart hurts. I met him a few days ago when I was on a camping trip with a friend. And he lives 3 hours away from me.I have his number but he hasn't ...

A.   8 August 2009: I really didn't mean I was marry me now in love. I ment I can't believe your so fricken perfect just ment wow kind of love. like I dunno like teenage stuff. But we've decided to be just friends it really hurts the both of us considering we were both ... (read in full...)

How do I get noticed by boys?

Q.   I'm a 15 year old girl with long brown hair and blue eyes are medium height and average weight. Why when i walk down the high street does no boys turn round and take a second look and me or smile and me or look like their looking at me? How do i ...

A.   3 August 2009: Thanks for making fun if the way I dress lol. But the thing is I get noticed in goodways not all the time but most of the time. three major things. Hair. Makeup. Attitude. Do not keep your hair like everyone else. And don't cut it too short. But add ... (read in full...)

Married, but I'm in love with the other man and want to pursue that relationship.

Q.   I am a 38 year old woman married for 14 to a 52 year old man. My husband has been a truck driver for the last 12 years. When we originally married he was home everyday, then everyday turned into week and now months for the last 11 years. Nine...

A.   10 July 2009: you cant have both guys its just not right. many children grow up with separated parents its okay to do. your husband really isnt there for you or your children obviously you only have on guy when hes had several different women AND did drugs. he ... (read in full...)

I'm just scared to death he's going to rip me apart again like he did just seven months ago!

Q.   Hi, my ex and I broke up seven months ago for the second and final time after a two-year relationship. We broke up because he was a douche who emotionally abused me and I just couldn't take it anymore. But at the same time, we had some really nice ...

A.   9 July 2009: i get it me and this guy dated my hole 8th grade year and just ended it. ppl wuld just tel me we wernt in luv and that he wasnt good enough for me. what im trying 2 say is yes u loved each other but now i think ur in love with the idea of love like ... (read in full...)

I feel robbed of my first kiss!

Q.   i was robbed of my first kiss , this happened like 8 months ago ,at the time i never had a bf and never kissed a guy , i was with this guy i was -seeing- and we were a little drunk and in his car when he kissed me , not jsut on the lips a full ...

A.   9 July 2009: i kno what you mean my first kiss was with a jackass. but my moto is forgive and foget. thats just what you gatta do. it sucks but yea.... (read in full...)

What do you think he'll do when he sees me next?

Q.   Ok so i lke this guy who is way to old for me. And i got his number and have had it for a few weeks and i couldnt resist anymre. So i txted him. Started out by saying Hey Sexy :) and i just made him guess who i was and it was so much funn. At the ...

A.   8 July 2009: honey do you know how dangerouse that is stop it.... (read in full...)

Am I a slut or are my friends just prudes?

Q.   So I hook up with a lot of guys, not as in have sex, but oral and makeout and stuff, a lot of my friends tell me I'm a slut, and they say that they're kidding, but I don't think they are. It could just be because they are prude, because I don't ...

A.   8 July 2009: you see i can relate to that.but, when you go with alot if guys maybe you only make out, but do you think guys say that to there friends? or having oral if you do that to every guy you date someone calling you a slut is boung to happen.... (read in full...)

We need to kiss!!!

Q.   Okay this is how it all goes down. I'm in love with my ex. He still loves me but we aren't together. We've never kissed but did we want to. We were both to nervous. I feel that in order for us to fall head over heels we need to kiss. I'm too much of ...

A.   4 May 2009: I asked him if he still loved me and he looked at he's very shy. Toward me anyway. I love that about him but it gets annoying fast. And he walks away. How can I kiss him or tell him my feelings If he walks away.(this is an update). He's my ex if ya ... (read in full...)

We need to kiss!!!

Q.   Okay this is how it all goes down. I'm in love with my ex. He still loves me but we aren't together. We've never kissed but did we want to. We were both to nervous. I feel that in order for us to fall head over heels we need to kiss. I'm too much of ...

A.   4 May 2009: If it were that easy we would have tonsil wrestled by now.... (read in full...)

My best friend likes me..I feel weird

Q.   I feel weird around my best friend because he likes me he was my BFF since kindergarden but now where not best friends cause he is jealous of every boy I like a boy whose girlfriend is her cousin so what should I do?...

A.   30 April 2009: I know exactly wat your saying! I have had a boyfriend and we are bffs agin. But then it happened agin for me and my buddy. Now I kids hate him cuz well he broke up me and the love of my life. Errr I still have issues with him. And just tell him cut ... (read in full...)

My scars look really ugly and I'm dreading the summer.

Q.   I really just wanted a male perspective on scars, but girlies if you have any words of wisdom that would be fab too. I have an ongoing knee instability that has required quite a bit of surgery and has left me with lots of long ugly scars, I really ...

A.   17 April 2009: There are scar products out there. It okay. Just think on the bright side. Atleast u have a leg! Btw I have a scar bout three inches dwn my left arm. Atv accident say no more. Why wuld sumone dislike u or watever just bcuz u had surgery to fix ur ... (read in full...)

Why would an older guy like a much younger girl?

Q.   Why would an older guy like a much younger girl? I'm concrned for my younger sister who is a freshman at 14, dating a senior at 18. I told her no good will come of it, but she isn't listening. If someone could help me to understand why he was so ...

A.   16 April 2009: Okay honey 4 years isn't that bad. It seems like alot becuz she's still in highschool. My older BROTHER is 15 he just turned 15. His gf is 17 going to be 18. 3yrs but u c she is the sweetest girl ever she is even going on our family vacation. Idk ... (read in full...)

My fiance may be in love with a 16 year old?

Q.   Back in Nov. My fiance and I had some issues. We play an online game. The game is mostly populated by young teens. Well he started to spend alot of time in game with a girl who I found out was 15. He was spending so much time with her that he was ...

A.   11 April 2009: Well first of all if he pissed u off enough it's illeagle. I mean if anything got too much. Btw your not over reacting he gas no bussness testing a 16 year old girl. My parents wld flip if they found out I was talking to a 24yr old. And keep intack ... (read in full...)

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