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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my parents got divorced a few years ago, and my dad is getting remarried . I live with my mum and everytime I go see my dad she will make little jokes when I get back home, she always says little smart ass jokes like "oh your dads wife" and laughs and its really annoying because she always brings it up , she doesn't allow me to see dad while his new wife is there and doesn't let me go over. he is only engaged to her and its their wedding soon, and my mum is not letting me go . I don't know what to do because I feel caught in the middle, there's no compromise with my mum, and if I don't see my dad I feel sorry for him but when I do see my dad I feel sorry for my mum . I just am so angry
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reader, Discover me +, writes (8 August 2009):
In this kind of situation you have to women up and say cut the sh*t mom I'm 16 17 how ever damn old you are and say don't keep me away from my daddy. Then tell yer dad you love him and your mom and noone can take the place of her (yer mom) so don't expect me to call her mom or anything. I don't kno some parents want there kid to do that. Either way you only have a year or two til you move out and can spend yer time with either one of them as much as you want.
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (8 August 2009):
You need to speak up tell your dad what you have to go through just to see him, Maybe you can ask him if you can stay with him if she keeps this behavior up. Your mom needs to grow up and you need to check her, what is the worse that can happen she will stop talking to you well then mission accomplished. You should be able to enjoy your life and enjoy all of your family and the way that will happen is if you speak up and defend yourself. It is your decision if you want to go to the wedding not your moms. You better tell your dad what is going on asap maybe he can run interference for you from now on. Also if your mom knows her behavior is being monitored maybe she will keep her opinion to herself.
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