Help! He will kill me...how do I escape safely?
Q. I have a 16 month old daughter who has had to live with my parents because of the relationship i am in. I just dont know how to get out of it, he always tracks me down.. even in a womans refuge and when he is nice, he is lovely but my body cant cope ...
A. 6 September 2008: Since you have access to the internet, I would suggest that you write the whole situation out and email it to a police detective in your area...and tell them that they just need to come and take you out of there...they don't need to have a stern ... (read in full...)
Hubby visits prostitutes so I cheat on him with casual sex with other men! How can we stop this destructive path we are on?
Q. I need help... My husband of 13 years got found out a few months ago, he has been seeing prostitutes for 6 years every 2 weeks and each week he has been trawling the streets. We are going throught the councellng route and I have asked for help for ...
A. 29 August 2008: Cheating on your husband isn't going to erase what he is done or fulfill you. Stop for your own self preservation. ... (read in full...)
Are "escorts" just prostitutes by another name?
Q. My friend has hired an escort - and I tried to stop him but he did it anyway - are escorts really just prostitutes? He says he's lonely after losing his girlfriend but is it really just to have sex? Is that what escorts are for really?...
A. 29 August 2008: The diffence between a prostitute and an escort is cost...escorts cost more. It is sex for money, either way. ... (read in full...)
On A Search For Either Escorts Or Massage Parlours Any Advice Welcome.
Q. Hi All I have never had a girlfriend or sex and I am in my 20's, I am fed up waiting for the right female to come along as I know it will probably never happen so I have decided to look for sex either in a massage parlour or hire an escort as I n...
A. 29 August 2008: Yeah right. If you can be happy paying a woman to pretend she is attracted to you, then just stick to the prostitutes. Don't date if you can't be faithful. Don't bring an innocent woman into this hot mess.... (read in full...)
I discovered an e-mail my husband sent to a prostitute. He's agreed to a date in a hotel!!
Q. I have been married for 10 years. My husband has been loving and respectful. He has been working in the Middle east for the last 6 months, and I have seen him about once a month. But about a month ago, on the last visit home, something about his ...
A. 29 August 2008: I agree with all the replies to this post...don't excuse the behavior and don't let him try to weasel out of this. It is soul crushing to live with this horrible situation. I know it first hand. Now that I'm out of the situation and can look at ... (read in full...)
Does the 7-year itch cover visits to prostitutes?
Q. My partner of 7 years recently visited a prostitute. They didn't have full sex and he admitted to me what he had done the day after. He said that his reason for going was that as I had been the only woman he had ever been with he had got curious ...
A. 29 August 2008: I don't believe he didn't really have sex with her. That is what they say when they get caught...they minimize. I'm sorry, but there is no way he got in the room with a prostitute, after going through all the steps it took him to get in that ... (read in full...)
He's been phoning prostitutes but says he wouldn't meet them, it just gives him a thrill... is this acceptable?
Q. I recently discovered that my partner has been phoning prostitutes and asking them what they offer. I inadvertently found that he had been looking at websites for local massage parlours on his PC and so checked his phone, and he had a number for a ...
A. 29 August 2008: My husband said the same thing. He said he was using it for fantasy material and would never actually act on it. we went to therapy and he convinced the therapist that he was telling the truth and was sorry...and guess what. A few years later, I ... (read in full...)
What should a wife do when her husband is going to prostitutes?
Q. What should a wife do when her husband is going to prostitutes?...
A. 29 August 2008: Sorry..I am now replying to the woman who asked the question. What you should do is get evidence of his infidelity, because otherwise he will deny it later. Then you should run, run, run. Run as fast as you can. I'm sorry. Get a divorce and ... (read in full...)
He visited prostitutes and wants me to forget about it! I love him but don't respect him!
Q. I have just found out my h has been sleeping with prostitutes while I was pregnant. Bub now 8 weeks old. Says he wont do it again, doesn't want to destroy our family (also have 2 yo) but has never really apologized and is acting as if nothing has ...
A. 29 August 2008: I have known many, many women who have gone through this since I found out about my husband (soon to be ex) and they just don't change. As long as you are with him, you will always have to wonder if he is doing it again. Men do this because they ... (read in full...)
What should a wife do when her husband is going to prostitutes?
Q. What should a wife do when her husband is going to prostitutes?...
A. 29 August 2008: I'm responding to Ginalolabrigida's answer. Sorry Gina, but you I disagree with you. This woman's husband isn't cheating because she isn't giving him sex...he is cheating because he wants to cheat. I don't like it when people jump to the ... (read in full...)
I only get turned on by prostitutes!
Q. I have always have had sex with prostitutes, but never with a "normal" woman. I just don't get turned on by normal women. only prostitutes turn me on. Is there any thing wrong with this? Am i supposed to have sex with hoes the rest of my life? I ...
A. 29 August 2008: Okay, I'm not bashing, but who are you calling a Ho? Really..it takes two to tango. My advice is...don't get married...ever! I don't believe men who are obsessed with prostitutes will ever be satisfied with a normal woman, so the best you can ... (read in full...)
My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me!
Q. My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me! Two weeks ago my husband received a call from someone at 11:30pm on a weekend. He didn't pick up, but someone had apparently left a message and upon asking him ...
A. 29 August 2008: I just want to reiterate...calling cheating a sex addiction doesn't make it a disease. Below is a really great quote from Abe Lincoln that is directly applicable to these cheating jerks and their claims that they can't help it because they are ... (read in full...)
My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me!
Q. My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me! Two weeks ago my husband received a call from someone at 11:30pm on a weekend. He didn't pick up, but someone had apparently left a message and upon asking him ...
A. 29 August 2008: My advice to all women going through this is GATHER EVIDENCE!!!! Most women just freak out and confront the guy..and he erases all the evidence of his behavior, and then denies doing it. Also, don't have sex with him again after you find out, ... (read in full...)
Can he really change after sleeping with an escort in our marital home?
Q. Hi, I've been married for 15 years, my husband never showered me with the love and affection I craved for. We have 3 beautiful children. I went away with the children and found out that he had an Escort in our house two days in a row. When I ...
A. 29 August 2008: I could go on and on, but I think the bottom line is, once they have been with a nubile young girl who pretends that he has given her the single greatest sexual experience of her life and who acts like everything he says is interesting and who is ... (read in full...)
He says he has a 'business relationship' with a previous paid escort to him
Q. My husband has been seeing escorts for a few years (not sure just how many), I found out 2 years ago. He says the physical part is over (I'm not so sure about that); but he has a business relationship with a previous provider. Really! He writes ...
A. 29 August 2008: I'm so sorry. I went through this too. The fact that your SO is blogging about this means he is completely unrepentant. I don't care how sorry he acts, after a while, that fades. If they think you won't leave, they start to believe you should ... (read in full...)
My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me!
Q. My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me! Two weeks ago my husband received a call from someone at 11:30pm on a weekend. He didn't pick up, but someone had apparently left a message and upon asking him ...
A. 29 August 2008: I have been in your shoes. It took me over a year to get get over the shock and file for divorce. My husband has practically bankrupted us with what he calls his "hobby". Anybody who wants to privately email about this, please feel free to ... (read in full...)
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