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anonymous
writes: My friend has hired an escort - and I tried to stop him but he did it anyway - are escorts really just prostitutes? He says he's lonely after losing his girlfriend but is it really just to have sex? Is that what escorts are for really?
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female
reader, disappointedwoman  +, writes (29 August 2008):
The diffence between a prostitute and an escort is cost...escorts cost more. It is sex for money, either way.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2006):
"Are escorts just prostitutes by another name"?
Hey man...escorts, usually women, are people
with feelings, attitudes, responsibilities. Some have
families. A lot have bills. Some are doing this on
their own, have to do their own screening and are
dealing with mainly jerks instead of rapists. Ok,
well having only met one escort(Im over 40) instead
of 13 or 14, I have found a female that I could have a
WORKING AND CARING relationship with her that
is definitely preferable over traditional girlfriends
over the past quarter century. She is nicer than any
of them, and that is not only because she is being
renumerated. I have already hurt her feelings
and made her mad once. She is a human being
with emotions, and trying to provide a service while
preserving her dignity. She wants her and I to be
friends, not a john, or a customer. Many escorts
probably enjoy men, and sex too(maybe), and can
meet men that aren't just users or what I call
"floaters". Also cheaters don't get far with an
an escort. An escort will have a code of conduct
self-imposed or imposed by an employer. So if you
or I might be lonely, well that is natural, not to
be psychoanalytic. The escort knows if a guy needs
companionship or affection, and cares a lot more than
your ex cares. If you think you are going to buy sex
from an escort like she is a "working girl" or a
street prostitute, most likely you will be disappointed.
Hope this is a good answer...Mezcal'sthebom
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (19 October 2005):
 Think of it from this point of view; when a woman hires an escort, is it just to have sex? It doesn't have to be different for men.
Some escorts do have sex, some don't. It depends on what the client wants. There are many escorts that provide a service which doesn't involve sex at all, just companionship. People hire escorts for a variety of reasons.
Why did you try to stop him? Because you thought he was paying for sex? Perhaps he is lonely and in need of female company that is potentially romantic in nature.
Just be a good friend to him, provide a lstening ear, and remember he is entitled to make his own choices in life even though sometimes they may seem wrong.
I hope this helps.
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