Why doesn't his ex leave me alone? You think he would go out with her again if we break up?
Q. hey well my question is.... me and my boyfriend have been 2gether for 2 months now and his ex well shes always txting me saying i heard u and s****n broke up and well we havent!!she claims she doesnt lyke him nomore but she always bringin him up a...
A. 27 November 2008: Sounds like his ex isn't over him, or wants to make his new life with you, hell. First off I would call your cell phone provider and get her number blocked so she can't text you. Ex girlfriends can be very stressful, honestly you have to put trust ... (read in full...)
Is it time I stopped going for bad boys and settle with a "perfect" guy (and do they exist)?
Q. This isn't really a question, I just wanted to know what other people think. I'm 30 and came out of a long relationship last January. I suppose I have always been guys who have been a bit "bad" or guys that don't know what they want, commitment ...
A. 26 November 2008: I can tell you, I've been there before. "Bad boys" are exciting, they're the kind you want to be with 'cause they have an edge about them. But they aren't the type to settle down and want to get married.
I know, personally, I've had a hard tim... (read in full...)
What birth control makes your breasts grow?
Q. I have been on yasmin for about 9 months now and im still getting period pains so i friend who is a pharmacist recommended that i go on Diane, just wondering if anyone is on it does it make your breasts grow? And has Yasmin made anyones? i have had ...
A. 26 November 2008: Alot of birthcontrol pills give the illusion of making your breast grow. They actually have you retain more water in your breasts, hips and thighs. I don't know of any specific birth control pills that do so more than others, but I know that for ... (read in full...)
How can I pleasure him without having sex with him?
Q. Ok so me and my bf have been going out for about 2 months. I wanna get him excited or pleasure but i dont wanna have sex, so is there any thing i could do?...
A. 26 November 2008: A good make out session should definitely get him going.... (read in full...)
Could a large penis have done this to me?
Q. I recently started talking to one of my ex boyfriends from when I was younger. Having sex with him always hurt a little, because his penis is very large. It had been a long time since I had sex, I would say about a year, and we had sex yesterday. It ...
A. 25 November 2008: It could be a combination of a couple different things, you may not have been well lubricated, especially if you were all tensed up. It may have been too much for you too soon. Also I would get a check up and be sure you don't have a yeast infection ... (read in full...)
I couldn't move my hands after sex! What happened?
Q. Hi, I was having sex with my boyfriend today and it was great, but just before I got to climax we stopped for no particular reason and I found that I couldn't move my hands. They sort of clammed up and the muscles wouldn't move at all for at least 5 ...
A. 16 November 2008: My hands tingle when I orgasm, sometimes to the point where I can't feel them. Sounds like that's maybe what happened in your case. :-) ~Des... (read in full...)
How do I put some spice into my kissing?
Q. Hello everyone! I want your help on this. Tomorrow I'm gonna meet my bf. I haven't seen him for 2 weeks becuase of me going to uni. We're gonna be alone so I'm sure we're going to kiss and I wanna make it something special. I was wondering if you ...
A. 16 November 2008: Just do what comes naturally, trying to get to fancy, or doing things you're not use to doing can make it feel awkward. I think after 2 weeks apart your bf will just be happy to see you! ~Des... (read in full...)
Any ideas on giving my guy a blast, with great oral sex?
Q. My partner says he has never came from getting head. What can I do to make this happen? Any ideas to send him over the top?...
A. 16 November 2008: Pay attention to his reactions, it helps immensely; don't be held back with the notion that because he's never cum from oral sex, doesn't mean you can make him cum! Make sure to use your hands as well as your mouth; don't start up and abruptly stop, ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to enjoy giving BJ?
Q. is it weird to enjoy giving head? my boyfriend says its strange for a girl to enjoy giving a blowjob, but i really do, although i hate the taste when he cums, i love actually doin it.. is it normal? ...
A. 16 November 2008: Weird? Nah! I love giving my bf a blowjob and I think he's turned on more knowing that I love to do it. ~Des... (read in full...)
Is there a chance I could be pregnant?
Q. i slept with my fiance 4 days after i had my period. is there a chance i could be or get pregnant?...
A. 14 November 2008: Yes, a girl can get pregnant at any point; even during her menstrual cycle, it is less likely, but it all depends on when you ovulate and that can be different for each woman. I don't know how long is has been since you guys had sex, but if your ... (read in full...)
His Mom hates me, and I mean HATES me.
Q. hi. my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 9 months now. i love him to bits, you cannot imagine how much i love him! he's that person everyone loves. but, the major problem is that, his mum hates me. like seriously HATES me. it was 4...
A. 14 November 2008: Sounds like a very overprotective mom, but it sounds like her reasons for yelling at you were not valid. The fact that you felt scared enough that you had to hide probably made his mom feel like you were really hiding something.
It does sound li... (read in full...)
I don't know if I should leave my marriage.
Q. I don't know if I should leave my marriage. We have no fun. No sex, no good times, nothing. No adultery, or drinking, or beating what seem to be the only valid reason, to leave a marriage. It is a dilemma, because, why would I leave, if I'm not ...
A. 14 November 2008: Have you talked to your husband about any of this? Sounds like you two need to sit down and figure out what you can do for eachother. See about setting up a night for just the two of you to go out, or stay in and do something together. Really get ... (read in full...)
I think I might be getting into an online relationship. Thoughts and advice anyone?
Q. I think I might be in a situation where I could end up in an online relationship. Can this ever work? It's just we are opposite sides of the ocean. I think if were geographically closer it really could work. I have been doing some serious flirting...
A. 14 November 2008: I will tell you to start, that long distant relationship are very hard; having to overcome a need for physical contact is often what breaks any potential online/long distant relationships. Although online relationships can be greatly rewarding, ... (read in full...)
Do YOU believe in destiny?
Q. I was wondering, how many people believe in destiny. Do we have a destiny, so things will happen to us, without our wishes, or we are in control 100% what happens to us. I'm asking this because some people are so convinced that they can totally ...
A. 14 November 2008: We are in control of our actions and our decisions; but do I believe in destiny? Not sure, this could turn into a really deep discussion, I can think of a few times in my life when things seemed to come about on their own, but I believe that we ... (read in full...)
How will I find someone to feed my hunger for sex?
Q. hi i am ananya iam 25..not married yet...still virgin..i masterbate myself often is it good for health...i had a boy friend but he didnt satisfied me cos i didnt co operate wit him...wen ever he tries toinsert his penis inside my vagina i used push ...
A. 14 November 2008: Go find yourself someone who understands your needs. And as for the breast issue, as stated above there are some pectoral muscle exercise which will make your breast sit higher on your chest; making them look a bit bigger, also massaging them t... (read in full...)
Should it 'burn' when we have sex?
Q. i am married and we have sex often (like 2-3 in a week)......but the problem is that, it really burn in there. it did when we just got married (a year ago, but just thought that it will be fine when i get used to it. But the problem seems to be ...
A. 14 November 2008: Definitely get checked for any STDs, and in the meantime find a good lubricant, you may not have enough natural lubricant and that could be the reason for the burning sensation; you should enjoy sex with your husband, so do everything you can to ... (read in full...)
Will we be safe enough with just a condom?
Q. Quick question: Me and my boyfriend are going to have sex, however I am not on the pill or anything, will we be safe enough with just a condom?...
A. 14 November 2008: As they say on the box and with birth control pills, nothing is 100% effective. If you are really worried you can always get Plan B, also known as the morning after pill. Two pills which you take up to 72 hours after having sex, they are now ... (read in full...)
I have never orgasmed during sex, only through foreplay, any advice?
Q. I have never been able to orgasm during sex, I can through foreplay but not intercourse - any advice??...
A. 14 November 2008: Contrary to popular belief, oftentimes a girl cannot orgasm without stimulation of her clit during sex. Now it is different for each woman; some can orgasm quiet easily, others take a bit more, umm... work. :-) Doesn't mean there is anything wrong ... (read in full...)
Can your hymen tear from being fingered?
Q. Can fingering tear your hymen? Just curious....
A. 14 November 2008: Yes, it can. Usually people associate an intact hymen with a girl's virginity, but some sports and activites, along with tampon use can even tear the hymen. Hope that helps. ~Des... (read in full...)
I bled when he fingered me. What's wrong with me?
Q. Hey, i need some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for just over 2 month now, and last week he fingered me for the first time [i've never been fingered before] and i bled, then he done it again today and i bled..is this normal? why am i bleeding...
A. 14 November 2008: If you have never had sex before, it's completely normal for a girl to bleed the first time. Prior to losing your virginity, girls have a thin membrane across their vagina called the hymen, which somewhat blocks the entrance to your vagina, and your ... (read in full...)
My first time having sex... is all that foreplay needed? What positions are best?
Q. ive been thinking about sex lately and my bf has too and weve both talked it over and decided to this weekend D: i know im ready im not scared of anything but what am i suppose to do... just lay there? ive read up foreplay before sex and ive given ...
A. 14 November 2008: It sounds like an exciting weekend for you both. The first time can be really exciting and a bit scary all at once. My suggestion would be not to go too fancy for starters. Make sure that you two are both comfortable with what you are going to do. I ... (read in full...)
His firstborn child is with another woman!
Q. Please help me! I have been back dating my current bf for about a month now. Long story short, we originally met 2 years ago, got engaged too fast and realized we needed to slow things down, so we broke off the engagement and took sometime apart, we ...
A. 14 November 2008: Thanks for the replies.
As for getting pregnant myself, that has never crossed my mind, at this point in my life I can't even fathom going through another pregnancy. I know it is easier to give advice than take it, and if one of my friends ... (read in full...)
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