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I bled when he fingered me. What's wrong with me?

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Question - (14 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey, i need some advice.

I've been with my boyfriend for just over 2 month now, and last week he fingered me for the first time [i've never been fingered before] and i bled, then he done it again today and i bled..is this normal? why am i bleeding? I'm not anywhere near my period, is there something wrong with me ? :S

please help i'm really worried..

ty

..xo

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008):

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Thanks, all your info had been great. I don't feel so worried now :-D

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (14 November 2008):

it's normal. especially if you have never had anyone finger you before. have you ever touched yourself or used tampons? cause if not it;s probably just your hymen breaking a little. you may find after you have sex for the first time (no rush though!) you will bleed again. but don't panic! it;s normal and will be hardly anything.

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A female reader, Desired23 United States +, writes (14 November 2008):

Desired23 agony auntIf you have never had sex before, it's completely normal for a girl to bleed the first time. Prior to losing your virginity, girls have a thin membrane across their vagina called the hymen, which somewhat blocks the entrance to your vagina, and your bf fingering you could have torn your hymen a bit, causing you to bleed. Sometimes your hymen can tear prior to sex, some sports and activites can cause it to tear, as can tampon use. It's completely normal; if you need more information to ease your anxiety I would suggest webmd.com , which can give you a good overview, help put your mind at ease. :-)

~Des

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