Would it be better for me to have sex with another virgin, or with the girl who I'm in love with?
Q. Hi, I am 16 years old and just met this wonderful girl who I am in love with. However she does not seem to feel the same way. I am still a virgin and she rather prefers a sexual relationship. I know she slept with other men before and I w...
A. 30 December 2005: I know you are 16 and thats the legal age to have sexual intercourse with other people and you would tell me if you could that most people your age have already had sex like this girl you are in love with.
I would say to you take your time in what... (read in full...)
Previous attempts at intercourse hurt a lot...is there something wrong with me?
Q. i am 17 years old, the first time i tried sex was when i was 15 years old, though the guy got in me, it hurt very much , but i new that would happen any way, it wasnt a good experience at all, i thought it could only get better. again in the may i ...
A. 16 December 2005: This is nothing wrong with apart from that you are tensing yourself up and it hurts more and the mans penis won't go in you if that happens.
You are obvoiusly not with the right people if you feel this way and have that happen to you.
When ... (read in full...)
Last year we could only be "friends"... so is his interest now a serious one?
Q. Ok, brace yourselves I met this guy last year, right? and we went for a coffee then started texting each other, He was so sweet, he even texted me on my birthday at midnight!!! Well, after about a week he told me he just wanted to be friends. I wa...
A. 3 December 2005: Your heart is saying yes but your head is saying no. Oh dear. You have to do what you think is best, no one can tell you the real answer to the question as we don't know the guy that you are talking about but you must have been on his mind for the ... (read in full...)
Why would my guy stop contacting me?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months. We talk everyday, on the phone or through the internet. I am at college so I can't physically be with him. Anyway, the past couple days he hasn't called or instant messaged me. It's driving me nuts, ...
A. 3 December 2005: This is where long distance relationships don't always work. You have gota have faith and trust in this lad, and from what you are saying it sounds like you haven't got either. If you are waiting around for his text or call then you are insecure and ... (read in full...)
My best friend only ever talks about her new boyfriend!
Q. I really need some help on this. My best friend has a bf and I'm very happy for her and all that, but it's just that since they're dating she seems changed. I mean all she ever talks about is Joey this, Joey that. It's so annoying but I can't tell ...
A. 3 December 2005: you sound like you worry about a lot of things. Stop worrying and think what you would be like if you were in your best friends shoes, thats what I had to do when I was young. I know at the time its really hard but you'll see in time that it was the ... (read in full...)
Dad rejects my boyfriend..how can I speak up for my bf and myself?
Q. Hi i really need your help...my dad found out that i've been seeing a guy that i meet on hoilday last year, our family's are close we are both muslims. He asked to marry me but my dad said no. he said does not have an education but he works. i love ...
A. 2 December 2005: You are currently in the middle aren't you? I can see why you dad is doing this, he wants to protect his girl and make sure that she will have a secure life ahead. I know that at this moment in time you can only see that you want to be with this ... (read in full...)
I get so drunk, I don't remember anything-my bf is fed up with it all
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and after a year of being really happy together we decided to move in to his flat together, now all we do is argue especially when I have been drinking. Everytime we go out I get blind drunk and ...
A. 2 December 2005: Well you have over come the first part of this shopie, you have admitted to yourself that you have problem when you drink. You love this man I can tell from your question, talk your problem out together and ask him for his support. Get help from ... (read in full...)
Should I find a random girl to kiss, just to get me started?
Q. Hi, I am 18 and have never had a girlfriend and never even kissed a girl. Do you think it would be good for me to pull a random girl in a club to boost my confidence? I have always thought that my first kiss would be (with someone) special. What do ...
A. 2 December 2005: There is only you at the end of the day that knows the right answer to this question. You are the one who has to do it. If you just pull any girl to kiss would you be able to to forget this because you state that you thought it would be with som... (read in full...)
I get erections easily and instantly and it's very annoying!
Q. hello, i am an 18 year old male, and, whenever i am in a club dancing with a girl, or even just squeeze their bum as i walk past them, or hold their hand, or hug them - the smallest sexual things - i get an erection, and it is really annoying. I ...
A. 2 December 2005: You are young, you find everyone around you attractive and this makes you horny. At this time in your life your hormones are all over the place and it is a time when you flirt like mad. Thisis normal for guys to have this happen, don't be afraid. ... (read in full...)
My son-in-law dumped his sex problems with my daughter-in my lap. How do I talk to her about it?
Q. My son-in-law has placed a problem on me with regard to my daughter not responding in bed. I have no idea how to bridge this as in October she went through a bad bout of depression which ended up in her trying to take her own life. I was under the ...
A. 2 December 2005: I know this is your daughter and you feel responsible that you have to help her. O.k you helped her in the first stages of her depresson and she over come them and now she has gone back again, stop and think is she unhappy with her marriage and that... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to man even younger than my current bf...what should I do?
Q. I am so confused I am in a relationship of five years that I am not happy with (that is another story) I have been unhappy for a while now I met a man that I am very interested in but the only problem is that he is 22 years old and I am 42 my ...
A. 2 December 2005: I will say to you what I would say to myself if I was in your situation, age is a number. People can think what they like. my happiness comes first. You sound to me as though you are very unhappy with the relationship that you are in at present,... (read in full...)
Can he love me if he kissed another girl?
Q. Firstly,sorry for the long question. My bf of 3 years recently kissed another girl. He was always completely against cheating and would be really disgusted if any of his friends cheated on theiir gf. He's v embarassed and confused at mo because he...
A. 2 December 2005: Your ex is only human and yes he kissed somebody else but it probably wasn't a kiss because he liked her it was probably a drunken mistake that he regrets vey much. If he really did kiss her to hurt you then why would he be calling you and trying to ... (read in full...)
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