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writes: Ok, brace yourselvesI met this guy last year, right? and we went for a coffee then started texting each other, He was so sweet, he even texted me on my birthday at midnight!!!Well, after about a week he told me he just wanted to be friends. I was gutted obviously.I still have feelings for this guy, and about a year on, without much contact, he suddenly wants to know I exist. And it turns out we are at the same college(Wales) and he wanted to meet up at a break, and when I went to meet him, he brought his friend.He's always asking if I am up to anything tonight, but I don't think my parents would approve. He also said he "wants a gf". I'm not sure, I mean, could I just be a backup?I really still like him.please help me!!!thanks :)
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reader, deirde +, writes (3 December 2005):
Your heart is saying yes but your head is saying no. Oh dear.You have to do what you think is best, no one can tell you the real answer to the question as we don't know the guy that you are talking about but you must have been on his mind for the past year if all of a sudden he wants to know you.If I were you I would go for it but say in control all of the time and make him play it your way just like you had to play it his way the past year.Take care and have fun.
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