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writes: I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months. We talk everyday, on the phone or through the internet. I am at college so I can't physically be with him. Anyway, the past couple days he hasn't called or instant messaged me. It's driving me nuts, because I catch myself just waiting around for him. He did this before a few weeks ago and then told me he "went on vacation with his family for a couple of days"- without telling me before. This time I know he is not away anywhere. I've begun to wonder if maybe he is seeing someone else. I don't know; what other reasons could there be?
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (3 December 2005):
 This guy is not worth sitting around waiting for, he has now run out of excuses, hence the silence. Even if he did go on holiday, he could still have sent you messages, dont you think? Dont waste another moment of your precious life and move on to someone who can appreciate you. Good Luck, and take care.
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reader, deirde +, writes (3 December 2005):
This is where long distance relationships don't always work. You have gota have faith and trust in this lad, and from what you are saying it sounds like you haven't got either. If you are waiting around for his text or call then you are insecure and need him to carry on with life. What had you used to do before you met this lad, had a good time I bet. Stop worrying about what he is doing and get on with your life, he will then realise what he is missing. If he doesn't then you know where you stand with him, don't let it show to him that it bothers you coz some men actually like this. I know its hard to do, I have had to do it and it is very hard but believe me you will be so proud of yourself when you have done it.Leave him alone for now and wait for him to contact you when he is ready.
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