Is this the end of Dear Cupid?
Q. Is this site reaching the end of its life? Not to say that I want it to be but are we actually providing a genuine service to anybody any more? Back in the "good old days" we'd have a couple of hundred questions posted every month. Now we do...
A. 20 December 2021: Honestly, I think this site has so much potential but we can all agree it is being wasted. I have been on and off this site for some time and I can remember being an admin on the days you talked about.
The fact is this site has so much potentia... (read in full...)
My fiance eats so much and takes so long before we can have sex. Why is she like this?
Q. I've been with my fiancee for 2 years, the wedding's off due to COVID but we've been together for 5 years as a couple. She's a great girl, lovely, kind, helpful, always has some project on the go here. Sex is the big issue. It's not that she...
A. 19 December 2021: Ever considered diabetes? Your finance ever been tested? Im just noticing there is a lot of sugar rush items there. If someone is doing something like this it then it tends to indicate either physiological or psychological compensation for something ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend isn't enough for me anymore
Q. My boyfriend is not enough for me anymore. I have always thought it wouldn’t matter that he’s short, cause he was in shape. Then, he got fat. Refuses to work out which I do. We don’t even look like a couple. Then he got grumpy. Is in weird angry ...
A. 15 December 2021: Yes it is time to break up. I understand the reasons you may feel like this is a bad time but honestly, I think you are headed to a place where you could end up doing something you are going to regret even more than breaking up with him at a bad ... (read in full...)
Do I just walk away?
Q. I’m feeling really undecided right now. I’m coming up to my 30th birthday. I have a good job, good friends and family. I have met an older man, 16 year age difference. He has a daughter 18 and a son 12 to one woman. No problems there. He has a 10 ...
A. 7 December 2021: This is the problem when there is a kid involved in the sense that you have to realise she will never be out of his life entirely if they are co-parenting. It is always power she will have over him as well because, credit too him, he loves his kid ... (read in full...)
Is my husband playing me?
Q. Hello So, my husband and have been married approximately 4 years. He is from a different country, and we have been living apart until his visa gets approved. I don't believe it will happen because he can not even get a visiting visa (he is alwa...
A. 4 December 2021: Why is his visa always mysteriously declined?
There are enough gaps in all this to at least suspect reasonably you could be being played. His foolishness could be something else, actually, it is a symptom of some mental illnesses, however,... (read in full...)
I feel disrespected and unappreciated by my husband
Q. My husband runs a business that has been shut on and off over the last couple of years and potentially will be again. So he's very stressed. Before that he was in a business relationship with a lazy narcissist. He said it was the worst few years of ...
A. 4 December 2021: No your not being selfish. Relationships are a two way street and once they become anything over than that they are effectively over in any meaningful sense of the word.
Having said that, since there has been no infidelity, I would counsel ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is making me choose between her an an old friend
Q. I need some advice on a situation in my relationship that is becoming more perilous and toxic as each day passes to put it all into context I have to provide a bit of a background, which I will keep as small as possible. before and during my...
A. 4 December 2021: This is a difficult one because you have put yourself in this position but you rightly say there is no point crying over spilt milk now, the past is the past, and you have to focus on the future.
I don't think it's necessarily too late but it w... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend just controlling or is he mentally ill?
Q. Hi friends. This topic is a hard one to discuss and I hope you can all help me. I'm at a desperate point in my life now where I need answers or some advice on which way to go next. Please don't see me as weak in anyway because I am not. I've been ...
A. 4 December 2021: Firstly, no you should not change for him. I don't see any dichotomy between being high maintenance and being mentally ill to be honest, one usually follows the other.
To me, the only question that matters here, is he willing to help himself ... (read in full...)
My friend is all about her boyfriend
Q. My friend is all around her new boyf. Her joy is overly as she calls him more than normal. i sound jealous but its true....
A. 29 November 2021: You sound jealous because you are, sorry, but it's true. You should accept this, embrace it, and then you can actually begin to deal with it. Are you jealous because he's taking your friend away from you or are you jealous because you want something ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend loves drugs and alcohol
Q. My bf is madly inlove with alcohol and also,takes drugs but at minimal Ive tried talking sense into him He doesn`t care!...
A. 28 November 2021: Right, he sounds like an addict. I know how this feels because I have this with my occasional partner BUT the question you need to be asking and tackling is the why.
Some addicts are addicts through choice however, unscientifically I think it... (read in full...)
Do I confront my husband about his work crush?
Q. I have no idea if I’m overthinking this so I need some advice please. 3 years ago a new girl joined my husbands workplace. He would sometimes mention her but not excessively. She is in her 20’s and very attractive (engaged) so I kind ...
A. 27 November 2021: I think yes you do speak to him about it but you need to do it carefully and you need to do it at a time when you can do it without your own feelings spiralling out of control.
The real issue is, I believe, the fact that somewhere deep down you... (read in full...)
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