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anonymous
writes:My friend is all around her new boyf.Her joy is overly as she calls him more than normal.i sound jealous but its true.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2021): Be pleased for her. Personally what I cannot stand and won't put up with is women who only want to phone or meet up for a chat when things are going badly in their relationship and they want to sick up all of their moans and groans about the guy for hours each time. Then when things are ok they are nowhere to be seen, too busy for their friends they took for granted. At least this woman is still making time for you.
Not only wanting you when it is to help her feel better.
Get your own life in order. Then she will be happy for you as you are happy for her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2021): Yeah, I know what you mean. It's a fresh romance, and she has probably been longing for a boyfriend for a long-time. She'll go a little overboard at-first; but things will level-off over time. She's showing-off a bit too! I know how it can get on your nerves..."my bf this, and my bf that!" It's okay to be a little jealous, just don't let jealousy make you a wedge between them. That's a way to ruin your friendship.
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reader, kenny +, writes (29 November 2021):
 She is enjoying the honeymoon period of the start of a new relationship where everything is beautiful, magical, and fun. This does not last forever, i'm sure when the newness wears off a bit she will not be calling him as much as she does now.
I'm assuming that you have not lost contact with her?.
Just get on with your life, still stay in contact with her, and try to be happy for her as well.
I'm sure the time will come soon when you become smitten with someone and you will be doing the same things your friend is doing.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (29 November 2021):
 Many people are like this, they get a new partner, and the new partner and the relationship become the center of their universe. The "newness" will wear off and then she will want to hang out with friends again.
DO your own thing, hang out with other friends, get on with life. She will come back to her friendships soon enough.
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reader, DarrellGood +, writes (29 November 2021):
 You sound jealous because you are, sorry, but it's true. You should accept this, embrace it, and then you can actually begin to deal with it. Are you jealous because he's taking your friend away from you or are you jealous because you want something like what they have in your life? I dont know but you need to figure that out.
They are in the honeymoon phase and who would want to ruin anyone's honeymoon? You are to a large degree going to have to tough this out, if you want the friendship to continue at any rate. It will all settle down and pass eventually, we don't know where, dont know when, but it will.
Take this opportunity to work on yourself having completed step 1 and identified why you are so jealous. Make some positive life changes and go out and grab what you know you deserve. Good luck.
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