He tells me that the porn mags and movies are no big deal, but they are to me!
Q. I have been with this guy for 5 yrs. He is not a very open person, it is just the way his family is. Anyway, I'm 37 and he is 27. He recently proposed. I accepted. I have never been married nor has he. I do have 2 teenagers but they are not the prob...
A. 16 May 2005: I think it's terrible that he is doing this to you. I bet you feel like you're not good enough to be as good as the pictures and videos and crap. Just say if it's no big number then let's watch it together and stuff and then he's be on the stand and ... (read in full...)
My best mate treats his wife terribly... but I've loved her for 12 years.
Q. I have been in love with my best mate's wife since I met her 12 years ago. 3 years ago she started going out with him. He treated her like a queen at first, but now he's just nasty to her and ignores her. I'm so jealous. I couldn't believe it when ...
A. 16 May 2005: If I were you I would tell her that I loved her and try to help and comfort her as much as I could and just do as much as I could to make it known that I love her. And I also agree with Rainee totally. Good luck.....Just remember even if you don't ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hugs other girls, but not me...
Q. Why wont my bf hug me when he sees me, but he hugs other girls? ...
A. 16 May 2005: Maybe he could feel comfortable with his friends and maybe he feels so nervous around the person who he loves and cares about....at least that's how I feel about the girl I like and my friends.... (read in full...)
My g/f does a Jekyll-and-Hyde impersonation after she's out with a particular friend...
Q. Hello, please advise me. I am a 26yr old male. I have been living with my girlfriend for the last month and a half. We have been together for 10 months. Our relationship seems to be going from excellent to bad. The problem is when ever she gets...
A. 16 May 2005: I'd ask her to try not to hang out with the friend that much and see how she acts differently. When she is acting bad and good and just see what she says and see if you can talk to the friend about the infuence on your g/f and see if she could stop, ... (read in full...)
I know I'm not ready for a relationship, but I want to tell him what a great friend he's been...
Q. Dear Cupid, I've made friends with a really great guy at college, and we are due to finish this summer, when he will probably move home. I absolutely love this guy as a friend, and i think i would like to have more than that, but at the moment i...
A. 16 May 2005: That's a tuff one and I'd say you'd have to decide if you love him as a friend or as a boyfriend, if you want to call it that. So I guess you would have to make up your mind pretty soon I guess if you want to start dating and stuff. I'm not the best ... (read in full...)
My bf wears his wedding ring on a chain around his neck. It makes me feel like I don't count!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two years. He has been divorced for about a year or so but he still wears his wedding ring on his necklace. This makes me feel like I am nothing in comparsion to his ex. He never tells me he loves me. When I a...
A. 16 May 2005: If it's bothering you that much then say if you're not together with your ex then why do you still have it and stuff. Sorry if this doesn't help you.... (read in full...)
My heart tells me this guy is The One, but we're only friends right now.
Q. How good is a woman's intuition? I met a man a few years ago and instantly thought he looked liked a wonderful person - the kind of man you could marry. We didn't really know each other then though. But over the last 6 months we've been back in ...
A. 16 May 2005: Hi that's a tuffy one I'd say...hmmmm.....If you love him or care for him then go for it and ask him out. I'm in that difficaulty right now except a few different things, so I hope you and me get it all straightened out and can get our problems ... (read in full...)
Just can't stand the way my bf's ex is so touchy-feely with him!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years. The only problem is his ex-girlfriend. I cant stand her and she feels the same about me. They were together for five years and I feel like I just can't compete. Whenever I bring it up with my ...
A. 16 May 2005: I don't know about you but if I were you I would say "if you love me then don't talk to your old ex g/f or I'm gone". At least, thats what I would do if I were you.... (read in full...)
Can't seem to stop myself from snooping on my boyfriend!
Q. I'm a jealous person and I always thinks my man is cheating on me. It gets to the point where I try to figure out his passwords to his emails and stuff, just so I could read his emails to see if he has anything from any other girls. I know it's ...
A. 16 May 2005: well I haven't really dated or anything like that, but I do kinda, sorta have a friend that is.........never mind...I can understand your reason that you would spy on your b/f if he has been with other girls when he was supposed to be with YOU!!! ... (read in full...)
I like him, but he's 2 years younger than me. Is he too young?
Q. I am 18 and I really like someone who's 16 and male. I don't know what to do. Is he too young for me?...
A. 16 May 2005: Now I know this is just coming from a 12 year old guy but I do have some advice. All I say is, as long as you love or care for one another than it's okay I think. You're like who cares what a 12 year old kid says, right? I really like this girl ... (read in full...)
When we're apart, I keep worrying that my b/f is going to find out he's too good for me...
Q. I keep questioning the relationship between my boyfriend and I. I analyze every little thing he says in letters, emails, on a site we both use, on the phone. I don't do it as often when him and I are together in person. I'm not sure what to make ...
A. 16 May 2005: I don't hold myself that highly that much and everything... because I hang out with people that don't really treat me highly. So I guess the most advice I can give you is: just hang out with the right people and don't think of yourself as nothing, ... (read in full...)
When I told my partner that I'm pregnant, he said I have to choose between having him and having our child!
Q. Hi I am a girl of 16 and my partner is 24. I fell pregnant after 3 months of being with my partner. I told him and ignored me for 2 days and then he phoned me to go for a dinner with him and I agreed, so we met and he said he doesn't want the child. ...
A. 16 May 2005: Hi I think that's a pretty hard decision because you love him and everything and I assume that you want to not have an abortion I'm 12 years old and I don't really like people to have an abortion because I don't know....I just don't think it's rig... (read in full...)
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