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writes: I keep questioning the relationship between my boyfriend and I. I analyze every little thing he says in letters, emails, on a site we both use, on the phone. I don't do it as often when him and I are together in person. I'm not sure what to make of it. Perhaps I'm afraid of things ending and lately paranoid he will find someone else. The thing is he doesn't realize he's too good for me because I am his first girlfriend, so I suppose he hasn't seen what exactly the best is yet. I really need advice! Or even opinions! Please help. Thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, envy +, writes (18 May 2005):
stand in front of a mirror and take a good long look at yourself girl, thinking of evrything you have to offer, love, companionship, passion, personality, looks etc.....you'll soon see it aint as bad as you think you just need to give yourself a confidence boost hun.
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reader, dan102938 +, writes (16 May 2005):
I don't hold myself that highly that much and everything... because I hang out with people that don't really treat me highly. So I guess the most advice I can give you is: just hang out with the right people and don't think of yourself as nothing, or crap or not good enough or anything like that.
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reader, HappyTimeHarry +, writes (16 May 2005):
My opinion is you gotta stop being insecure, then step back a little and think. Who exactly is the best? Why can't you be the best for him? You can't let yourself be so obsessed either. You gotta assume that something could go wrong, and if that happens you don't want to be emotionally dependent on any one person. I know that sounds extreme, but I've suffered a lot of pain because a few people I thought I couldn't live without walked out on me, turned on me, or died. I'm not downing you at all, but you have to love yourself more than you do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2005): You are obviously lacking self confidence; just be yourself. You're trying too hard to impress this guy. If you really want this guy in your life stop worrying! A relationship is never going to work if there are too many doubts.
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