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I am 12 weeks pregnant is it safe for me and my partner to make love while we are in the bath...?

Q.   I am 12 weeks pregnant is it safe for me and my partner to make love while we are in the bath, as I am nice and relaxed when I am in the bath....

A.   31 July 2007: I hear that having sex whilst pregnant is good for you and the baby...watch knocked up x... (read in full...)

How do I ask him to be my secret boyfriend?

Q.   I am 12 and I really like a guy. His family and my family are really good friends. I even told him I like him and he said he sorta like me too. I want to go out with him but my parents do not allow me to date. I want to ask him does he wanna be my ...

A.   31 July 2007: You have to tell him the truth. Say that your parents cannot find out about the relationship until you are a bit older. Otherwise just talk to your parents, tell them its harmless and he's a good guy. Good luck x... (read in full...)

I want to move in with my boyfriend, but my parents dont approve of him

Q.   Hi, Im 20 years old and im going to be in my final year at uni in september.i am wanting to move in with my boyfriend but dont know how to tell my parents. i know my parents aren't really keen on my current boyfriend as i dated him about 3 years ago ...

A.   26 July 2007: If this is really what you want to do, then they will have to deal with it. I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 27... my parents certainly do not approve, but remember you can't please everyone. Whatever makes you happy. Tell them the honest truth and that ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and my 17 year old boyfriend and I had sex; he said he'd pull out when he came but I don't think he did it fast enough. Could I be pregnant?

Q.   hiya im a 13 year old girl,and i lost my virginity to my 17 year old boyfriend on saturday but we didnt use a condom!and now im scared incase im pregnant!!befor we had sex he said that befor cuming in my vagina he will remove his penis but im not to ...

A.   26 July 2007: the first time i had sex i did the exact same thing, i was so drunk i didnt care we didnt use a condom...BIG mistake.. i wont go into it but make sure you use one in the future.. also this boyfriend of yours is not doing the right thing, you are too ... (read in full...)

It won't go in...

Q.   Me and my girlfriend are both virgins. When me and my Gf tried having sex, my penis just wouldn't go in. Can anyone help me out here?...

A.   26 July 2007: had the same problem, you may need to use a lubricant to help, and remember its scary for a girl the first time, she was probably tense... make sure she is relaxed and you are VERY gentle. xx... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is 19 years older than me and I am worried about our future

Q.   Hi I have currently been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we are very happy together. However, i have major concerns about the age gap. I am 22 and he is 19 years older than me. He is divorced with no children. I am worried that this will c...

A.   26 July 2007: wow hunny and i thought my 10 year gap was a problem. well you know what, i really don't think it is, although you have the have lots in common with them and be equally mature! you are still young so don't go making any quick decisions, give it ... (read in full...)

I'm 16 and my 23 year old crush knows I like him; he has a girlfriend but he says he doesn't like her anymore

Q.   Hi i am 16 and i like this boy/man who is 23 is this wrong? he knows i like him but he has a girlfriend at the minute. He calls her names and says he doesnt like her anymore. I really like him alot though any ideas on how i could get over him? ...

A.   26 July 2007: first of all i don't think he's a very nice guy to be bagging his girlfriend to you..if he doesn't like her, tell him to break up with her! second of all, the age difference in nothing, im 17 and my boyfriend is 27, although its a big number if you ... (read in full...)

All my friends make fun of me for being a virgin!

Q.   i have just turned sixteen in june. all my friends are a few months older than me but all lost their virginity when they just turned 15. so i have now turned into their virgin friend. when were are all out together and the subject of sex turns into ...

A.   26 July 2007: sweety don't you worry - i lost my virginity when i was 17, with a 27 yr old guy and then they got left out of the conversation because they hed only been with immature 17 yr old boys who dont know what they are doing. trust me, waiting to do it ... (read in full...)

I really like my older cousin and dont know what to do!

Q.   i have a crush on my 2nd cousin. he is 20 and i am 13. the problem is i really try to forget about him, but i'm constantly thinking about him. and even when i have a crush on other guys i still think about him. it's driving me mad , but on the oth...

A.   26 July 2007: sorry to say that i dont thing you can do anything - its kinda gross, seeing he is your cousin and you are only 13 still, wait a couple of years. good luck xxx... (read in full...)

Does my tutor fancy me?

Q.   Does my tutor fancy me? Right now I'm in school, one of my subjects is tech design. I have this male teacher whos like 25 26ish. I spend loads of time in the tech rooms in my free lessons so i spend loads of time with him. A week or two ago was t...

A.   26 July 2007: Hi there, thanks so much for answering my question! I think your tutor does like you, its obvious by all the little things he's been doing - even so much as looking into your eye for a bit, you can tell... also the fact that he is your teacher (usu... (read in full...)

I want to know how to please them.

Q.   HELP!! i am 13 and getting really sexual feeling when ever i talk to any guy! i am not ready to have sex or anything but i really am curious on how to give a head job, hand job, blow job and other things! PLEASE my curiosity is really starting to ...

A.   26 July 2007: i know you probably don't want to hear it sweety, but 13 is too young for sex or anything sexual... just wait a while and it will all come to you... especially don't do it all with some random guy. be careful xx... (read in full...)

Does race matter?

Q.   Hi im wandering about a year ago i got into girls but its really hard for me to get even close to starting something. i know a girl luran thats really nice but i dont have a chance as she is black and im white so that may not go but were good ...

A.   26 July 2007: well the main thing i look for in a guy in a good sense of humour, honestly boys who are funny and smart can charm any girl! in terms of clothes and stuff, don't try to be too cool, just wear clothes that suit you and arn't dorky..follow the ... (read in full...)

Is there any way a physical and abusive husband can ever change ?

Q.   Hi all! i would like to know if there is any possibility that a verbally wrong/abusive and psysically abusive/bully husband can become 'normal' with time? (he does not drink, no drugs). if so, how long can this 'transformation' take? how can on...

A.   25 July 2007: One thing I've learnt is that an abusive husband DOESN'T change - I'm so sorry to tell you this but its better you get out now rather than later. He isnt worth the pain in the long run, my cousin has had an abusive husband and it started off small ... (read in full...)

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