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writes:i have a crush on my 2nd cousin. he is 20 and i am 13.the problem is i really try to forget about him, but i'm constantly thinking about him. and even when i have a crush on other guys i still think about him.it's driving me mad , but on the other side i don't wanna forget about him and stop liking him and just like him as a cousin or a brother.we're so close to each other we tell each other everything and i can't help but get all happy when he comes and hugs me and tries to cheer me up. sometimes it feels like he is my boyfriend , but i keep wondering if he feels the same.it's like i'm always giving him a chance. i dont know what to do!i wish i didn't like him in the first place , i am usually upset because of that...any advice?sorry i don't have an account.
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reader, daisy99999  +, writes (26 July 2007):
 sorry to say that i dont thing you can do anything - its kinda gross, seeing he is your cousin and you are only 13 still, wait a couple of years. good luck xxx
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (26 July 2007):
 i think that you may be just confused as to wat you are feeling - you are 13 and just coming into being sexually attracted to others. this can sometimes result in attraction towards same sex or relatives. he is your cousin and it would be wrong for him to take advantage of that - and your age. i think you may just think you are attracted to him because he is the first guy to pay attention to you and be friendly towards you which may give you the wrong idea. i think that you should try and get out and meet guys your own age - you will soon get this out of your mind and meet others that you will fancy also. just try not to worry and get out there and meet new ppl!!hope this helps xxx
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