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Should I help pay for my new stepdaughter's college?

Q.   I am a male in the USA in my 40's. I plan on getting married again in a few months. I have 2 young sons age 9 and 6. I pay support for them and see them 3 times a week. One child likes my GF the other one does not. She also does not get along with ...

A.   24 August 2010: oh my god you seem to be sucha special guy any woman would be lucky to have you !!! to be honest your kids your own flesh and blood should come first i think you should stay abay and not pay if you ask me once you join accounts she will want more ... (read in full...)

Is it too early to start talking Marriage??

Q.   Hey everyone i have a dilemma when i was in the 5th grade i met my first love we broke up in sixth grade and started back talking in high school about 3years ago but he was very conceited and stuck up now we are both 20 and now he have a daughter ...

A.   24 August 2010: way too early think this way 21 to 25 lovers 25 to the end marraige men have more power at marraied life !!!!!... (read in full...)

Shaving down there...

Q.   Basically,I have been in a relationship for 3 years and my boyfriend always requested i shaved down there.....now that i am single i am wondering is this a normal thing and what do most other people do? thanks:)...

A.   24 August 2010: welll i hate shaven down der as it becomes so itchy so i let it grow till the cows come homme xxx... (read in full...)

Ignoring me all over again!! what gives??

Q.   Ok so I was with my ex for 8 months. We lived together, both had our own kids, the works. I was madly in love with him as I thought he was as well. Well we had a huge fight and he ended up moving out. I called/texted/emailed him almost daily. It was ...

A.   24 August 2010: he is playing hard to get my friend dump him for he will always be doing this to you girl power !!! xxxxx... (read in full...)

I'm grossed out over a guy I kissed before summer!

Q.   Ok, so here's the deal...I have a boyfriend right? we dated for like 2 weeks then school ended and it was summer. before summer began we went to a party together and ended having our first kiss. During these two months of summer i've been missing ...

A.   24 August 2010: ohhh my god that mushy feelin of gross ness is love hehehe you like him so keep him dnt make mistake by going for the cute guy go for the guy who gives you the mushy feelin xxxx... (read in full...)

Girlfriend is still hurting after sex !

Q.   Me and my girlfriend were both virgin's but after 8 months of being together decided to have sex for the first time. I've read in articles that sex can hurt first time for her but we have had sex numerous times now and she is still hurting ...

A.   23 August 2010: maybe she should see a doctor would she have sists ??... (read in full...)

Over 65 and my wife no longer wants sex

Q.   My wife has no more interest in sex. When I ask her what the problem is? She just says that she has lost all interest in sex. My question is, If I have sex with another woman would that be cheating? P.S. We are both over 65....

A.   23 August 2010: no sex ouch !!! talk to her tell her if she dosent give you sex your realationship may fall apart hope this helps xxxx... (read in full...)

Is it bad for a woman to date someone 3 years younger?

Q.   I am 20 years old, fixing to be 21 in a few weeks.. and I really like this guy who is 17 years old. He can act pretty mature for his age but i'm not sure what others would think? Is it bad for a girl to date someone who is 3 years younger? ...

A.   23 August 2010: hehehe dnt be silly woman who are older than a man is great i got a sister who is going out with a guy who is 4 years younger plus if you like em go for it life is short xxxx... (read in full...)

I'm thinking he does not fancy me anymore

Q.   My partner has always been very attentive to me. Just lately though I have noticed him checking out women who are half my age. It makes me feel so inadequate + i feel very angry + jealous. I have not felt like this before in our relationship - as ...

A.   23 August 2010: oh you poor thing how do you know he was cheeking out girls were did you seethis i may help you !!!... (read in full...)

I'm upset how my friend disciplined her children, wondering if I should call children's services?

Q.   It’s a bit of a strange one this but the yesterday my friend walloped her two children right in front of me, now I’m wondering whether to call children’s’ services. She’s got two girls, one 11 and other 13. She’s a single mom and each can be a bit...

A.   23 August 2010: hi i just read your mail and was quite shocked myself i think you should not ring now as you may be in trouble you need more evidence if i was you i would wait to see does she do it again if she does then you should contact hope thiss helps xxx... (read in full...)

Kissing Cousins!

Q.   Kissing Cousins. I have read many questions on this site about cousins that are "in love". For some of these couples I really do believe that they love each other. But cousins are still your family. And cousins that are couples who are 1st cousins ...

A.   23 August 2010: dnt go out with family you babies will turn out funny through fact my cousins married and the baby developed wrong plus it isnt fair on the baby !!!... (read in full...)

I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!

Q.   I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has...

A.   23 August 2010: no offencegirl but when you love someone dnt be afraid to show it marry him !!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

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