My dressing up sexy for him does nothing. He tells me he's too tired for sex. Can our relationship survive this?
Q. Does my boyfriend lie to me that he loves me if he doesn't want to have sex with me? We`ve been together for almost 2 years. But recently we just stopped having a sexual relationship. The reason is not me. He says that he is tired and doesn't ...
A. 28 July 2005: hi
you say he is not interested and putting sexy clothes does nothing for yet, yet you say it does for other guys. is this the only approach you can use. have you discussed this issue with him how long has it been like this.maybe you should make... (read in full...)
I got drunk and did something totally out of character for me...
Q. I have always been the biggest "goody two shoes" in my school. I recently graduated from high school and after I did I tried my first bit of alcohol. Later in the summer I went to the beach with a bunch of my friends. All of them have ahd sexual ...
A. 26 July 2005: well if you say he didnt go in and you never bled, what I can conclude is that you are still 'whole' physically.' Emotionally you are not feeling ok. Try not to put so much strain on yourself and relax.... (read in full...)
Why won't my girlfriend hug or kiss me first?
Q. I think that im too overpowering in my realtionship... I'm always the one to start a kiss, or a hug, or anything at all... I feel bad because she never does... I don't know, when we first started going out I told her I wasn't in this relationshi...
A. 14 July 2005: hi you dont say for how long you are going out? therefore cannot make a full conclusion. but what i can observe is that you putting too much emphasis on who does what etc etc. stop focusing on irrelevant things and start concentrating on the wond... (read in full...)
If I kiss her, I'm afraid I'm too forward. If I don't, I'm afraid I'm a wuss...
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating about four months and we live about fifty miles apart, but we always see each other when ever possible. I really like her but I don't know if she feels the same way for me. We are always keeping in touch on...
A. 14 July 2005: Don't dwell on the issue..."what if". Make a move and don't be shy. You have so much to gain and nothing to lose. Make the first move by saying 'I'd like to kiss you....' and take it from there......... (read in full...)
We like each other, but he's my friend's boyfriend...
Q. I'm a freshy in the university. I've met many new friends. One day I met my friend's boyfriend, I think he quite likes me and I feel that too. We exchaged our phone number and went out together. But the trouble is he's my friend's boyfriend. Please...
A. 14 July 2005: dear three is a crowd put yourself in this position: how would you feel if it was your boyfriend doing what you did? not only are you making things worse for yourself but for your boyfriend and his friend. just leave things alone.... (read in full...)
I'd like to spend all my time with my boyfriend, and it hurts that he doesn't feel the same!
Q. I find myself wanting to spend every free second of my day with my live in boyfriend, even though we have been together for a while now. He makes me so happy that I really think I could never get tired of being around him. It hurts my feelings that ...
A. 12 July 2005: hi there in short dear you are living with your boyfriend and you are spending a lot of time together. now you wanting to spend more time with him will only make things worse than what they are. maybe he feels he is being suffocated. try to make him... (read in full...)
I'd like to try some new things - even sex! - with my boyfriend, but he couldn't care less!
Q. I am 21 and I don't have the most experience. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and the most we have ever done is some heavy petting. I don't know for sure but I think he might be a virgin (he's 27). We have a great relation...
A. 12 July 2005: hi there this answer is twofold. firstly we need to uncover what your boyfriends preferances are around sex.find out what he likes and dislikes about it. talk to him about this. i believe that talking about your sex preferances with your partner ... (read in full...)
This will be my first time having sex and I'm worried I won't know what to do!
Q. It's my first time having sex and I don't really know what to do. If I'm having sex in the missionary position do I just lie still or should I move with the bloke? It seems a silly question but I'm nervous I won't know what to do....
A. 11 July 2005: like all great things your first time requires you to take your time and relax. relaxing is a major issue because if you are anxious your muscles in and around your vagina becomes tense and this makes penetration very difficult for your partner. ... (read in full...)
My friend and I are pursuing the same woman!
Q. What should I do ? If my friend and I like the same woman. My friend and I liked the same woman . My friend is the best friend but we liked the same woman . We studied in same faculty but the woman studied different faculty . When I know he l...
A. 11 July 2005: dear friend i tell many of my friends, women or men come and go but friends are forever. if he is a real friend, tell him how you feel. if he understands how you feel about the lady then he would then back off. then pursue her. but if he doesnt w... (read in full...)
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