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writes: I think that im too overpowering in my realtionship...I'm always the one to start a kiss, or a hug, or anything at all... I feel bad because she never does...I don't know, when we first started going out I told her I wasn't in this relationship for sex and I'm not. I love her but I feel too overpowering. She never once started a kiss or a hug. I'm feeling unwanted but then I can tell in her voice she wants me. I'm confused. This is the longest realionship i've ever had. What should I do??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2005): ok im the same guy from the "Why won't my girlfriend hug or kiss me first?" questions,p /p /me and my girl have been goin out for about 3 months and i am away from her right now for 2 long weeks, and i miss her...as soon as i get back i goin ot hold her forever....p /p /i know she likes me alot but she doesnt really show it, i give her space, i dont try to stop her from seeing her friends but she doesnt show her affection until after i start like hanging on her shoulder or kiss her on the cheek...i think she is shy... i am her first boy friend....but i love her no matter what...i dont plan on just goin out with her to get in her pants, if i wanted to get in a girls pants i would have gone out with a slut...anyways, thanks for your help..p /p /sincerlyp /EJ....
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reader, becky05 +, writes (14 July 2005):
Maybe shes not a very physical person or shes scared to make the first move. Tell her this makes you worried and see if things progress from there.
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reader, Courts +, writes (14 July 2005):
hiyou dont say for how long you are going out? therefore cannot make a full conclusion. but what i can observe is that you putting too much emphasis on who does what etc etc. stop focusing on irrelevant things and start concentrating on the wonderful person you are going out with.i dont know if she is to she but maybe she senses that you are stressing to much on the 'who does what issue' leave that and start focusing on what needs attention surely things will go better from there
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reader, ticketman +, writes (14 July 2005):
are you a pisces? i used to be the same way when i was younger. you will grow out of the constant need for affection to know that someone loves you....try not making the first move so much and let her do it, its kinda of a head game women play w/ themselves. they want something they cant have just like us, so if you arent always offering it first then maybe she will want it more... i would bet that you and girlfriend never spend a weekend apart w/ friends either. try giving her space or a chance to miss you it may re-ignite the flame you had for each other in the beginning...try it couldnt hurt. good luck
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reader, namless_lover +, writes (14 July 2005):
Believe me, I know how it is, but romance her, flirt a little, make those feelings she has come to the top, if you can do that she won't hold back. Hope it helps!
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