If virginity is so important, why is it that you are supposed to get over someone's past?
Q. Dear cupid, Why should I not expect a virgin as I save my virginity for the right person ? and Why should I get over her past when the girl is not a virgin ? I see there's double-standard on this, People say it's good to keep virginity beca...
A. 15 January 2010: I mean what happens is, people can think they are with the right person or have sex for other reasons and then their circumstances change. The person you are with is not who you thought they were (I had this with my husband, we were together 6 years ... (read in full...)
If virginity is so important, why is it that you are supposed to get over someone's past?
Q. Dear cupid, Why should I not expect a virgin as I save my virginity for the right person ? and Why should I get over her past when the girl is not a virgin ? I see there's double-standard on this, People say it's good to keep virginity beca...
A. 15 January 2010: I don't think it's a double standard because the girls aren't the ones who are putting virginity on you, it is a choice for you.
Same as they may have had sex due to a whole host of reasons that are personal to them, virginity is a personal... (read in full...)
I feel unwell after sex, it bolsters his ego but bothers me!
Q. After I have sex with my boyfriend, especially if I have orgasmed, I occasionally feel very faint, disorientated and weak; the other night I had to walk home after sleeping with him but my legs felt so shakey I could barely walk and I just felt as ...
A. 15 January 2010: this is normal! it means you have had a good time basically. And I am a girl! do you always have to get up rightaway? I'd sit or lay down for a bit first. ... (read in full...)
I have never had a girlfriend and wonder love is just a fantasy
Q. Sex vs Love Sex: Well just sex, no feelings compromised, no heartbreaks and a lot of sex stories, but maybe lonely when old. Its real. or Love:Caring for each other, the person you love, you liked becouse of her personality and her looks, ...
A. 15 January 2010: Love is not a fantasy although it's not like it is in the movies or whatever.
There are many different kinds and you can have a very strong love but it can be bad. You can have something which doesn't feel like it is as passionate but is loving a... (read in full...)
I am acting like a jerk because I want her to break up with me
Q. I think I need serious help. I haven't been happy one day in the past 3-4 months after I left my ex. I'm starting to get worried, i'm constantly thinking about her, and I'm always missing her. I'm with a girl I dont even like, I have lately stopped ...
A. 15 January 2010: You need to not have contact with her or your friends who do this, friends wouldn't do that to you. I think it will be hard for another few months but you will be ok, you did the right thing.
I think it's better if you tell this new girl that it'... (read in full...)
I always have a smart comeback, but what do I say if others have a comeback for my comeback?
Q. i was wondering, i always have a smart comback like if someone says bite me id say i dont want any kinda of disease, or if someone says what are you looking at id say, i dunno tell you when i find out, things like that, but just as ofter as i...
A. 15 January 2010: Honestly I am not that bothered with comebacks, sometimes the biggest way to comeback is not to be bothered. No reaction... (read in full...)
I have a live in boyfriend but am finding myself attracted elsewhere
Q. Hi everyone, So this is a little bit long, but I think some back ground info is neccessary for the question: I've been dating my current boyfriend for over a year, and we live together. We get along great... never fight or anything, and I l...
A. 15 January 2010: It is more a question like how much do you love your boyfriend. Sometimes after a long time even the sexiest guys or whatever lose their spark in a relationship so it's more a case of can you see yourself being without your boyfriend?
It seems li... (read in full...)
I don't know which is stronger, my desire to stay with her or my desire to go home to the States
Q. Hello all My situation is a bit complicated. I live in Spain and work in a Symphony Orchestra here. I met a girl, whom I care for very deeply. On many levels, I believe she has to be my soulmate. I love her very much. The problem is, I...
A. 15 January 2010: Is there a way which you could secure the situation there better so you were more able to leave more often. Like go home for one month a year. Not do as much the rest of the time because you are saving to go back. Offer your family to visit.
I'm n... (read in full...)
My ex calls me a slut, how do I deal with this?
Q. I hate my ex, I completely hate him and wish something really bad would happen to him! He has given me crap about my past for YEARS, despite my being completely faithful, not even flirting or checking out other guys, despite my giving up friends for ...
A. 15 January 2010: This reminds me of the guy that I have problems with, in that I am TOOO attached to him despite him being bad for me.
He sounds too similar to be honest. If you look at it like this, a guy who wants to be controlling of you and possibly abusive ... (read in full...)
As soon as we walked out of the church he became a changed man -- and not for the better!
Q. Hi, I am 24 and my husband 20, we have been married for 6 months and I am considering divorce. We met in the military and got along great at first. Now that we are married (there has been no honeymoon stage)I dont really think its going to last. My ...
A. 15 January 2010: He feels like you are his now, which is why he doesn't try anymore. Is there anything you do different now your married, like not go out as much. Maybe you could distance yourself from him a little and then go out on dates again.
I had the same... (read in full...)
Oh no! I have a new boyfriend but am falling for his mate!
Q. I fallin in love with my boyfriend's mate. I cant stop thinking about him. the relationship is new and am his first girlfriend. I need help like badly. what should a do? dump my boyfriend for his mate or forever dream about his mate?...
A. 15 January 2010: You wont forever dream about him it will be ok in a while either way! If you really want to go for it you should leave your boyfriend and then call him or whichever but he might stand by his friend anyway and not want to go for it. I would work out ... (read in full...)
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