Husband on website talking about strap on sex, blood in his underwear! Am I just deluding myself into thinking he is not cheating?
Q. So a while ago i found out my husband was using the adult friend finder website. He addamantly denies meeting anyone he was just talking online... i am pregnant with our second child at the moment and since my mothers passing 2 years ago i have no ...
A. 1 August 2015: Your gut feeling is usually correct. Thats been my experience. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Should I leave him? I'm tired of feeling 'second class' and "not quite good enough for him".
Q. My husband and I have been together now for about 14 years. We have 2 beautiful children. However, i am so sick of dealing with his selfish ways. He has cheated 3 times, the first was about 9 years into our relationship and was a full on relations...
A. 24 October 2012: Financially im stable, i make good money, certainly enough to support myself and my kids. I love him. When i think about leaving him it all sounds good in theory. But when it comes down to it i start freakin out in the inside, i think of how life ... (read in full...)
Should I leave him? I'm tired of feeling 'second class' and "not quite good enough for him".
Q. My husband and I have been together now for about 14 years. We have 2 beautiful children. However, i am so sick of dealing with his selfish ways. He has cheated 3 times, the first was about 9 years into our relationship and was a full on relations...
A. 23 October 2012: Financially im stable, i make good money, certainly enough to support myself and my kids. I love him. When i think about leaving him it all sounds good in theory. But when it comes down to it i start freakin out in the inside, i think of how life ... (read in full...)
Should I leave him? I'm tired of feeling 'second class' and "not quite good enough for him".
Q. My husband and I have been together now for about 14 years. We have 2 beautiful children. However, i am so sick of dealing with his selfish ways. He has cheated 3 times, the first was about 9 years into our relationship and was a full on relations...
A. 23 October 2012: I definitely dont need him for money. I make a little more than double him. He worked and played mr mom while i went to nursing school. I dont know why started cheating but then again maybe he did it before and i never noticed. I really dont know. ... (read in full...)
Married 18 years in a horrible marriage! I need to get out and move on, but I can’t..advice?
Q. Hello I am going out of my head and just need advice. I have been with my husband for over 18 years, no children. The last few years have been the worst of my life and I just feel completely and utterly trapped and alone. My husband and I hav...
A. 7 August 2009: Sometimes you have to walk away without thinking of all the "how's and what ifs" walk first then figure things out later because it will all work out somehow and you will be glad you did. You will start realizing that you love yourself more than you ... (read in full...)
I don't want to push him but my life needs to move on also!
Q. Well I am back.. Just had dinner with my ex again. His words and his actions have given me every indication he wants us to get back together he did his best at expressing himself which is hard for him. (Sometimes I feel that he never knew the ...
A. 30 July 2009: I ygink you should tell him how you feel. If you want him then tell him but also tell him what you want in the relationship and also ask if he is wanting to be together. Make yourself happy first and foremost! There is someone out there that would ... (read in full...)
The programs on tv just make me want a baby!
Q. Heyy :) this isn't a major problem but just something i'm curious about. i've been watching the programmes 'underage and pregnant' and i imagine they were broadcast to try and stop teens from becoming parents and to stop/be more careful when hav...
A. 30 July 2009: Honestly, I have seen a few episodes of that show and I don't think they are trying to make teens not want to have babies. I think they are trying to make money. That's why they made the show to make money not to make teens stay away from pregnancy. ... (read in full...)
I'm married but lonely! What should I do?
Q. I am married with children and I am unhappy. I am not thinking about cheating or anything because I don't think thats fair, but i find myself fantasizing about being in a happy relationship where my husband cares about me. He is not directly mean to ...
A. 29 July 2009: Cheysula, I must say that is great advise. It has been a while since I wrote that. My husband and I ended up splitting up for a while he started trying to find company in other people mainly another woman, we were two people living two lives and ... (read in full...)
Chlamydia testing
Q. Hiya, I have been sent a chlamydia testing kit free by our local NHS (they are sending out free testing kits nationwide to 18-24 year olds). I am 19, and had protected sex (condom) with a partner when I was about 15. I got with my recent partner ...
A. 8 December 2008: Take it. Why not it was free?! I think that you are worrying about something before you even know if you have it. Be safe not sorry. ... (read in full...)
Wife... cheating with another soldier!
Q. I am a soldier currently deployed to Iraq and have been away from home for 5 months now. 2 1/2 months into my deployment my wife admitted to having sex five times with another soldier from my company who was home on medical leave. By the way I ...
A. 8 December 2008: Talking, lots and lots of communication. I think also that some blame is on her no matter what he does. She didnt have to do it. If she is willing to do what it takes for you to get over it then i think it could work out but she has to be sorry and ... (read in full...)
I just like to flirt and I think its fun being single.
Q. I really dont know what to do. Someone please help me. Okay so I have a boyfriend. I met this other guy and have been flirting with him (online) he seems really nice and he wants to hang out. He even told me he wants to hook up. I at least wanna ...
A. 8 December 2008: I think personally that you are young so enjoy it! ... and maybe you shouldnt date anyone seriously so that you can flirt and all, guilt free!... (read in full...)
Am I being too needy or are my feelings valid?
Q. I feel so unappreciated by my boyfriend sometimes. My question is am i being to needy or am i validated to feel this way. I do everything for him, we live together i do the cleaning, dishes, laundry,ect. we work at a farm together and i even have ...
A. 21 November 2008: To me, It does not sound like you are being too needy. I think you have done great in telling him directly that you need something. So many times people dont voice their needs and think that the other person should read their minds. Maybe he does ... (read in full...)
Paranoia setting in big time?
Q. I'm really scared.. I made a big mistake. I'm 15. Me and my bf had unprotected sex.. I know I'm stupid for letting it happen.. but shit happens ya know? Anyways I can't remember when I last got my period or when we had sex. I know I had my period ...
A. 21 November 2008: The best way to know this is to take a pregnancy test or go see your doctor. These symptoms could be because of many things. ... (read in full...)
I'm married but lonely! What should I do?
Q. I am married with children and I am unhappy. I am not thinking about cheating or anything because I don't think thats fair, but i find myself fantasizing about being in a happy relationship where my husband cares about me. He is not directly mean to ...
A. 3 August 2008: Thanks everyone. I think that once reading the replies so far I feel like "WOW alright someone understands" I was worried that some replies may be criticizing of me but I am glad to know there are other people that know how I feel. It is very nice ... (read in full...)
I've been dialing my ex's new girlfriend while drunk and leaving nasty messages about him cheating on her with me!
Q. I started seeing my ex boyfriend in september, we finally tied the knot in october and lasted until may, that was when we both finally had enough. It was a long and hard eight months to get through. All though we've been through alot of ups and ...
A. 3 August 2008: I think it is pretty simple. Leave him alone. It does not matter what he thinks or what she thinks. I think that the best thing you can do is move on, leave him alone and dont talk to either of them. Find something to do to keep you busy so that you ... (read in full...)
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