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writes:Well I am back.. Just had dinner with my ex again. His words and his actions have given me every indication he wants us to get back together he did his best at expressing himself which is hard for him. (Sometimes I feel that he never knew the extent of my love for him.) However this time I am not calling or chasing him. My dilemma: I have 1 1/2 months left where I am living and my career has come to a stall due to the economy. If we are not going to be together then I am going to move back to my home state thousands of miles away and start over.. I do want to talk to him about it but should I wait and if I don't hear from in the next few days then just know I was wrong. He is one of those guys who is used to his space and his own surroundings. He was a man who wanted me to move and told me he gave me his heart and soul and his life wrapped around me but I thought it was too early to move in since I am cautious. Maybe I am wrong but I swear i am right that he wants me back I am usally 98% right on reading people esp men. Don't know what to do ...don't want to push him if he needs more time....but my life needs to move on also. And yes P.S. I love him. Or perhaps he is just playing me. It has only been 1 night since the dinner but I feel if he really wanted me back he would have called me already.
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reader, Confused and lonely +, writes (30 July 2009):
I ygink you should tell him how you feel. If you want him then tell him but also tell him what you want in the relationship and also ask if he is wanting to be together. Make yourself happy first and foremost! There is someone out there that would adore you enough to want to drink your bath water if it is him then great! If not then go find that great guy that wants to make you smile because that's what makes him happy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): If you are in your 40's to 50's you are not children. He knows what he wants, if he doesn't step up then move and forget him.. I am not saying give him an ultimatum, but tell him just what you told us. If he wants you back he will say those words, you should ask him, no tell him what you want, HAPPILY EVER AFTER. Put your cards on the table woman, stop playing games.
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reader, hockeyluvr5 +, writes (29 July 2009):
 If I were you, I'd give it about a week.
If he still doesnt call you, call him and tell him what you feel or if you feel you need to send him a tezt message, go for it.
You dont want him to find anything out the hard way and you dont want to regret something that could go far and be a beautiful thing in the end.
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