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Calling all those with experience of Military relationships, there are long periods where he s away - stories please.

Q.   Hi im wondering if there are any females out there who's partners are in the army / navy and have to spend long periods of time apart. I have come into a new relationship with a guy in the navy who will be away for long periods and if anybody has ...

A.   30 October 2007: Hi there My bf is in the army and up till now the longest he has been away for is about 8 weeks Next year he goes on tour and will be away for 9 months Everyone says keep yourself busy but i know thats easier said than done because its natur... (read in full...)

SITE NEWS: Moderators needed!

Q.   Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING -- many moderators drop out after just a couple of weeks so if you're not committed please don't apply! ...

A.   22 July 2007: hi I would love to mod for this site I log on two or three times a day and have spare time where id like to help the site I meet all the criteria your looking for This site has helped me a lot and id love to be a bigger part of it Thank's ... (read in full...)

Why do I feel so insecure when I'm not with my girlfriend?

Q.   I've been in a relationship for a few months now with a girl who I really like. In fact, I don't think I've ever liked someone as much as I do her. The problem I have is I'm getting quite insecure about it. I'm not sure if it's just a lack of s...

A.   30 March 2007: WOW Im totally the same as you I worry and get so anxious I even went to the dooctors about it Iv been quite good recently but My bfs going away for an week and its all coming back It seems to me time has helped and iv become more secur... (read in full...)

How can I get his parents to change thier opinion of me!??

Q.   My boyfriend of a year last night told me that his parents really don't like me. He said that they think i'm very needy and a bit physco. They don't like things that I say or things that I do. I love my boyfriend completly to bits and I want to be ...

A.   29 September 2006: Can your bf suggest activities that they like that you could do together Maybe this would give them some time with you doing something that they enjoy. You shouldnt have to change for them tho although i know that you just want them to like you... (read in full...)

My boy got a bad report card and his parents made him dump me

Q.   I am 14, my boyfriend is 15. We have been going out 4 months. On his progress report from school he had a bad grade so in the last two weeks, his family took away his cell phone, computer, and ME. This has been painful for me too as I can not call ...

A.   29 September 2006: Its hard coz they are prob just concerned about his grades and see you as taking time when he could be studying Unfortunatly his parents make the rules for him and he has to follow them. How about if your bf asks his parents if they can sit down... (read in full...)

She won't tell me what's wrong..how can I get her to tell me?

Q.   my girfriend won't tell me wat's wrong wat can i do to talk to her talk to me so i at least now wat to do?...

A.   29 September 2006: You cant make her tell you You can only be there for her so that if/when she decides she wants to tell you she knows that you are there for her. If she is upset, try not asking her whats wrong, ask her if she wants a hug or for you to run her ... (read in full...)

My bf is off to Oz, for 2 montsh he wants to break up, as doesnt feel we will last, I dont and want to try!!

Q.   My boyfriend is goin to Australia for 2 months on friday week and thinks it would be better if we broke up as it would be too hard on us to try and continue our relationship with the distance between us. I don't want do that and would be willig to ...

A.   27 September 2006: Hey babe I'm the person who replied to you yesterday. You are deff not the only one feeling like this I have another sugestion I dont know if it will help you MAybe it just helps me as my mind trys to find ways to help me feel better If my b... (read in full...)

Does anyone else here find long distance relationships really hard and depressing??

Q.   Does anyone else here find long distance relationships really hard?? And depressing?? I usually see my boyfriend once a fortnight, but he couldnt make it this weekend for what I thought was a pretty stupid, unimpressive reason. We were going to go...

A.   25 September 2006: Hey babe Reading your message i could have practically writtern it myself. I dont know if i can offer any advice as im going through the same thing at the min but hopefully hearing from someone going through the same thing will help My bf i... (read in full...)

We swappws pics and he didn't e-mail me anymore! I feel so upset and dirty... all I wanted was someone in my life

Q.   met some one on a on line dating ,we swapped numbers he txt me all the time, then we swap pictures and he wanted to meet. the pics he sent to me was a little rud, so I sent back some of me. he stop texting and emailing me I text him ..did not ...

A.   25 September 2006: hey hun I think your learning the same lesson as me at the moment Guys dont think in the same way as girls. This isnt always a bad thing tho. You might find that he just deleted your pics and thought that was the end of it. Some guys dont p... (read in full...)

I'm torn...I'm moving to England to be with my guy but not sure if I can my friends and family behind.

Q.   Hello guys, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 4 years now, been friends for six. A lot of it was long distance because I was going to college in the U.S. and he lives in the UK. I spent a year studying abroad in the UK and lo...

A.   16 September 2006: I am totaly the same My bf lives away but I cant take the thought of leaving my family to be with him They are my security blanket, where im comfitable. We all have to get to this stage at somepoint and its harder when you have had a good hom... (read in full...)

How do you deal with the different life-stages issue in age-gap relationships?

Q.   Hi. When you're in an age gap relationship, how do you bridge the different life-stages dilemma? Say they are still of college age and you graduated a few years ago. You click on every single level possible. The only difference between you is o...

A.   15 September 2006: My bf is 9 years older then me He has much more of a past than me but I like that he is older and wiser When im out with him he has the confidence to do things that I wouldnt just because he is older and more comfitable with himself. I am a believer ... (read in full...)

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