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writes: met some one on a on line dating ,we swapped numbers he txt me all the time, then we swap pictures and he wanted to meet. the pics he sent to me was a little rud, so I sent back some of me. he stop texting and emailing me I text him ..did not return, it might not seem anything to you but I felt like I can trust him asked him to send back my photos I have sent him,he has not replied at all, I have sent his back,what went wrong, I feel so upset and dirty all I wanted was someone in my life. help me
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reader, Toria +, writes (25 September 2006):
 It doesn't have to be that something went wrong it could just be that he never had any intention of this being anything more than just the swapping of dirty pictures and now he got them he doesn't have to bother anymore.
All you can do is try and learn from this, the internet isn't always an easy or safe way to meet someone, yes there are some genuine people online looking for what you are but there also are some people that ain't who they say they are or have no intention of meeting just a quick fix.
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reader, camille  +, writes (25 September 2006):
 I'm sorry to say but it sounds like this man preys on women just to get them to send photos of a compromising nature. He probably has quite a collection. I wouldn't advise anyone to send any saucy photos to strangers on the web as you can't really do much to stop them circulating beyond that. I'm sorry you've been duped, but in future, keep the photos 'clean' and don't give too much away until you are in a position of dating face to face. Good Luck.
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reader, confused3473 +, writes (25 September 2006):
 hey hun
I think your learning the same lesson as me at the moment Guys dont think in the same way as girls.
This isnt always a bad thing tho. You might find that he just deleted your pics and thought that was the end of it. Some guys dont put a lot of thought into what they are doing with things like this and wouldnt have considered the fact that you might want them back
I hope this email can make you feel better but your mind is prob constantly thinkin about this and winding you up like mad. I found when i was like that only time helped me which is the worse thing as you want something to help you right now.
Even tho he has done this to you, you prob still have feelings for him even tho you may not want too.
Ill say put it down to experience There are plenty of nice guys out there, but i doubt that will make you feel better at the moment
Try to keep yourself busy and move on I know its hard but you will start to feel better bit by bit
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reader, galymyde +, writes (25 September 2006):
I'd say from the sounds of it, if he has sent you nude or suggestive photos of himself, he was probably only after one thing. Forget him and think of it as his loss. Online dating is never an exact science, as you never really know what your getting until you've met. someone may sound like the greatest person on the planet, but like your guy turn out to be a total ass when it comes to the possibility of meeting.
Try to feel good about yourself, there are a few of us blokes out there who are decent, and i'm sure you'll find one, just chalk this one upto experience.
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