Is my weight the reason I can't get a boyfriend?
Q. I've convinced myself that my weight is the reason I can't get a boyfriend, I'm 14, 5,5, 12st. Is this normal? I go through stages where I get really tall and skinny, then bulk out again. Is this the reason I cant get a boyfriend?...
A. 23 July 2012: Your weight is not the problem girls of all shapes and sizes have guys interested in them but like the lady said before me you have to be comfortable and confident in the way you look no matter what your weight because thats what guys notice. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend kicked me out...should I tell his family how he's behaved?
Q. Three months ago my now ex boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me. He said he wanted it to be civil, which it was in the beginning. I had moved to a different country to be with him and we had decided to live together, but he moved out and ...
A. 23 July 2012: No. I understand ur frustration but it is not ur place what so ever to contact his family or friends. They are his family and will take his side and you will come off as the bad person in the situation and it could bring on trouble. He has his story ... (read in full...)
Its been so long since I've been involved I'm afraid I'll screw up!
Q. its been so long since i last actually had sex i worry i might mess it up some how and i`ve never had the confidence to talk to girls when i go out and most of the websites where you can meet people are scams what should i do?...
A. 2 March 2012: you need to chill out. its not like you can forget how to have sex. but practive does make perfect and most girls understand that. and as for what you should do. just go new places to meet new people and try to find a free online dating site as ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to date but wants to "hang out" should I?
Q. I was seeing this guy for almost two months. Everything was going great but he told me he wasnt ready for a relationship at the moment and wants to see other people but he still wants us to hang out. Should i continue to be friends with him or just ...
A. 2 March 2012: it depends how great of a guy you think he is.is he worth waiting for? or is he just a good guy right now.... (read in full...)
He doesn't 'feel that way about me'. I'm feeling gutted. How do I face him next time I see him?
Q. I really need some advice from anyone. The guy ive fallen for told me he doesnt see me that way and just wants us to be friends. I feel really crushed ive never liked anyone like this before. I cant stop thinking about him and i see him ever...
A. 8 January 2012: im thinking you already know you should move on and me telling you this isnt going to matter. I know how you feel it sucks when feelings with another person arent shared. BUT im going to give you the alternative to getting over him. aka getting him ... (read in full...)
He's not lovey-dovey, but do you think he likes me?
Q. There's this guy I like and I think he likes me too...? He's not the lovey-dovey stuff but he tries to impress me, says silly things to keep the conversation going, he smiles at me a lot, he teases me...and he keeps on trying to get me to not like...
A. 7 January 2012: Yes i think he likes you simple as that. Im with a guy now who isnt so lovey dovey but you know what sometimes those are the best guys cause you know when they finally do say something lovey they mean it and arent just saying it to get it over with. ... (read in full...)
Am I just someone he uses to fill his time?
Q. Hey Agony Aunts thanks in advance for reading my question and any help you can give. So here goes, I really like this guy we text and phone each other all the time from morning to night, all days including weekends we have spent some time alone ...
A. 7 January 2012: you guys are not exclusive so if you feel like hes using you to fill his time then dont fill it. if your with ur friends and dont want to text him back dont. he gets angry? ask him y? just be like i was busy what is he expecting you to say. i dont ... (read in full...)
He's confusing me. Sure I have jealousy issues. First they were major to him, now not so much? But does he want me back now, or not?
Q. Hi I broke up about a year and the reason it happened was because i had jealousy issues and which made us fight, even though he did nothing to be jealous about , i used to be jealous of the past. He used to say it will only push him and it happened...
A. 7 January 2012: that is one frustrating situation and one i can relate too. U cant change what happened in the past you were jealous youve accepted that. its over with. he however keeps contacting you making you think he still has feelings which maybe he does have ... (read in full...)
Trust issues. How do I tell my friend. And: Am I ever going to be able to date the EX of my friend without hurting my friend?
Q. Hi everyone. Alright, so a few days ago, one of my good friends (A) broke up with her boyfriend of almost a month. A ended it, simply because she didn't want to be in a relationship anymore. I'd liked him before they started going out, but I forced...
A. 6 January 2012: IT really seems like you have already made up your mind on what you should do as you gave yourself a time span in which you can not date him 3+weeks. try more like 3 months. Y do you have to date him right away? if you guys are actually likeing each ... (read in full...)
How can I gain a great personality?
Q. Hi. Ok, so i recently found out what the guy i like, likes in a girl. He said he likes a girl with a great personality, who can have a bit of banter and who makes an effort. I always make an effort, without a doubt its just the great personal...
A. 12 August 2011: i had the same problem it just takes pracice. obviously your not nervous around ever guy you talk to. try it like this a guy you wouldnt normally pay attention too say like a more nerdy or geek type start a conversation with them just say hi and ask ... (read in full...)
He talks to his ex! I don't like or trust her. What should I do and should I be worried?
Q. My boyfriend still talks to his ex-girlfriend and they dated for 4 months. Last night, he was talking to her and after about 20 minutes he texted me back "sorry me and her(his ex-girlfriend) were talking and i forgot about you." I asked him, "wha...
A. 12 August 2011: from my experiences i have found the more jelous you ask the more insecure you look. act like you dont care that they are talking cause in reality hes with you and not with her. You just have to tell yourself the facts " shes the ex your the gf" ... (read in full...)
How can I come across as more confident?
Q. i am a very shy person and find it hard to talk some people. I have recentley felt that my confidence has gone up but the thing is that i go to college and i want to be more talkative and i don't know how to do that. i do speak to a lot of people ...
A. 9 January 2011: You dont have to say a lot to be interesting. just learn to share your opinion. Thats basically what a conversation is one person giving an opinion and you responding to it. Start sharing your opinion with people and topics of interest i find that ... (read in full...)
Advice needed ASAP!
Q. Yesterday i had sex with my bf and his condom popped i heard but i didnt realize it till he came in me. should i take the plan B pill or just wait next week to see if i am pregnant and deal with this issue from there???...
A. 3 December 2010: take Plan B as a precaution. Then see from their wether or not u r pregnant.... (read in full...)
We've been seeing each other for 2 months now but he said we were only hanging out?
Q. Im 18 years old, and im seeing this guy thats 20. We're not official yet, we're just getting to know each other, etc. We've been seeing each other for a little over two months now, but have only had 4 dates in those two months as he tends to be b...
A. 1 December 2010: He obviously doesnt know what he wants so tell him what you want. Make the first move be bold dont just sit in ur confusion cause trust me the one question of what are we leads to other questions and its a never ending cycle if you dont find the ... (read in full...)
I'm freaking out about what to get him for Christmas! I really want him to like it....
Q. Me and my boyfriend, I'm 15 and he's 16, have been going out only for a month, but it will be our 2 month in a few days. And our 3 month is going to be a few days after Christmas. We're already talking about what gifts to get each other. He's just ...
A. 25 November 2010: That idea is cute but kinds girly im thinking if ou want to get something engraved try
Dog tags like what they had in the military Get his name engraved and write a note on it if you want. Put two on a chain and it can look pretty bad ass. They can ... (read in full...)
Opinions on ex's spending holidays together "for the kids"?
Q. What are some opinions ex's spending holidays together "for the kids". Does anyone else think it may send the wrong message to the kids that there is hope of a reconciliation between their parents? Especially when one of them has to leave their new ...
A. 25 November 2010: Im a person who grew up with seperated parents and the fact that the mother doesnt want you there for christmas may not be the issue. Your dating a man with children but you didnt mention how the children felt about you. Nothing is more awkward for ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on the new kid but he is only 15!
Q. Theres this kid at our school his been here for a few weeks. I kinda see em stares at me when Im walking down the hallways. He started sitting with me and my friends at lunch. He eats all fast to come outside into the courtyard with me.. And waits ...
A. 25 November 2010: id wait it out and see what happens. If u dont feel like asking him straight out if he likes you then i think the waiting game could be ur best option. The age difference is no big deal guys date younger girls all the time no reason girls cant date ... (read in full...)
We have just started dating, what should I get him for Christmas?
Q. i've just started seeing a boy who i really like. we aren't very serious at the moment but he's been talking to my friends about what to get me for christmas.. i have no idea what to get for him! any ideas? i want it to be something personal but i'm ...
A. 25 November 2010: umm some gift ideas would be.
swiss army knife(which you can get engraved)
cologne
a chain/ dog tags
u didnt really give details on how long uve been dating or what he likes but those would be personal gifts more generic gifts would be things ... (read in full...)
I want kids but I'm scared to have sex
Q. Im scared to have sex but i want kids and im scared to lose me virginity beacuse i dont want to go there the pain of getting my cherry popped. can someone give me advice???...
A. 24 November 2010: I know the last thing you want to hear is that your too young but the truth is why are you thinking about kids? Nobody whos in their first year of high school should be thinking about bringing a child into the situation as your just going through ... (read in full...)
Meeting my boyfriend's parents, how should I handle this?
Q. This weekend I will be meeting my boyfriend's parents for the first time and to be honest I'm a little nervous about it. Me and my guy have been together for a little over a year now, but I haven't met his folks because they live out of state. T...
A. 24 November 2010: I find with parents you just have to read their body language. When u first meet them let them make the first move they will either lead for a hug or a hand shake just be receptive. dont cross your arms and welcome them with a smile. DO NOT suck up ... (read in full...)
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