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How to discourage use of addictive pills my boyfriend is taking to give himself a high?

Q.   My boyfriend (just started dating but have known him for many many years) recently revealed that he takes pills for the high occasionally. I don't know what occasionally means and I didn't ask specifics since I was so shocked and disappointed. I to...

A.   15 May 2012: I can see where the advice is coming from. I would say the same to someone in my position but now that im here i feel a little hard to give up on him. I dont think its a full blown addiction yet but i know its a possibility. I guess how can i make ... (read in full...)

Why do I go crazy when he dosen't answer?

Q.   y do i go crazy when my boyfriend doesn't do what i wants him to do? i i mean when i call him he dosen't anwers the phone quick enough , so i get mad so mad that i dont want to be with him. is this normal? i like him alot intill he piss me off. and ...

A.   31 March 2010: I feel exactly the way you do. But after losing my serious relationship to this I realized that the biggest problem is in myself. You want ur bf to do exactly what you want & when you want it and when he doesn't you get upset because you feel ... (read in full...)

How can I be his friend now that we have broken up?

Q.   My bf recently broke up with me. We had been dating for a little less than a year. I broke up with him a couple of months ago because i felt very disrespected by pictures that i saw of him and my co-worker flirting. I agreed I would see how things ...

A.   31 March 2010: I appreciate to have gotten advice from opposing views, sorry this is soo long. To happy140, you sound a lot like my ex. I can see where you're coming from. I do appreciate valuable lessons i have learned bcuz of my ex, lessons about my self mostly. ... (read in full...)

Intimidated in the bedroom

Q.   so i have been with my girlfried for about four months but we really never did anything. we had sex about two weeks ago or at least attempted to. some one came home and we were forced to stop before it really began. with that being said she never ...

A.   28 September 2009: Really size in my opinion does not matter. Just because her ex had a big member doesn't mean she was satisfied. Ask her honestly and she might surprise you by telling you she never achieved an orgasm. Even if she has I'm sure you can still satisfy ... (read in full...)

Ejaculation accidentally touched my vagina

Q.   Before you all say I am too young(or something) for this, I would like to say. I have made a huge mistake by doing this. I know what I did wrong, and is very regretful. Any nurses/doctors/concerned adults please help! I touched male sperm on my...

A.   28 September 2009: It is very unlikely that you can be pregnant. It was just your pinky and it was just a little amount of semen. Now if you had let him ejaculate on your thigh then you could've had a higher chance of being pregnant but not just from your ring finger ... (read in full...)

Friends and family are judging my guy on his appearance.

Q.   Hi. Recently, I decided I'd introduce my boyfriend to my friends. I met him through the internet and we had an online relationship until we met some months ago. Of course all of them didn't believe such thing as internet relationships could ever ...

A.   12 September 2009: You seem to know where your heart is. You seem to really like your boyfriend so it should not matter what he looks like. Mother's and friends always feel that you can do better and for a mother, no boyfriend will ever be good enough for her ... (read in full...)

I waited to have sex but now he doesn't want to!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 4 months. I have always respected my body so I wanted to make sure things were steady before I even thought of having sex with him, even though I have had sex before with other boyfriends in the past. ...

A.   9 September 2009: He would playfully bring up the subject of sex but never mentioned what i should or shouldn't do. Since the start of our friendship(we were friends) i made it clear to him that i was not a girl to be played with. Actually i just spoke to him and ... (read in full...)

I waited to have sex but now he doesn't want to!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 4 months. I have always respected my body so I wanted to make sure things were steady before I even thought of having sex with him, even though I have had sex before with other boyfriends in the past. ...

A.   9 September 2009: Thank you all for your responses :) Well it did seem weird to me he doesn't think that i'm too young to date but not old enough to have sex. To my knowlegde he has had sex before (unless he was lying). He does genuinely seem concerened about my age. ... (read in full...)

Opinions! Does he like me back or are we just friends?

Q.   I have a crush on this guy and I want to know if he likes me back. Whenever we see each other we talk a lot about random things and he never ignores me at school. He talks to me online too but sometimes he ignores me. We have bets and act lik...

A.   30 April 2009: He might have a crush on you. But of course he is young and is probably waiting for you to make the first move. ... (read in full...)

Did I just lose my best friend?

Q.   Me and this guy had been talking for about 4 months now, almost everyday on the phone. I told him i liked him, something he already knew. He always told me he liked me but since i am scared of love and commitment i never responded. One day i told...

A.   30 April 2009: Well i finally really talked to him about the whole issue seriously. He apologized for acting that way toward me and said he didn't know i cared so much about the friendship. Ever since then we resumed our "friendship", it has been really heavy on ... (read in full...)

How can I be a better mom?

Q.   How can I be a better mom? I am disturbed by my ex husband. I've gone through a lot. He kicked me and our son when the child was an infant from our home. It was late night when I had to pack clothes and my son in a carriage to walk to my parent's ...

A.   11 April 2009: To start off, i am sorry for what you went through. My mother went through a similar experience. I can't give you advice as a woman, but i can give it to you in the eyes of a child who went through what your child is probably going through. I was ... (read in full...)

I need your opinions here...Just friends???

Q.   If you have been in a relationship with a girl for quite along time and they say after a while that they only see you as a friend and don't have any desire to be intimate with you, what are the possible reasons for this? Is there any chance that if ...

A.   6 April 2009: Coming from my experience with my ex (I was the one who didnt feel the same way anymore), it is unlikely that once your girl has changed her mind about how she feels about you she will go back. My boyfriend and I broke up, and we tried staying as ... (read in full...)

How do I get a boyfriend? I'm nearly 14 and want one!

Q.   Ok well, Im 13 turning 14. Im in 7th grade, when I really should be in 8th but I went in school late. I have never had a real boyfriend. And when I do tell guys I like them, they don't like me back. My mom says its just because guys arent into girls ...

A.   4 April 2009: Just don't rush it. its going to happen. Know that along with having a bf comes added pressures that you just might not be ready for. Like i said just be patient and it will happen, but don't settle for anyone just because you feel you should have a ... (read in full...)

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