We're getting close to having sex for the first time, and I'm not confident at all!
Q. I'm a 24 year old female and I've been with my boyfriend who's 25 for 6 weeks now. I really feel like we're at the stage where we are about to have sex for the first time. I really do want this to happen but at the same time I'm scared. I have sle...
A. 3 June 2005: talk to him. If he's a decent guy he will talk you through it and make you feel comfrtable. Don't be afraid of asking him to guide you.... (read in full...)
Do I have a future with my boyfriend, even though we're not intellectually matched?
Q. My boyfriend is not a bright person. When we watch movies for example I usually have to explain what is going on in the movie several times, even though he has been watching in silence. He says he has trouble following plots. Can someone have a ...
A. 3 June 2005: My ex is a total dimwit and we never really were on the same wavelength. My boyfriend is on a par with me and we get on really really well. The conversation is never boring and neither of us ever has to entertain the other. The only thing is, his ... (read in full...)
Can I have one last fling with an incredible guy on my way to the altar, or not?
Q. I am getting married in August to a man I love very much and we are in a very happy relationship. However I met a man through work, and we made a heart stopping connection. There is a chemistry between us and I can't stop thinking about him. I rece...
A. 3 June 2005: AHHHHHH!!!! DON'T DO IT!!!! If you love your future husband don't do it out of respect for him. Start as you mean to go on and be faithful. If you can't then don't get married. You will only live to regret it later either way. If you sleep with this ... (read in full...)
Are there any circumstances where it's OK to hit someone?
Q. Can anyone please tell me if there are ever circumstances where it is understandable to hit a woman? Picture a scene of a grump, overweight and lazy woman who constantly nags her husband when he comes in from work, shattered. She won't leave hi...
A. 3 June 2005: You shouldn't hit anyone, no matter whether it's a man, woman or child. Sometimes when someone is ranting and raving at them it seems like the only way to shut them up but tell this person (well actually I'm assuming it's you) that holding someone ... (read in full...)
No sex drive any more, and all we do is play board games. I don't want to leave him, but what can I do?
Q. I'm 20 years old and my boyfriend and I have been together almost four years now, we really love each other but is that enough? I have no sex drive when it comes to us anymore, I don't even feel like kissing him. I find myself going into single c...
A. 3 June 2005: IGNORE WHAT EVERYONE ELSE HAS SAID!!!! Sometimes lack of sex drive can be because something completely different is bothering you. I would seriously suggest that you see a doctor about this. It could be that because something isn't going right in ... (read in full...)
We've been going out for six months, but he doesn't show any affection at all!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for six months, but we don't even hug, kiss, talk on the phone, or hold hands. The only time we did hug or talk on the phone was at a big dance that we had. Then, his friend had to force him to dance with me. ...
A. 3 June 2005: Forget him. Trust me, I spent 5 miserable years with a guy like that. I eventually ended up on anti-depressents!! I am now with a really loving caring man who never stops being affectionate towards me. I would never go back to my ex after seeing how ... (read in full...)
He never stops ogling other women!
Q. My husband is constantly looking at other women. He has been totally faithful to me but his incessant ogling is really upsetting. He does it in the car, grocery store, everytwhere we go. Is there anything to be done about this?...
A. 1 June 2005: I can see why this would make you feel uncomfortable. The thing is, nothing you can do will ever stop him from looking. Try talking to him about how this makes you feel. At the end of the day, as long as your husband is faithful and he comes home to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend walked away from me and his unborn son. How could he do that?
Q. I'm 6 months pregnant and my partner recently left me. He wants nothing to do with me or his unborn son. He already has a daughter. How can he do this? The pain is ripping me to bits and I don't know what to do. Please can you help me? We were tog...
A. 1 June 2005: maybe he just needs some time... (read in full...)
Sex feels like nothing & it's affecting my relationships.
Q. My problem is that I don't enjoy sex at all. I have gone to doctors and they say that am fine but I don't enjoy it. I either feel pain or have no feeling at all. I always get aroused and well lubricated (naturally) but penetration feels nothing or ...
A. 8 May 2005: Ask him to pay more attention to your clitoris, as it has more nerve endings and is the most sensitive part of a woman's body. Also try positions that he can give your clit attention as well as penetrating you as over 80% of women can't reach orgasm ... (read in full...)
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