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writes: My boyfriend and I have been going out for six months, but we don't even hug, kiss, talk on the phone, or hold hands. The only time we did hug or talk on the phone was at a big dance that we had. Then, his friend had to force him to dance with me. Do you see anything wrong in this picture? Reply to this Question
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reader, clare_bear +, writes (3 June 2005):
Forget him. Trust me, I spent 5 miserable years with a guy like that. I eventually ended up on anti-depressents!! I am now with a really loving caring man who never stops being affectionate towards me. I would never go back to my ex after seeing how great some guys can really be!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2005): Yes, break up with him. You are only there at his convenience. How did you get into a relationship with this guy in the first place? You are a valuable loving person worthy of kindness and affection. One of the rules of relationships is give and take and it definitely seems that your boyfriend is doing all the taking. Part of the joy of being in a relationship is doing all the "little" sweet things such as holding hands, hugging, cuddling, whispering sweet nothings to each other. Clearly he is not interested in you or those things. My advice is get out before you get too caught up and he crushes your heart, although he's already got one corner under his shoe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2005): talk to him. i am in a similar position. I have been the guy in this relationship and it ended badly. i acted the same way, but not as badly. i never told her how much i loved her and it eventually drove her away. i never knew how stupidly i was acting we are now broken up and i am trying desperately to get her back. maybe he just doesnt realize how stupidly he is acting. ask him what he wants from the relationship and tell him how miserable and unloved he is making you feel. you cant just hope things will get better without saying anything. if you dont say anything there is no chance he will change. talk to him and if he doesnt change then you will have to take further action. good luck! i hope things work out better for you than they did for me!!
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