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writes: My husband is constantly looking at other women. He has been totally faithful to me but his incessant ogling is really upsetting. He does it in the car, grocery store, everytwhere we go. Is there anything to be done about this? Reply to this Question
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reader, mystify +, writes (31 December 2005):
 if it is really upsetting as you say nothing will change unless you confront him about it. most men can ignore hints.
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reader, suhrit +, writes (13 October 2005):
Just check if he is doing it for a long time or for a short spell. see, have you ever thought why do you dress up? Its basically to look good and attractive. So its obvious that ur hubby will look at other girls as you attract other guys.if your husband just leave a glance on them there is nothing to be worried about. But if he starts acting on it then you can confront.
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reader, womanlyglory +, writes (8 August 2005):
It's sounds like he has an addiction to pornography if he can't control himself from ogling over women. Even though he's being faithful to you, lusting over other women in his mind is where unfaithfulness begins. It could be more serious than you think and your marriage could be in trouble. He needs to be confronted of this matter and he needs to recognize the problem and get help because if he carries on like this, he may start to act on his lust. If I were you, I would contact Dr. Phil. This can be stopped.
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reader, Wildberries +, writes (8 June 2005):
Has he always done this? Is it new? You dont say...if he has always done it..it wont change and if he is faithful what is the problem ?If it is new, ask him!!!.Whats up honey? You didnt do this before..anything I can help with?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2005): play him at his own game
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (2 June 2005):
 It should be reassuring that he is faithful to you. He obviously just has a roving eye.You could try ogling men in return and even make comments about how delicious they are!You could also look at the women he is staring at and comment on their attractiveness.It is a good idea to talk to him about how uncomfortable this makes you feel and ask him if he is happy with the way you look.If he still persists, it would be pointless to nag him. Instead, take your time looking at other men and make him aware of how it feels to be on the receiving end.Hope this works!
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reader, clare_bear +, writes (1 June 2005):
I can see why this would make you feel uncomfortable. The thing is, nothing you can do will ever stop him from looking. Try talking to him about how this makes you feel. At the end of the day, as long as your husband is faithful and he comes home to you every night, you have nothing to worry about. If he didn't want you, he wouldn't be married to you. I know this might sound silly, but next time you catch him doing it, instead of arguing with him say something like "She has a nice butt" or "I have to say, I really like her breasts"!! He's be so shocked that you've said it that he'll stop looking straight away.
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