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I have just had a baby boy named braxton. he is my no. 1 my no 2 is my husband and i love him tons.

We want a baby. How can we when our sex life is kind of difficult?

Q.   My fiance and I are trying to conceive a baby. however we are both little over weight and well...he is kind of small down there. I'm not very comfortable being on top, but everytime we have sex, his penis doesnt stay in. We both very much want...

A.   11 July 2011: well i think u should try to loss a little waight because being over waight can be bad when ur pregnant...it will be healthier for ur baby. Maybe u two could do this together...but getting pregnant is all about the right time of the month... Knowing ... (read in full...)

Could this method make me seem like a virgin again?

Q.   hi everyone i need to no if any wome had used alum/salts to make your vigina tight like a virgin? you see i had sex about too year ago and i havent had sex since ,i know my hyem is gone cause i bled when i slepth with my ex but im due to marry in...

A.   11 July 2011: hunn i dought there is any need to worry...unless u been using toys...besides the vagina is a extreamly tight mussle and sex two years ago a little or alot is not gunna affect anything. I promise u went back...even if he was huge. And whatever this ... (read in full...)

I haven't had a period in over 2 months, but I'm a virgin! Help!

Q.   Alright so let's start off by saying, I'm 16 and I've had a semi-regular period since I was 11 years old. So here's Problem #1. . . Well, like any girl, I dont enjoy my period, but it's reassuring to get it every month. I havent had my period si...

A.   11 July 2011: did u start birth control this will cause irregular piriods...also i know u say no sexual contact but if a guy ejaculats on or very near your vaginal area it can cause pregnacy...look it up its true. ... (read in full...)

We have a child together and another on the way, but he's always looking at other girls and hanging out with his friends. But then he insists he loves me! Do I just need to get over this?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for going on 4 years now. We have a 2 year old and another baby on the way, so it's safe to say we have a pretty serious relationship. I am 22 and he is 27 so there are a few years between us. I have problem...

A.   11 July 2011: ok girl let me tell u this....stop this behavior now...i have a two year old and just had a baby and my husband is just like yours...well after i had the baby i had no one to help with choirs and the two year old so i never got my rest i needed and ... (read in full...)

How can I increase my chances of falling pregnant?

Q.   i am 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend scince i was 14 we aree really happy together :) and settled down, and we are financially table aswell. we really want a baby and get dissapointed every month when i actually do have a period. is ...

A.   29 January 2010: Use the internet and research it thats what i did and it worked the fist time.... (read in full...)

I have had an accident long ago that has scarred my face and can now not get guys

Q.   Hi, I have a very sensitive issue for me to discuss with you. I have had an accident long ago that has scarred my face, I still have good features, but it's not the same. Because of this, I cannot get the guys I want and deserve. And to be honest...

A.   29 January 2010: I belive in my heart every thing happens for a resion. dont worrx there is a man out there for u. u just have to be patiant and live everyday happy to be in this world. remember ur not promised tomorrow.... (read in full...)

Am I obsessed, insane, confused or just stupid?

Q.   four years ago, I dated a guy who I was head over heals about. In other words who I was very obssessed with but not in a crazy way. Just in a weird way that I could never understand. We broke up because of peer pressure. I was a kid and he was more ...

A.   28 January 2010: Well i had this happen to a eventualy i started dating my ex again but shortly come to realize i didnt love them anymore because they was not the same person.... (read in full...)

Can I trust him at this party without me?

Q.   The guy im going to marry is going to a halloween party tonight and will be drinking. he loves me i know that but then drinking is involved im not so sure he could say no cause i had a baby and its been 6 weeks since we had sex and he has a very ...

A.   31 October 2009: Thanks everyone i dnt worry as bad now except that he wnt pick up his phone but its 5 am he is probably past out.... (read in full...)

What are some specific kinds of birth control that make boobs grow?

Q.   What are some specific kinds of birth control that have made boobs noticably bigger. Me and my best friend want to know. we both have been on birth control for over a year.. and no boob growth.. we need help!!! ...

A.   30 October 2009: Be glade there not big i have a tripple d and i wear a size 5 jeans in juniors. so im small but they will make ur back hurt and make u look fatter than u realy are. the bigger they are the more they sag also so just be proud of urs for being small ... (read in full...)

How do I get my husband to feed the baby?

Q.   I just had a baby a month ago and my husband worKs alot and when he is home i wont him to care for the baby to bond with him and also so i can have a brake to get things done that i cant do while i am holding a baby. well the baby does not realy ...

A.   27 October 2009: Oh sorry i did not know there was a limit to how many questions i can ask my bad. and i have been told my many doc that u cant spoil a baby. they told me young babys need lots of love. i dont hold him all the time i just have to be close to him or ... (read in full...)

What is so gross about breast feeding?

Q.   Why do other girls give me looks when i say im breast feeding my baby? why does people think its gross? i mean thats way babys are ment to be feed. i think with it being flu season and babys die from the flu it would be selfish for me not to breast ...

A.   27 October 2009: Well it would be heard to cover me up i would have to have a sheet lol when my breast are full they are falling out of my double d bra. i just feel better in the back seat of my vw bug cause the windows are high and with my shurt over the top of my ... (read in full...)

What is so gross about breast feeding?

Q.   Why do other girls give me looks when i say im breast feeding my baby? why does people think its gross? i mean thats way babys are ment to be feed. i think with it being flu season and babys die from the flu it would be selfish for me not to breast ...

A.   27 October 2009: When im not home i go to the car to feed...and thanks everyone i think i understand... (read in full...)

How do I get my husband to feed the baby?

Q.   I just had a baby a month ago and my husband worKs alot and when he is home i wont him to care for the baby to bond with him and also so i can have a brake to get things done that i cant do while i am holding a baby. well the baby does not realy ...

A.   27 October 2009: I think its cause its the first baby he has been around and he cries alot... (read in full...)

Pregnant, and one side of my belly is bigger than the other

Q.   hey there, I'm 6 weeks pregnant. and my left side of my belly is harder and is bigger than the right side. I got an ultrasound already so I know its not an ectopic pregnancy. has any of you had this problem?...

A.   25 October 2009: I am sure that just means thats the side ur baby is on.... (read in full...)

Does this mean I've been dumped?

Q.   My girlfriend has just told me she needs some space to sort her life out, because it is in a mess. We have bee going out for 11months. She is currently going through a divorce. Does that mean that i am dumped. I told her that i will wait for he...

A.   24 October 2009: I told my bf that and a few days later i dumped him...for a new guy.... (read in full...)

I need tips on how to talk dirty to my partner!

Q.   Hi All I need help, my man wants me to talk dirty to him in the bedroom but i dont really know what to say? Can all you guys and gals out there who love talking dirty give me some tips plz? Or is there a website, book or something i can...

A.   24 October 2009: Dont feel bad i cant do it. i feel like a loose girl when i do. im not good at it cause he always tells me to hush. dnt care hate it anyway.... (read in full...)

Should I expect him to take care of me and the baby seen as I lost my job?

Q.   I just had a baby and my bf who i live with and plain on marrying is paying the bills right now. he complains becouse every thing is in my name. only becouse my family helped us get on our feet since we was living with his family for over a year. ...

A.   24 October 2009: Oh ya its 24 7 im breast feeding so he has to eat every two hours. and i wont to stay home home for a while at least till he is 4 months old. when he is 3 months he is having surgry on his privite area and i wont to be home then he will need me.... (read in full...)

Should I expect him to take care of me and the baby seen as I lost my job?

Q.   I just had a baby and my bf who i live with and plain on marrying is paying the bills right now. he complains becouse every thing is in my name. only becouse my family helped us get on our feet since we was living with his family for over a year. ...

A.   24 October 2009: Well acualy we are paying 300 dallors a month back to my grandmother. we could not get a loan becouse we have no creadit. i will be going back to work and collage after my 6 weeks is up. its only been 3.... (read in full...)

Sex hater.

Q.   I am 20 years old and have been with my bf for 2 years. before we got together i enjoyed sex alot. but now i hate it we start and after a few min i ask if he is almost done. i hate oral sex and i hate for him to touch me. i thought maybe it was him ...

A.   24 October 2009: Well i dont hate sex with him i just hate sex. i love him so much and when he is at work all day and night i miss him and stay up and wait for him to come home. its just when i think about sex its like some thing i dnt wnt to do like going to court ... (read in full...)

Sex hater.

Q.   I am 20 years old and have been with my bf for 2 years. before we got together i enjoyed sex alot. but now i hate it we start and after a few min i ask if he is almost done. i hate oral sex and i hate for him to touch me. i thought maybe it was him ...

A.   24 October 2009: I have been with a girl before and that was worse i felt so unclean and she was my best friend and after that i could not be around her. me and my bf thinks it might be depresson cause i have other symtoms too. ... (read in full...)

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