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41-50,
*ur7y
writes:My girlfriend has just told me she needs some space to sort her life out, because it is in a mess. We have bee going out for 11months. She is currently going through a divorce.Does that mean that i am dumped. I told her that i will wait for her, but she said it might not happen and she does not want that pressure ~Im comfussed, because 5days prior to this, we had an excellent evening together.HELP!!!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 October 2009):
I'm afraid so. Now it's time for you to move on.
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reader, Christian  +, writes (24 October 2009):
I told my bf that and a few days later i dumped him...for a new guy.
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (24 October 2009):
If your GF is still married and going through a divorce, then she probably DOES need some time to get her head clear. She may be worried that she got involved with you on the rebound and doesn't want to end up getting married again, only to repeat the pain of a divorce. Give her some room. If she comes back, good, if not you may have dodged a bullet. This is never fun, but your best bet is to honor her wishes and not hold on so tight that she has to pry herself away from you, which will make her most recent memory a negative one.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (24 October 2009):
 Sounds that way in all honesty :o(
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