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A bit about myself, I have been in a long distance relationship for 6 years now so I'm happy to help those with long distance love!
In the past I have also suffered with anxiety attacks& still occasionnally do but now I know how to control them.
I come from a very close knit worrying family who like to force their advice & opinion on me- an issue that's been ongoing most of my life but I'm slowly dealing with so any help there wod be appreciated.
My job role is in customer service do I am very tactful unless you are being rude or obnoxious then I lose my temper! Lol!
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Does anyone out there ever look at their life& realise this isn't what your life was meant to be like?
Q. Does anyone out there ever look at their life and realise this isn't what your life was meant to be like? I'm 27 and am probably going through some life crisis lol! The thing is I know what I DON'T want out of life but I don't know what I ...
A. 10 July 2010: Anonymous& cindy cares- thankyou both for your kind words& advice. My problem is I have no confidence& constantly think "what if leaving my BF/ Job would be the biggest mistake?"
you have both hit the nail on the head with the baby thing& being on... (read in full...)
Does anyone out there ever look at their life& realise this isn't what your life was meant to be like?
Q. Does anyone out there ever look at their life and realise this isn't what your life was meant to be like? I'm 27 and am probably going through some life crisis lol! The thing is I know what I DON'T want out of life but I don't know what I ...
A. 10 July 2010: Caring guy- how do I start afresh? I have no confidence& never had any real independence... I'm at a loss on what to do. I panic all the time thinking what if I quit my job& regret it& then don't find another job or what if I leave my BF & then ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be the office gopher anymore!
Q. What would you do if you were working away in a job for the past six months.. had the gut instinct that all the administrators and other women in the company were deliberately setting out to make you look incompetent.. (because their friend missed ...
A. 27 June 2010: Aww hun, you are a good person & actually remind me a bit of myself. I need to stand up& put my foot down but it's hard! I agree with the previous poster saying you should contact authority- it IS a form of bullying which no one should tolerate!!
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I am looking for LDR success stories as I am about to meet mine for the first time!
Q. Have anyone of you been in a long distance relationship? I'd like to hear some success stories!! I am meeting with my LDR next month for the first time. I have heard so many negative things about ldr's and it's making me slightly nerous. 'N' and ...
A. 25 June 2010: Hi Hun,
i've been in a long distance relationship for 6 years but i'm in the uk& my boyfriend is in Italy.
I won't lie& say it's easy- what I struggled with the most was when we had to say goodbye- I hated it& in the 1st 2 years we saw eac... (read in full...)
My dad was such a jerk! How do I deal with this and stop my annoyance from consuming me?
Q. Grrr.. In so frustrated at what happened last night after going for a meal with my family! It was my boyfriends birthday and we decided to take him out to eat, I said it'd be my treat because my bf always pays for everything when we go out. ...
A. 7 June 2010: Your dad sounds like a very selfish man who evidently knew what he was doing but didn't care about your feelings.
I have a brother who is the same& when we go out ASCAP family he orders the most expensive thing& when it comes to dividing the bill... (read in full...)
Why is she hosting a party if shes asking us to bring all the food?
Q. Morning all! I don't have a love question but I'm just intrigued to get your opinions on my question. A colleague of mine emailed us all on thursday inviting us to a barbeque at her dads house today. In the email she asked if we can bring ...
A. 5 June 2010: Haha! What a cheeky cow! I wouldn't bother going if I were you! Bringing salad, crisps, booze is fine but NOT the entire meal!
She is what I call a scrounger- someone wanting things off others as they are to lazy to do anything for themselv... (read in full...)
Manager flirts and chats to everyone but me, have I done something wrong???
Q. Hi, I have a bit of an odd question which I hope I can get some answers to. I get on with most people I meet, I'm friendly, funny etc... So I been told! Somehow though my male managers seem to shy away talking to me. In my current job my male...
A. 29 May 2010: He probably does fancy you and feels intimidated hence the reason he doesn't interact with you much! Where I work in a very male orientated environment and you get a mix of men and how they flirt etc.. Some who are nice looking and know it openly ... (read in full...)
I'm jealous of my friend and want to rant!
Q. i think i am upset about things in my life..everyone i know except for maybe a few is basically with the first guy they really loved and in a relationship for years and on their way to getting married. I am in my mid twenties, went to college and ...
A. 29 May 2010: Hi.
You don't sound like a bad person at all& unnderstandibly I know how you feel as I'm unhappy with other parts of my life.
Everyone has a friend who they envy, it's normal. The thing is after reading about what you said about her- not w... (read in full...)
I think my colleagues are taking advantage of me!
Q. I have a really frustrating problem at work which I need advice on. I seem to be the only one in my office who has paracetamol for headaches, colds, pain etc.... So my colleauges instead of buying themselves any come and scrounge off me! I do...
A. 13 May 2010: Are you sure we don't work in the same office?? Lol!
I have the same problem& it's usually because people are to lazy or stingy to buy their own! You won't ever get yourbpills replaced. Just keep saying j have none& they might take the hint!
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Male co-workers g/f doesn't like us girls and gives us the evil eye! should we be worried?
Q. Morning peeps. My male colleagues girlfriend is jealous of his frienships at work. The guy in question joined our team about 7 months ago and we arranged a night out whereby we could bring our partners and he bought his gf. We all tried to ...
A. 10 May 2010: Hi poster. Like many of the rest said it sounds like she is very insecure and doesn't like the idea of him having female friends. This is her issue and she needs to get help. If you tried to include her on your evening out and she snubbed you ... (read in full...)
Was I too harsh or were they too disrespectful?
Q. I am really annoyed with my work colleagues! Last week we organised a work night out and because I live closest to where the location was we were going 5 of the girls I work with (we are also mates) came to get ready at my house. I gav...
A. 24 April 2010: Hi poster! No, I don't think you are harsh atall! They were in the wrong! This is the behaviour u expect from children not adults! Obviously they have little respect for you & your home. No one with any class would leave such a mess.
What is most ... (read in full...)
How can get my family to see they're being taken advantage of here???
Q. Hi all! I'm really annoyed about what's happened lately with my aunt. About 8 years ago she left the UK and married an American guy and now lives in the USA. Since she has been there she has never worked because she wanted to stay at ho...
A. 24 April 2010: I know a couple who are exactly the same- the only difference is that neither of them work& they claim benefits! Every time we'd meet up they would whinge about how their kids had no clothes as they were growing up & having growth spurts etc. So ... (read in full...)
Work colleagues don't care that I'm ill!
Q. I'm probably going to be told to grow up and get over myself but it's made me feel even more down. I've been off work for 4 days with the flu- ok, no big deal, i'll live! But what's upset me us that not 1 of my colleagues has bothered to txt me ...
A. 23 April 2010: I agree with anonymous- the people we thought cared sometimes don't always show it. You mention they are work colleagues & you see them out of work which make them your friends so a text would have been nice. I myself txts my closest colleagues if ... (read in full...)
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