Taboo fantasy help.
Q. I've never told anyone about this but I need some advice. I like to keep things exciting in the bedroom and my boyfriend of 5 months wants to indulge me as I indulge him. We are just beginning anal sex as its his biggest fetish and I like to make ...
A. 31 October 2009: if you're not sure, then maybe tone it down. like make him pretend to be a cousin. thats really racy stuff. the other approach you could take is to ask him to read one of these stories with you. if he sees how turned on you are, and he responds to ... (read in full...)
Why is he so unsure about what he wants in life yet IS so sure he doesn't want to be with me?
Q. My ex-boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me about two months ago. The reason we broke up was because he lost his feelings for me. Recently we had a conversation where he said we can't be together if our goals/ wants are different. So i asked him ...
A. 31 October 2009: Maybe he feels like you're jsut pushing for a long term commitment and despite not knowing anything else in his life, he knows he doesn't want to commit yet. let go of him. if he thought he'd made a mistake you'd know already.
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She thought I didnt like her so she went with another guy, now she is torn beteween the two of us!
Q. Hi All, Just a quick question - I hooked up with this girl a few times over the last few months, we speak all the time and I was giving her some space to sort herself out (due to her just coming out of a long term relationship). I was waiting for ...
A. 16 October 2009: i say you should fight for her. what if she get's comfortable with the other guy and you end up losing her all together. when she comes over, you should tell her that although she doesn't want to hurt anyone and she seems to like you both, you want ... (read in full...)
How should I react to him hugging me?
Q. This guy I know and I are not that close, but were friendly. We sit together in class, and have a few mutual friends, and its not awkward to talk to him outside of those two situations. Recently he's been hugging Me and random moments, like it makes ...
A. 29 September 2009: Is it possible that he is really comfortable with you and so doesn't think about personal space? Maybe he just likes you that much as a friend. He might like you and want more, but until he actually says so, don't jump the gun.
If you don't li... (read in full...)
Has my sister's man been molesting their child?
Q. I have a younger sister who is in a very abusive relationship. Eleven months ago she had a baby by this person. A few months ago they broke up and eventually, he wormed his way back into her life. She just found out (by a doctor) that she has her...
A. 25 September 2009: This is heart breaking to read. I think that you and your sister should take the child to the doctor (she will need your support if the news is bad, and even if it's good, its scary to even think this). Let teh doctor diagnose the situation and stop ... (read in full...)
Have we got too intimate too soon?
Q. i and my bf are in relation for nearly 4 months. last week we met in a park and got very romantic!! we had our smooch for the first time .he kissed me on my neck and licked it very fondly....now i am in a fix whether its very soon for us to get so ...
A. 24 September 2009: YOu must feel comfortable with yourself and what you are doing when together. I think that you are unsure about all of it and thats why you are asking for advice.
Like the previous post says, our opinions here aren't relevant. Make up your min... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend that I'm pregnant?
Q. Hi there!! I'm new to this site so am hoping u can help me please. I'm pregnant, and I dnt no how to tell my boyfriend, I know I have to but I just can't find the words. I was on the pill...and really have no idea how this has happened. I've b...
A. 24 September 2009: talk to him and tell him that you are not his ex, and that you haven't cheated (because you haven't, right?) and that you think you are pregnant and take it from there.
If he said he'd kill himself if you got pregnant, then maybe you shouldn'... (read in full...)
I fell in love with a friend that slept with my good guy friend
Q. I am really losing my mind here. Here is what's going on with me. I have a girlfriend for about 5 years now but our relationship is extremely dysfunctional and we are never intimate nor have I had sex with her in over a year. She has been ...
A. 24 September 2009: Seriously, guy, is it worth the drama? I get that you've fallen in love, most of us can't help it. BUt maybe you are so upset about the friend from 36 months ago because you are looking for a way not to get with the friend you cheated with.
I thi... (read in full...)
Should I take Antidepressants?
Q. I believe myself to be a strong person and can deal with alot but i think it is this very mentality that has proved to be my downfall! The last few years i have coped with a lot from my grandmother's death to a miscarrige i told nobody about and...
A. 20 July 2009: Uni is a difficult time anyway without the added life complications that you've mentioned. I think a lot of people have a burn out phase while at uni - certainly everyone in my group of friends did (5 of us). Its up to you how you cope with it ... (read in full...)
How can I stop my boyfriend taking things too far?
Q. I am 13 and have a boy friend who is 15 ..... we have been together for 5 months and i really trust him .. a couple of nights ago we were kissing on the sofa and then he put his hands down the front of my pants ... i said not yet and he stopped ... ...
A. 20 July 2009: you should talk to him about this when you're not making out. tell him you like him and that you trust him but that you want to take things slow and that he shouldn't go to far. then tell him what too far is. don't let him change your mind about it ... (read in full...)
Best way to end this relationship
Q. I have been in a relationship with a man for just over 2 years. We live together and have talked about getting married. About a year ago, we got into a huge fight and he broke up with me. I have a feeling that he starting messing around with other ...
A. 10 January 2009: The way that you leave him and make it final is this:
-Look for your own place, or talk to a friend or family member so that when you leave him, you have a place to sleep.
-Once you have a place, pack up you stuff and move it out
then talk to ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend treat me like this??
Q. Well where do I start... I'm nearly 19 and i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. When i first met him, i wasn't the one that was keen but the more time i spent with him the more i realised i was falling for him. He was so nice and caring the f...
A. 10 January 2009: First of all I want to say that I am SO sorry that he has changed so much and I am so sorry that he knows what hold he has over you. I know how you feel - I'm right there myself. I now you don't want to leave him and I'm not going to tell you to ... (read in full...)
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