Should I go the whole way?
Q. Me and my current bf have been going out now for about six months and are thinking about going the whole way, and having sex. He asked me to do it about two months in and I said no but now it's been playing on my mind and I feel like I really am not ...
A. 30 October 2009: No its not worth it. Keep your virginity until your older and in a serious commited relationship! Sex makes you feel very vulnerable and brings about lots of emotions and u have to have the maturity to deal with that.
If you don't feel comforta... (read in full...)
I feel awful and don't enjoy the hookers I visit..how do I rid myself of this sex addiction?
Q. Hi Im from the UK and just want someone to help me about a sex addiction before it gets out of hand. I am a 21 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend and just feels lonely. I have hobbies that i do (gym a lot) but for some reason recently ...
A. 22 October 2009: I wouldnt call it an addiction just yet as ur not going there every single day. I think your just drawn back there just for company and as you say it female attention. The gym is a good hobby, i no my local gym also do classes which go along with ... (read in full...)
I've been denying my sexuality for years and I'm very depressed
Q. I THINK I'm gay and I don't want to be. This is causing me mega problems and I think it's at the root of the depression I've suffered for years. I've felt like this since I was around 13. I've had counselling, seen a psychiatrist and been prescri...
A. 25 June 2009: I think u are using your homosexuality as an excuse! Of course you can't be turned down from employment because your gay thats ridiculous! Its not the 1950's! We live in a world were everyone is treated equal, sometimes you will get a few ignorant ... (read in full...)
Is he cheating? Or am I just paranoid?
Q. hey everyone. im almost 16, and have been with my current boyfriend for 4 months. latley things have been abit rocky: so let me explain. i have been out with him before, but ended things because he was always really paranoid, but in October ...
A. 3 May 2009: Hiya!
You are so young and you clearly don't/ shouldn't have time 4 this guy. I say sack him off and go find someone better, or even better than that sack him off and enjoy being a 16 yr old girl. This might be the most important thing 2 u right ... (read in full...)
How much do I tell my four year old about the birds and the bees?
Q. My daughter is 4 years old and starting pre-school this week. I was wondering what she should know about about the "birds and the bees" before she goes to school. I'm not sure what the age appropriate discussion would be. I've done some research ...
A. 15 September 2008: Hey i don't have a child myself but i think 4 is 2 young to no all the gory details! I used 2 babysit a child and she once asked me where babies come from i told her that a daddy has a seed and he puts the seed into the mummy and it grows into a ... (read in full...)
How do I cope with his cheating and our break-up?
Q. I have been with my now ex for over 5 years and he has told me that he cheated on me two days ago. I have split up and am moving out at the moment. He is still on his holidays where it all happened. I was suspecting him that he wanted to cheat fo...
A. 14 September 2008: Cheating is such a hard thing to deal with, usually when someone is cheated on they often blame themselves which makes the situation even harder to deal with. I suggest u be strong, surround yourself with positive things. When i had 2 deal with a ... (read in full...)
He dated me just to get at my younger mate and cheated, what can I do to move on??
Q. Hi, I'm 17 and i know this 19 year old boy for over a year and i really liked him. We went out for 3 weeks but my 14 year old mate went out with him before me. It lasted 3 days so me and this boy spent a lot of time together and then he asked me...
A. 28 March 2008: Hi,
Gonna sound harsh but this boy seems like a complete loser, if i was you i'd move on, spend time with your friends! For a start do u really want to be associated with a boy who is 19 (which techinically makes him an adult) who is involved with... (read in full...)
I like my best friend's boyfriend, and he likes me too! Help!
Q. Hi A few weeks ago my friend started to date this boy. I new him but i never spoke to him before. I thought i might aswell talk to him cause i would be seeing alot of him cause he was dating my best friend. I said hi and we started to tlk o...
A. 27 November 2007: Hi!
This boy is trouble! If he's flirting with his girlfriends best friend he obviously does not respect your friend! Do you want a man like this?
If you hold any loyalty to your friend you would tell her whats going on. Both of you should m... (read in full...)
How should I tell the guy I am dating I have HPV??
Q. I found out that I have HPV a few months ago. I have the type that can only cause cervical cancer. There are no other symptoms. I am now dating a new guy. We have not had sex yet. I need to tell him that I have this before it gets that far. I ...
A. 13 November 2007: Firsty how long have u been with this guy? If you do not feel able to talk openly about this then are you sure he is right for you? After all if he really loves you/ cares about you he will understand your problem but also respect you for telling ... (read in full...)
What could be going on in her head?? A women's perspective please...
Q. Hello, Im new on here. My girlfriend broke up with me nearly two months ago. I thought we were doing fine and she just came out with it. She has ignored all my texts apart from the one that said i had some of her things and wanted to return them. Sh...
A. 13 November 2007: Hi,
You sound like a really nice guy! Those are few to come by! Honestly you have done nothing wrong! You don't state many details of your relationship for example where there arguments? Or any other problems such as jealousy?
There could ... (read in full...)
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