Update: We spent the whole day together, is this a good sign?
Q. Hi i posted this question the other day and got lots of fantastic answers. since then we took the car to the garage yesterday and spent 14 hours driving to different places and got dinner together. whats everyones thought on this is it a good sig...
A. 1 August 2009: Dating someone you really like is great. But there should be no rush about this. Just wait and enjoy your friendship as long as possible before starting the relationship. Let the love grow. That's one way of ensuring your bodies will be separate... (read in full...)
Should I leave my husband or try and fix this mess?
Q. Hi..so here goes. I am a recent newlywed and I have also just had a wonderful baby. I have been with my husband for a few years before we got married. He had cheated on me in the past but our relationship was long distance, the problem is he ch...
A. 12 May 2009: I beg to disagree with kellyxxx. Growing up for your child will be better with both parents, even though they are imperfect THAN growing up with a single mum or step-parents.
So I beg you, stick him there and fix the mess.... (read in full...)
Just friends or is there something more there?
Q. Hello, i have a problem. I am 26 years old and about 3 years ago i started going back to college. About 2 years ago I took a drawing class with this girl in it, she is 19 years old. I noticed her right away, she was very attractive. I ev...
A. 12 May 2009: Slow down man. Fine girls always attract emotions from men over the long haul. What's best? Friendship or relationship? U decide that, and keep the emotions to the backwaters for some more time.... (read in full...)
Would this be considered rape?
Q. Hi everyone, ok I feel kind of stupid asking this. Ok last week I ended things with my BF of 2 1/2 years. He had become verbally abusive, but always saying the comments were "just joking and you know I don't really mean that". It took me about 6m...
A. 12 May 2009: This is mild rape, because ur bf (well, immediate ex-bg)slept with u against your wishes. U didn't sound like you feel bad enough to press charges. So just take care of yourself and stay away from confrontation with him. Another scene and u'll be in ... (read in full...)
Married your 1st love or were dating at 18?
Q. Hello. Im just wondering, how many of the uncles and aunts on this site married their first love, or the person they were dating at 18? I hear of stories about people who married the person they dated at 18, but how often does this actual happ...
A. 4 May 2009: I wish I could marry my first love. But we broke up exactly a year ago (I was 22). The main reason being that she was older, and I was not sure when I was going to be ready for marriage, and didn't want her to wait indefinitely and miss out on an ... (read in full...)
After affairs on both sides, can our marriage problems be solved by having an open relationship within the marriage?
Q. I have been married to my wife for 7 years. We have been through a LOT together and have kids together and all. The problems started about 3 years into our marriage when I revealed to my wife that I was addicted to pornography. Then later, I met ...
A. 4 May 2009: Bringing in more men...? You'll prefer them to you.
Solution1: Make her think less of sex.
Solution2: Take her on a good ride somewhere. Change the conditions and the place you usually make love.
Guess I should be paid the sex therapist sh... (read in full...)
Two and 1/2 years and I want more than kissing
Q. hey i have been with my boy friend for 2 and a half yrs now. and i keep giving clues for over a month that i want more then just kissing. i want to go futher as i want to have sex with him. but he isnt getting the message and i dnt want t...
A. 4 May 2009: If you talk to him explicitly about sex...he may even suspect you. Let everything be spontaneous.
Maybe the guy is a virgin...you don't need to make him all shy. When you say your man doesn't see the signs you give him, believe me, he sees all.... (read in full...)
Mood swings are driving me crazy
Q. Hey, Please help me... So, Im going through this age when Im all hormonal and my emotions are all over the place. One minute I am really happy and the next i just want to cry for no reason! I have great friends... and everyday at school is great!...
A. 22 April 2009: Oh yea, you are not alone. Get busy everytime. Maybe write a diary at night and reminisce the day.... (read in full...)
How could my best friend's dad stoop so low as to offend his own daughter?
Q. My best friend had her "wedding" this weekend, well, it was a wedding but she couldn't go through with it. It wasn't because of her groom - he's an absolutely lovely guy. It wasn't because of worries about the wedding - she was so happy to get marr...
A. 22 April 2009: why would anyone run out of her wedding because of her dad's attire? why not cut down the long programme, exchange those vows and run home married.
is she engaged to a new man or her supposed-to-be husband?... (read in full...)
I don't want to leave my wife, but I don't love her anymore. What should I do?
Q. Hi, I've been married for 5 years. Periodically throughout our marriage, my wife and I have agreed that we make better friends than spouses. Over the past few years I've grown increasingly less sexually attracted to my wife. I'd say that at this...
A. 11 April 2009: Always better to stay with your wife. For the sake of your kids, and for the safety of your heart. You don't love her, in terms of attractiveness. But there's no denying you have a place in her heart, and she does in yours too. No more playing man!... (read in full...)
How do I suggest different sex position to my fiance? Or is she just set in her ways?
Q. Hi. I've been with my fiancee for two and a half years. I love her dearly and wouldn't change her for the world but, unfortunately, I'm getting bored with the sex. It's her on top or me on top. Most of the time it's her. I've tried talking to...
A. 8 April 2009: @Kylie. It may not be about only pregnancy. It could also be about STDs. She is a dignified lady, that according to Kylie, would not love to let go totally before the wedding night. @Wondercat. If what I just stated is her attitude, I think the lady... (read in full...)
Am I just a one night stand and being played by this guy?
Q. I meet this guy (who is slightly older than me) who gave me his number (whole address in fact). Later that week he and i meet upand got on really well n talk about all sorts of things ended bein up all night and then spent the next 3days with him ...
A. 21 March 2009: Obviously, you are a one-night stand lady. You were having too much fun, too much trust, too early for a stranger. And no, you are not being played by this guy, both of you were players. He thot u'd know and move on too, to your next bedmate.... (read in full...)
I want to take charge of the conversation somehow,but I don't know how
Q. I've been going out (aka - Not yet in a relationship), with this guy for a couple of months. He's really sweet and seems like good boyfriend material but he seems so boring! At first I was overjoyed with how much of a gentleman he is, and didn't mind...
A. 21 March 2009: The best option to start talking with someone is when you both are with other people that you both can talk to freely, like classmates. And then you may pick on him. With that, he'll be forced to reply. Believe me, your date will be great, he'll ... (read in full...)
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