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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i am 15 and will be 16 in oct but he is 22 and will turn 23 in nov and i love him but we have many differences age differnce, religion differnce, country, lifestyle and time i cant hurt my parents but i cant hurt him either i am muslim and he is a hindu, he is from india and i am from pakistan, he is 22 and i am 15. i dont know wht to do because he is old and he still sometimes talk about her ex gf who is married to someone else. he tells me tht he loves me and we met on msn and we havent seen eachother yet only pictures and he tells me tht we have good compatibility, chemistry dont know but i dont kknow wht to do. he said he will die the day i will leave him. he even said he wont merry anyone else exsept me. he said he will wait his entire life. he loves me like crazy. he doesnt like it if any other guy talks 2 me or if i talk to some guy very comfortably and all.he is 6 or 7 years older than me. said that we have a very close relationship we are comfortable when we talk 2 eachother and we dont usually think before we say something because we know tht it doesnt matter we are very close we would never think wrong and all. we usually talk abt mature matters but if i know something which i m too young 4 i get embarissed which i dont lke. i asked him if i wold never even have sex with him my whole life he still wants to be with me but we fight too much but 1 of us just apologize. he point out every single thing he notices in me if i did something or said something which he doesnt like now the only prob 4 me is tht he is a hindu and i am muslim. i cant do tht. i cant merry someone who is nt my religion but he has no prob but none of us can change our religion so i dont know if i should end it or keep going and i sometimes cry for him too. we live real far apart he lives in asia and i live in america. my Qshould i stay with him?should i marry him?do we have a big age diff?does he love me when he says it?should i tell my parents?i am confuzed on wht to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2007): I would suggest you to concentrate on your studies and your future. after your studies you find a suitable partner of your age, religion and suitable qualification for Marriage. Itz not the rigth time for the mariage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2007): thanks but i need moire helpppppppppppppppp
plz give some more sujjesions
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reader, brokenshadow  +, writes (18 September 2007):
 Sorry, I meant to say get OFF the computer once and a while. (Sorry for the confusion) :)
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reader, brokenshadow +, writes (18 September 2007):
You never met, only chatted on MSN. Sounds like to catch a predator. There are many dangerous people in cyber space. I would tell your parents!!!!! There is an age differance. Marriage shouldn't even be in your mind right now. Does he love you? I don't know, but he never even met you before... Please talk to your parents, don't ever meet someone your talk to on IM. You should get on the computer once and a while and meet a nice Muslim boy :), actualy, it doesn't matter the religion. Try someone your age, in school, in the neighborhood. Becareful what your msn friend knows about you. He may say he lives in Asia but you never know...please tell your parents, their job is to protect you and that's what you need right now!!
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