Why the midnight texts about unrelated issues?
Q. Can anyone pls help me try to figure this out? My ex who I broke up with just a couple of months ago is starting to send me texts again. Two weeks ago, I texted and tried to call him but never got a reply. The purpose of contacting him w...
A. 19 June 2009: he starting to relize that you probably were a great girl and maybe he's a little bored with his life. he feels that if he never gives a date and time that he can always stay in contact with you. my suggestion is to just throw his stuff away and ... (read in full...)
I'm sore down below and scared
Q. I have only had sex once, in my life. That was unprotected sex. I took the plan B pill the day of, and used a pregnancy three weeks later, I am not pregnant. I had sex about 35 days ago, and since then have not had any sexual stimuli on the day ...
A. 19 June 2009: the best advice i can give you is to go see a doctor. you're going to worry yourself sick trying to deal with it on your own. talk to your doctor and then talk to your mom or a female you trust. get help quick before it gets out of hand. good luck!... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose her as a friend by dating her with the possibility of a break up! Please help!!!!!
Q. Alright i have a few questions.... i have liked this girl for a few years now and we have just been good friends. we have alot in common, and i have the sence that she likes me to. she is always giving me random hugs and what not. so i think its ...
A. 9 February 2009: i say ask her and see how she feels about a relationship first. if you talk to her and tell her how your friendship matters to you then she won't let a break up tear you two apart.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to keep it quiet now that we're so in love
Q. I started seeing a guy a few months back and I thought he was lovely but it was nothing serious. At the time I was still really good mates with my ex and a few times he came round and it felt like we were still together, we ended up having sex and ...
A. 6 February 2009: it may seem wrong but i say don't tell him what he soesn't know won't hurt him. you weren't serious at the beginning of the relationship so leave that part out until he asks for the truth.... (read in full...)
Is it time to take the next step?
Q. Hi, so my boyfriend and i were disscussing moving in together and one thing that came up was sex. Now my birthday is Valentine's day and thats pressure to have sex 2 times over so we've known each other 6 months, I've meet his family and he's meet ...
A. 6 February 2009: only take this step if you're ready. talk to him and see if he really wants to have sex get a understanding of what he really feels. an answer will come to you...good luck!... (read in full...)
I just got my tongue pierced. How can I pleasure my boyfriend without using my mouth?
Q. I just got my tongue pierced. How can I pleasure my boyfriend without using my mouth? What sex positions would be really pleasurable to him?...
A. 21 December 2008: i think getting your tongue is soooo cool. but just use evrything else besides you tongue. then when it heals he'll remember what he's been missing. by he way, how much did you pay to get your tongue pierced?... (read in full...)
I get erections hugging my girlfriend!
Q. i always get an erections when im hugging my gf should i be worryed ...
A. 21 December 2008: this is perfectly normal. boys your age go through the same things. my boyfriend gets an erection just from smelling my perfume. it makes him thinks of sex. don't worry it just means you're growing up into a regular, normal young man.... (read in full...)
What can I do to kick my porn habit?
Q. Help me. I have a porn habit. What can I do to kick it?...
A. 21 December 2008: porn can be addicting! i say steer clear of the porn sites and stay away from the videos. leave the dirty magazines on the shelf and this should help get rid of your thoughts of naked people.... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I love her or should I just keep my feelings sealed away?
Q. Hi I really need some help. Im 17, male from newcastle, and for the past year and a half I have been playing online gaming. About a year ago I started talking to a girl online, we immediately clicked and became good friends, recently though I think ...
A. 21 December 2008: that is so sweet! it's really rare that someone falls this deeply in love online. i say you should tell her because she is probably thinking about the same thing. a girl always wants to know how you feel about her. i wish you the best.... (read in full...)
I've ruined our relationship many times but I still want him
Q. ive ruined every relationship ive ever had and now ive lost the one guy i love and i have true feelings for.. we have been on and off for ages.. but everytime we get together i jeopardize it! I break his heart and i just cant do that to him any ...
A. 21 December 2008: i can relate to you! i ruined a relationship with a guy i once loved. i would always say mean things to him and make him feel less of a person. he couldn't take it anymore and left me. i was broken hearted and i still am to this day. if he doesn't ... (read in full...)
I got emotionally attached and now I feel hurt and used!
Q. So i met a guy who has a girlfriend who is about 3 months pregnant. He started calling me alot always wanting to hang out. I hung out with him a few times and he was always trying to kiss me but i wouldent let him. I was not attracted to him and i ...
A. 21 December 2008: i've been there and back! my brothers friend had a girl friend but i didn't know they had a baby together. he told me he liked me but we never had sex.(it's against my religion to have sex before marriage) one day he asked me to hang out with him. i ... (read in full...)
How can I be more sexy?
Q. I'm not really comfortable with wearing revealing clothes, etc. but how can I look/ seem sexier? Perfume? Wearing my hair a certain way? I'm at a loss....
A. 20 December 2008: sex appeal is basically confidence. being sexy is a state of mind. you're probably being sexy without knowing it. revealing clothes do not make you sexy it makes you skanky, trashy, and look like a slut. you can be sexy without dressing like a ... (read in full...)
He loves me but doesn't care if we aren't physical?
Q. i have been dating this boy for almost a yr. and 4 months and i'm kinda confused. He always says he wouldn't mind if we never kissed or did anything physical. In fact he only kisses me because he knows that's what i want. I know i should be ...
A. 20 December 2008: you have a good guy. keep him or someone else will get him. maybe he doesn't want you physically becuz he feels you are not ready and maybe he's not ready. he really loves you for you and not how you are in bed. maybe he's planning a special moment ... (read in full...)
I'm 25 and never had a date! Why do men never ask me out?
Q. What are you supposed to do if you're were an ugly duckling that grew up to be an ugly duck instead of a swan? I am a 25 year old virgin and a girl. I've been reading some postings here from other people but my situation is different becaus...
A. 20 December 2008: never say that you are FAT or UGLY! there's no such thing as being fat or ugly. confidence is key. as long you have attitude you will get someone. i'm not the smallest person but i'm thicker than most but i have confidence. i look in the mirror ... (read in full...)
Went through a phase of listening to my mother masturbate... Help!
Q. I'm really not sure exactly when it began but some time around 7th grade I became aware that my mother had a drawer full of sex toys and that she masturbated basically every night. I was very conflicted about this as I was both filled with disg...
A. 20 December 2008: if your mother isn't having sex more than likely she is gonna want some kind of sexual attention. if there is no man available she pretty much will have to do things herself. when she starts to do this go into another part of the house so you won't ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make my relationship last?
Q. What can I do to make my relationship last? I keep on getting discouraging news from my classmates and from my parents on how relationships often fizzle out. I'm sure I love this man and I think I would like to be with him for the rest of my life. ...
A. 20 December 2008: you can't determine how long your relationship is going to last. just because other peoples relationships didn't last mean that yours won't. if your guy is really interested and loves you more than anything the relationship is guaranteed to work ... (read in full...)
I only like sex when I'm drunk!
Q. Ok I like sex, it's great fun, feels good and so on, but the thing is, I only feel like I can do it whilst drunk. If I'm sober, I don't know, I just feel as if I cant, like slightly I don't have the confidence in a way. It's not a comfortability ...
A. 20 December 2008: ok...where do i begin? you shouldn't drink and have sex becuz it could lead to things that you will truly regret later. think before you act. your thoughts become your words your words become your actions.... (read in full...)
Its my first time, I'm 13! help!
Q. hey, my name is maria. im 13 years old, and my boyfriend is 15. weve been together for a year, and im ready to have sex for my first time. im not scared or anything, but i am nervous! its not his first time, so i dont know what he expects out of m...
A. 20 December 2008: sweetheart, i'm a virgin and i'm 17. many times i have wanted to give in to every boy who told me i was pretty and should have sex with them. one guy even told me sex would make me prettier. this really confused me! all i'm saying is wait until u ... (read in full...)
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