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30-35,
*odireallyneedhelp
writes: What can I do to make my relationship last? I keep on getting discouraging news from my classmates and from my parents on how relationships often fizzle out. I'm sure I love this man and I think I would like to be with him for the rest of my life. But I'm paranoid that we might end up falling apart because so many other people have had failed relationships, and it just seems like that's eventually what will happen and that I can't help it. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, brokenandconfused +, writes (20 December 2008):
you can't determine how long your relationship is going to last. just because other peoples relationships didn't last mean that yours won't. if your guy is really interested and loves you more than anything the relationship is guaranteed to work out. the best advice my grandmother gave me was to pray in such situations and the lord will work out the rest. i hope you find peace in your relationship and hopefully it lasts a long time.
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reader, Plexi +, writes (20 December 2008):
Dont spend ALL your time together. i was with my first love for 13 years and looking back i think that might be part of the reason things.........Keep it fresh, take breaks from each other without breaking up. Sprnd time apart so you can look forward to seeing each other and so you can have lots to talk about. Don't pick fights. Sooooo many things are not worth fighting over......let a few things slide, be kid and nice to each other:)be honest with one another, trust is VERY important in a relationship!!!!!!!!!
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