A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: i have been dating this boy for almost a yr. and 4 months and i'm kinda confused. He always says he wouldn't mind if we never kissed or did anything physical. In fact he only kisses me because he knows that's what i want. I know i should be thrilled to get a guy who doesn't care about that stuff, but instead of being thrilled i feel like i'm unattractive or something. He always teases me because i care way more about kisses and other physical stuff than he does, and it makes me feel like i'm some sort of slut. I'm not like that with every guy. i was never like that before my recent bf. I didn't really care about physical stuff at all before him. I love him so much i want him emotionally AND physically and it feels weird to me that i care more than him about the physical stuff because i'm the girl...guys are supposed to be more physical than girls. is there something wrong with me? He says he loves me, and i know it's true, but why doesn't he want me physically? Reply to this Question
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reader, brokenandconfused +, writes (20 December 2008):
 you have a good guy. keep him or someone else will get him. maybe he doesn't want you physically becuz he feels you are not ready and maybe he's not ready. he really loves you for you and not how you are in bed. maybe he's planning a special moment for yall to enjoy the physical things together. don't worry about sex or being physical when it's time you'll know it. by the way sex doesn't make you beautiful...
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