Shocked and hurt that he suggested, I clear off my huge debt!
Q. I have been with my partner for a year and just recently we bought a home together. I came to the relationship with £7000 debt on my credit card and he agreed that this should go on our mortgage as the interest rate was cheaper. We were talking abou ...
A. 27 January 2008: I agree to a certain extend to Uncle Phil, but I do not agree that he should act that way. Firstly he did inicially agree to that part of the debt, and now he happens to have second thoughts? If he agreed to that, he should keep his word. Treating ... (read in full...)
What kind of things can I talk about to keep him interested?
Q. i met this guy at a mates party three weeks ago we hit it off straight away and on the night of the party we had a really good time. he was my first kiss and it was ok. but since the party it has been dull and boring i still get buterflies when eve...
A. 2 August 2007: Well I would still say that you are too young for him, a three years age difference at your age is important, if you where in your twenties it wouldnt be important, but at your age it is. Anyway firstly, don't have sex with him, leave sex for a few ... (read in full...)
What kind of things can I talk about to keep him interested?
Q. i met this guy at a mates party three weeks ago we hit it off straight away and on the night of the party we had a really good time. he was my first kiss and it was ok. but since the party it has been dull and boring i still get buterflies when eve...
A. 31 July 2007: Honey, You should not be talking to this loser, he is SEVENTEEN and you are only 10-12! He is up to no good, you are far too young to be even talking about sex to a 17 year old. He probably means the world to you but believe me, lose all contact ... (read in full...)
What else can I say to him apart from "Hi, how are you, have a nice day"?
Q. I need advice (he is always on my mind) Let me start by saying I am SO SORRY this is a long one. So I met this guy back in college (my freshman year) and there was an attraction between us, but we just never seemed to find the right place o...
A. 11 July 2007: Just ask him out for a coffee, saying that you have a lot to catch up with. Don't leave this guy pass by you because if you do you will always think 'what if.....' Just do it. I would'nt do it by email though, just say it next time you see him, just ... (read in full...)
My job sucks and I'm just unhappy in general. What can I do?
Q. I'm not satisfied with my life. I never am happy- well not for long. I only want little things in my life to be right but they never do and other people always have it easier- they get things handed to them on a plate or get things easier for ...
A. 11 July 2007: Many a time we all feel like this, and I would say that especially at a young age when we start work. Most young people have expectations about work and when they start working realise that work is not what they expected. You are young, so you have ... (read in full...)
I'm going to the doctor about depression, anybody have any help or advice on the subject?
Q. my mum thinks i have depression because lately ive felt really low and ive lost my appetite and im finding it harder and harder to sleep. On monday ive got to go see a doctor which im quite nervous about (even though i want to get help with this) i ...
A. 28 June 2007: I had a friend with depresion, after he split with his girlfriend of ten years. He did go to see a doctor and the doctor suggested he took up training instead of pills. It did him very well, as when you finish in the gym you tend to feel great. He ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wont buy my car, but I think she should
Q. I recently suggested to my girlfriend that she could buy my car off me in about a year or so when she has passed her test. She hasn't even started learning yet. The car itself is in perfect condition and everyone who sees it wished they had a car ...
A. 28 June 2007: I don't really see what is the big issue! She should have her own choice, but if she really wants a car of the same type and model as yours but in black, why don't you suggest painting it in black? But honestly leave her make her own decisions.... (read in full...)
Do even guys with attractive girlfriends check out other women?
Q. To sexy girls: do your boyfriends still look at other women? I'm in a new relationship and afraid of ruining it with my jealousy. In the past I always had boyfriends who looked at other women a lot and they would also comment on my weight and ...
A. 28 June 2007: Unfortunately i must confess we do! Currently I am single but I have been with a few girls who have been real eyecatchers to other men and I must admit I have checked out other women, but at the end of the day it means nothing at all. I personally ... (read in full...)
Going on a clubbing holiday and gonna get laid... I need some tips!
Q. im going on holiday soon and i am still a virgin. Im going on a clubbing holiday and i really want to have sex. has any1 got any tips?...
A. 15 June 2007: Hi mate, I personally could say that I have gone through all the clubbing holidays possible. I have been to Magalluf in Mallorca, Ibiza, Benidorm, Albufeira in Portugal even Cancun in Mexico during Springbreak. Just go there and act yourself and ... (read in full...)
You don't know what you've got until it's gone! I didn't want to commit her in the past but now I think she's the love of my life! But she's engaged now! What shall I do?
Q. I started dating this girl about three years, everything went fine but she wanted a commitment that I didn’t want to rush into. Then one night she turned up with another guy at the pub. I was completely shattered. Because of my pride, I didn’t say ...
A. 15 March 2007: I have been going through an absolute hell. I have spoken to her and done basically everything possibly human to make her understand how I feel about her. Her reply well it’s even worse! The only reply I have been able to get from her is that she ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hits me but I still love him, what should I do?
Q. i am in love but its all wrong its not like when i was little and love was easy and...... he hits me and then after he is really sorry and he is not a wife beater its just i do things wrong somtimes. I know its all my fault and i know that i ...
A. 8 February 2007: You have to ask yourself one question, what is a wife beater for you then? Nobody should hit anybody for whatever reason; you do not deserve to be treated this way. You seem terrified of this guy and cannot see what he is doing to you. You need to ... (read in full...)
You don't know what you've got until it's gone! I didn't want to commit her in the past but now I think she's the love of my life! But she's engaged now! What shall I do?
Q. I started dating this girl about three years, everything went fine but she wanted a commitment that I didn’t want to rush into. Then one night she turned up with another guy at the pub. I was completely shattered. Because of my pride, I didn’t say ...
A. 6 February 2007: Many thanks for your much needed advice! Really I do feel that both Dagwood and Dr. Pete are correct, I have a feeling she has gone for ever but I think that I am going to take Depaiva's advice. I think that she is the Love of My Life. My world is ... (read in full...)
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