Should I refuse a job simply because my girlfriend has issues with a female coworker?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for about 8 months and all has been well. Last week I received a job offer from my old workplace. It is a good offer and I really enjoyed working at that place and only left because I started to feel stagnant ...
A. 9 June 2009: Thank you for your responces. She does have alot of trust issues and she got pretty upset when I first brought it up about two days ago. I'm letting it settle for a bit, then I will bring it up again. My current job is killing me and my previous ... (read in full...)
How do I find out if she likes me without telling her I like her?
Q. There this girl at my school we talk sometimes, but we always talk on msn, i really like her and she new it but im not sure if she likes me anymore, how did i find out without asking her, and how do i tell her i have Loving feelings for her, i ...
A. 5 June 2009: Trust me I know it's really difficult to approach a girl at your age. However, if she knows that you like her and she continues to talk to you regularly on msn, there is a very good chance that she is interested in you. Bowsandcherries has a ... (read in full...)
Is it ok for me to strip online for other men, if he uses porn... it's the same right?
Q. Since it is o.k for a guy to look at porn daily because they are "visual creatures" and need that release. Then isn't it just the same for a girl to go to chat rooms and talk since they are "emotional creatures" and need a release too. The guy on ...
A. 5 June 2009: Armywife hit the nail on the head. By your definition, if you talked/stripped with someone online, then it's ok for him to look at and get involved with a woman in the same way that stranger is with you.... (read in full...)
What can I do to diffuse this situation before it turns really bad?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8 months, we spend every Saturday night at his dad's house with his dad and twin siblings (boy + girl) aged 15. Recently his brother has been paying more attention to me, cuddling up to me, playing ...
A. 19 May 2009: And why do you allow a 15 year old boy do these things with you? If my girlfriend was "cuddling" with my 15 year old brother I would be pretty upset too. To answer your question, I would apologize and be genuine about it. Let him cool off and ... (read in full...)
Why am I disappointed? I'm not so excited about the new car!
Q. Why am I disappointed? I'm not so excited about the new car? Ok, so my boyfriend purchased a 'classic' car. It needs tons of repair work. That will take a bit of time to get that baby in good shape again. Anyways, he had said 'first a ...
A. 19 May 2009: Let me give a man's perspective:
The car is great hobby and activity. Most women don't get terribly excited over the idea of it, but I bet he needs the hobby. Some mechanically minded men need some kind of activity to satisfy that aspect o... (read in full...)
I had sex with my son's friend, do you think my son knows?
Q. My son (18) is a frshman in college he is also on the baseball team. A few monthsago he had a bunch of friends/Team mates over they were all in the pool. One of his friends walked in the house. He had no shirt on, I was sitting on the couch he came ...
A. 13 May 2009: Wait, are you a male or a female? Your info says male and assuming this is true, does your son know you are gay? If so, how well does he accept it? Is he gay too? If he is then he will be very accepting of this situation.
If you are a woman, a... (read in full...)
Should I talk to my girlfriend about my World of Warcraft friends?
Q. I have a question. My girlfriend and I have lived together for a while now and we have a great relationship. Since we have been living together, I haven't really played World of Warcraft like a I used to. I just started playing again and some of ...
A. 28 April 2009: It's not really a question of how much I play.
My girlfriend is kind of over-protective though. Once, she was pissed because she swore that I hit on a waitress when we went out to dinner one time. To be honest, it worries me a little that she... (read in full...)
I have absolutely no clue how you can get STI's
Q. When you give someone a hand job, can u get an STI?? I don't understand why you can't? Also, what infections can you get from kissing loads of people at a party, when everyone is getting off with one another? HELP!...
A. 22 April 2009: It depends on the condition. For instance, you cannot get AIDS by shaking someones hand or even kissing them but you can however get herpes this way. Also, as I understand it, there is a difference between STD and STI. STI is an infection tha... (read in full...)
Cheated on the love of my life
Q. I Cheated on my boyfriend. I am wracked with guilt. I have been with my boyfriend for five months and already know hes the guy I'm going to marry. There is no doubt in my mind hes the one for me. Yet I cheated. Not any excuse for this. He li...
A. 21 April 2009: You MUST tell him. If not for his sake, then for yours. One thing I have learned over the years, is that NOTHING stays buried forever.
My question is, How did you do it on two seperate occasions? This shows that your boyfriend is apparent... (read in full...)
My husband found out he was molested
Q. i need help. My husband found out he had been molested as a child, but he doesn't know who or even when. He says he knows it happened. He has not wanted to have sex with me at all. He used to ask for it every day and he used to get off to porn when ...
A. 21 April 2009: I dated a girl who was abused by someone. She had actually never told me or talked about it but it happened. This particular girl was very special in many ways but wanted no sex whatsoever. Many times the victim associates the act of sex with ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to fix all the bad things I've said to him and now he's dying...
Q. This isn't really about relationship, dating, love, or sex but I need help anyways. Well, actually I guess it could count as a relationship because I have a daughter/dad relationship with my dad. Well I'm fifteen. My dad has been out of my life a...
A. 21 April 2009: It's not even about who was a bad father or daughter, it's about making amens for the things we do in this life. The best thing you can do is visit him in the hospital and just be there. Sometimes you don't even need to say it but show it. Visit ... (read in full...)
I get really mad at guys who go after younger girls
Q. This is not really a relationship question but is it wrong for to want to kick the asses of men who go after younger women? Not like a 50 year old and 40 year old, I mean a 40 year old and a 17 year old. I used to work at a place and a disgusting...
A. 21 April 2009: It's definately true that I should not punch someone in the face or attack them. It would only put me in trouble with the law and in the end, it won't change those guys' ways. I'll admit I came pretty close a few times. I was once a manager at a ... (read in full...)
I am at my wits end with my girlfriend and her antics.
Q. Ok bear with me here because this is a bit of a long story. I love my girlfriend and we have been living together for 6 months. The entire time we have been going out, she has never cared how I feel about anything. About 10 months ago, I ...
A. 4 April 2009: Thank you for your answer/advice. I have tried to talk to her about but she continually denies having any feelings towards Bob. I agree 100% about the importance communication because that is what caused my parents to end their relationship. ... (read in full...)
I think my girlfriend's 19 year old sister is getting in over her head
Q. So me and my girlfriend have a great relationship and have been together for awhile and are even considering marriage but are waiting till we are more financially secure. This is regarding her sister and some of the foolish decisions she makes. ...
A. 4 March 2009: Thank you for your suggestions. I think I am going to talk with my GF and not the sister right now, maybe later but not now. I am just going to ask if she wants to go with her sister and I will explain my concerns. My GF has always been very good ... (read in full...)
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