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writes:My son (18) is a frshman in college he is also on the baseball team. A few monthsago he had a bunch of friends/Team mates over they were all in the pool. One of his friends walked in the house. He had no shirt on, I was sitting on the couch he came in and said hi i smiled and waved. He sat down next to me and we started chatting he is really buff and has a great body. I asked him if i could feel his muscles. We flirted in a really cute way. He leaned in and kised me, i kissed him back. After a little while i said stop my son is right outside I cant do this. Hes 21 im 40. A few days later he called me for a date i thought he was kidding. He talked me into and i finally agreed. On the date i had the best date i have been on since my husband died 10 years ago. I invited him back into my house i said you can come in but no sex. He came in we chatted had an awesme conversation we were cuddling and making out. He started unbuttoning my shirt so i took my shirt of i stoped again and said "c'mon your half my age no sex tonight" but i got caught in the moment and the next thing you know i am naked and we are having sex. Since then wed call each other a few times a week for sex, but recently we both started to have serious feelings for each other. On saturday we went out for lunch afterwords we went back to his dorm to have sex when we were done i noticed he had a bunch of my thongs hanging on his wall, he stole them from me after we had sex a few times lol. It made me think does my son know do you think he tells my son? My son hangs ot with him and in his dorm room? Do you think he knows my panties are hung up on his wall? Should i talk to my son how will he respond? How do i bring this up to my son?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): DON'T bring it to son's attention....don't let him know...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009): I cannot add anything to this that fighter_gal has not already said. She quite literally hit every nail on the head in describing my emotions and opinions on this topic. So kudos to you fighter_gal, as I would not have a clear enough head to articulate as well as you.
Quite simply this is a betrayal of the highest order against your son. As fighter_gal put it, you have taken sides against him. This is as I would feel should my own mother ever do such a thing. Honestly, I think it would be grounds for me to remove her from my life!
If ever there was a way for a mother to cuckold her own son this would be it. The fact that your lover hangs your panties as trophies in his dorm room, one in which you say your own son visits. It is clear he is openly mocking him. No doubt he has shared his tale of conquest to his teammates. All the more weapons to hurt your son when he finds out that he was the last to know....
The only thing more humiliating to your son than this would be to be forced to suck his "friends" cock. Would you lol at that?
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reader, fighter_gal  +, writes (5 June 2009):
You are all INSANE, MENTALLY INSANE.
How can you do that to your own son? Your own little creation?
He loves you more than anyone in the whole wide world, a son loves his mom. and naturally, sons take the role as 'protectors' and they cannot take it if their own mother, the one that they love most, can go and sleep with/passionately kiss/even flirt with their own friend!!
Just imagine what trauma the son will go through when him and his friend fall out, the 'friend' will be like "haha, i fucked your mother!" and that would actually be true, we are all protective of our mothers, we'll all kill anyone who tries to hurt our mothers, and hate it when someone can say something bad about our own mothers. The saddest thing is, is that the mother has parted with the son and joined the side of the 'friend' by actually getting intimate with his friend.
It is HIS FRIEND. NOT YOURS!!
YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO THINK ABOUT WHAT IS BEST FOR YOUR OWN SON!
LOOK WHAT YOU ARE DOING TO A YOUNG BOY (HIS FRIEND) - A PERSON WHO HAS NOT YET MORALLY DEVELOPED YET!!
YOU'D BE HUMILIATING YOUR OWN SONS SOUL, if he knows or doesnt know, you'd be damaging the relationship you have with your own son spiritually, because you would have to live with the fact that you did that to him for the rest of your life, things will never be the same!!
for any men out there who want to reply back saying "chill out": YOU have a good think about your own mum being fucked the **** out by your own friend. think about the betrayal, the lack of respect.
No matter how much the son denies it, he respects and loves his mom more than ANYTHING. And to ruin that bit of happiness that your son has with YOU, is just dreadful.
AND...what example would you be setting for your own son, and his 'friend'? I'll tell you, it will be like you are teaching them that ruining a son and mother relationship is acceptable. You will be teaching them how to break families.
How can you respect a 'friend' of your son if he is willing to disrespect your own son by wanting to **** you!! just for the disrespect to your own son, you should say NO!
this is appauling, you are literally encouraging him to disrespect your own son even more.
If your sons best friend is good looking, then you shouldnt be attracted to him, that is disgusting, hes so much younger than you, you are not in that role in life anymore to be chasing him. you are a woman, a mother, a parent. you should be happy for him, that he is good looking enough to be able to get good looking girls that are his age and be happy growing up is own way into a man like all the men your own age have.
By choosing to flirt with/have sex with your sons best friend, you are choosing your sons best friend's emotions over your own son's love, respect and honour.
The 'friend' will probably say " i swear to God, i dont disrespect you or him, i appreciate your beauty" but to be honest, we'll ALL say ANYTHING to get into a womens pants. TRUST ME. Whatever works.
Your own son has a male ego (the good sort of ego), you are damaging it, by doing this, you would make your own son mentally ill and feel so unloved and feel like he hasnt got a close relationship with anyone anymore.
Even if he didnt know about it, you can never act 100% normal with your son ever after that spiritual ordeal.
If the boy is 22 or 18, age is irrelevant. This is incredibly vile.
You are letting your sons best friend disrespect your own son by letting him grab hold of his most highly regarded possession that no one else can touch - YOU!!
Trust me, GUYS ALL HAVE EGO'S AND THE BOY YOU ARE HAVING SEX WITH HAS A BAD EGO NOW, IF HE WANTED TO, HE CAN STOMP YOUR SONS SPIRIT TO DEATH NOW! - TRUST ME. HE CAN. HE IS ON A LEVEL HIGHER THAN YOUR SON, AND AS A MOTHER, YOU SHOULD WANT THE BEST FOR YOUR SON.
Remember when he was younger, a little baby, and you gave other little children attention just for laughs to see how he will react, and he got jealous and frustrated and angry and hurt and decieved?
All for what? A little rush, and a little boy?!!! the little boy you are flirting with has got issues himself, he feels insecure, and you, as a woman that holds the role as a MOTHER, are doing something like that to his friend?
You are supposed to be a SECONDARY mother figure, not a cheap and deceptive, old baggy, fishy pussy that is available for him.
You please tell me, email me at [email address blocked] . reply back.
PLEASE tell me about your background, because im assuming your some white trash redneck.
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reader, Dreamlover  +, writes (15 May 2009):
 Im in a catch 22 with this, firstly you deserve love and you deserev to be happy, but on the flip side your son needs to know, at least from both of you at the same time. It will hurt him but its the truth.
When it comes to the 21 year old, i think you need to be careful as if you love him, then you need to protect your family and yourself, his 21 and hanging your things in his dorm does nto sound like the most mature 21 year old, just my opinion.
Maybe you need to decide what you want before you tell your son and think of the ramifications?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): Tell you son. Even if he reacts badly the situation will probably be better than if he hears it through gossip or from someone else.
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reader, Biff160 +, writes (13 May 2009):
Wait, are you a male or a female? Your info says male and assuming this is true, does your son know you are gay? If so, how well does he accept it? Is he gay too? If he is then he will be very accepting of this situation.
If you are a woman, as it sounds like you are, I don't really see it as a BIG deal and I don't think he would either. I don't think anyone likes to hear about the sexual tendancies of their parents however so keep the details to a mim.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): I think you should be honest with your son. If it ever comes up just tell him the truth. You are single and you are looking for love. His friend is of legal age so that wouldn't be a problem. You son might not understand it now and may even find it weird but he will thank you for being honest with him. And who knows maybe he will open up to you more.
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