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Does this mean I'm not a virgin anymore?

Q.   me and and mah boyfriend were at his crib....nd we thought we were ready so he put it in just a little nd it hurt so i told him no nd he took it out.....so am i still a virgin or not?? ...

A.   10 October 2009: _ NO! you were penetrated ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure how to masturbate

Q.   i want to finger myself but dont know how to do it the right way help plz...

A.   9 September 2009: There's many ways, one is you could just stimulate your clitoris that's the little hard bump that shows up at the top of your vagina while your turned on, or you could get your self turned on and when your vagina is wet insert 1 or more fingers ... (read in full...)

I'm wondering about my body...

Q.   [Moderator note: Two questions by this poster combined into this post.] Question 1: well i want my boyfriend to finger me and perform oral but what if im not wet enough? i get turned on by him but i only get a little wet. Question 2: well im a vir...

A.   5 August 2009: your to young to be getting fingered by someone else stick to masturbating and wait till your of legal age for sex... (read in full...)

Why are boys like this?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. He usually comes around mine and we will watch movies and play games. My siblings always seem to get in the way though. But whenever we are alone in a room, he will get on top of me and its like ...

A.   29 July 2009: Its normal for a teen male to be like that his hormones are raging but he should take no for an answer. And no your not moving slow you shouldn't even be having sex at your age. ... (read in full...)

He's so verbally abusive

Q.   I'm so confused, me and my boyfriend have a relationship of 5 years. When he gets angry he says really hurtful things like " you bitch, your deaf, you dumb slut" he tells me he has a short fuse and can't controll himself. Last night I had enough a...

A.   26 July 2009: Lets him go... hes a jerk you should be treated as a princess not some piece of trash... (read in full...)

Do men get put off a girl who is too open?

Q.   guys - do you get turned off when a girl is too open? ...

A.   26 July 2009: No i wanna know how they are feeling or whats wrong... (read in full...)

Smitten... after only one week! Should I tell her?

Q.   I think i have developed feelings for this girl after only one week. we met at the park and started talking. We are into the exact same things we have both had the same problems in our life so we understand each other. So should i inform her on my ...

A.   21 July 2009: ok ty... (read in full...)

How do you make a long distance relationship work, unable to go to see her?

Q.   How do you make a long distance relationship work if we cant see each other for a long time... we are both 16 and she lives 11 hours from me so i have no way i can see her. but we really like each other. There's no way i could see her till i was at ...

A.   21 July 2009: ok ty... (read in full...)

I am a tomboy and I have not had a boyfriend ever, I do wear make-up, do boys care if you are a tomboy?

Q.   ummmm ok this is a weird question but like im a big tomboy most of my friends are guys and i luv tossing the football and wrestling and stuff like that but i still wear makeup and crap......do guys like that or care about that cuz i havnt hade an ...

A.   20 July 2009: some guys like the girly girls and some like the tomboys i prefer the tomboy type. but most guys will just see u as a friend normally if there is a guy u like then you will have to ask him out... (read in full...)

Why wouldn't he ask for my phone number?

Q.   This guy in my class approached me and we had a small conversation. When we got to the subway we went out seperate but he never asked for my phone number. Why would he do that? What are the reasons why a guy wouldnt ask for my phone number?...

A.   19 July 2009: Maybe he didn't wanna come on to strong or come off as a creep to you... (read in full...)

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