I always attract the wrong guy, how do I bring the focus back onto my own life?
Q. Dear Cupid, I need to understand what is going on with me as I'm back in the same position I've been in several times before and I've got to break this cycle. The problem is that I only seem to go out with guys who have an emotional disab...
A. 4 September 2011: Hi, I have been through very similar circumstances. I discovered that my husband of 26 years was a Passive/aggressive personality... please re-search this on line. I think that you need to learn to love yourself and then you will demand the love ... (read in full...)
My FWB creeps me out during sex
Q. Hey! Okay, so I've been messing around with my Friends and Benefits for a couple a months now and he does this thing in bed that kind of creeps me out but at the same time romantic. Whenever we are having sex, he constantly stares into my eyes and ...
A. 22 August 2011: This means that he likes to look at you whilst making love, he is obviously very attracted to you. I don't think that is creepy at all , infact the opposite and a very loving action.... (read in full...)
I dumped my boyfriend but he took me back. Is our relationship damaged?
Q. I finally left my husband after 26 years of marriage. I have been separated now for eight months and I began dating recently and met a man I get along with very well. However I think that the intimacy we shared has uprooted feelings about my ...
A. 16 August 2011: thankyou for your answer Lucky. You are right I am not over my husband but I am so lonely and I so want to be loved.. its really hard because I'm scared too of getting hurt all over again so I am being ultra sensitive to situations which make me ... (read in full...)
The most important words a man can say to you
Q. In past I have discussed the "L" words, meaning "love" and "like" and their meaning in the relationships you've had or currently have. Today I would like to discuss a sentence that will, well, leave you spellbound if it ever comes out of the mouth ...
A. 16 August 2011: I think this article is brilliant and so true. I left my husband after 26 years because he actually spent a lot of time telling me that he could live perfectly well on his own.. deep down I believe this was not true but I got tired of being pushed ... (read in full...)
Husband treats me badly and I don't know why
Q. I have been married for under a year but I have known my husband for 8 years before that. We have always gotten along and everything started out great. I have a daughter which makes him a step father, she's almost a year old. Recently he has been...
A. 4 December 2010: This man does not love you! This man only wants to control you. You are like a puppet to him, he pulls the strings and you re-act. Firstly , now think about the love and respect that you have for yourself and your daughter. You owe it to ... (read in full...)
Married, confused and could do with some objective views.
Q. to give a bit of back ground i have been married for 13 years and been with my wife for nearly 16. she is a great person and a great mother to our 3 children (aged 11,12,13). we got to together at young age and had the old whirlwhind roman...
A. 4 December 2010: I strongly advise that you do not pursue a relationship with your co-worker. Instead of thinking about beginning a new relationship you should be putting all your engeries into the relationship you have at this present time with your wife and ... (read in full...)
My husband does not contribute to the weekly shopping bill. Am I being unreasonable?
Q. My husband is refusing to give me an allotted amount of housekeeping money per week. I earn a small amount of money which does not cover the weekly food bill and other household items required. He says that I spend too much money on food etc., ...
A. 22 May 2010: Thankyou all for your answers to my question. I will put these ideas into action and see how we get along. Thanks again , very much appreciated.... (read in full...)
My husband seems 'unplugged' from our relationship
Q. My husband and I have been married for nearly 25 years. I have found over the years that he tends to want to live 'in his own world' and becomes very unplugged within our relationship. I have found that the way to get him 'plugged back in' is extr...
A. 9 April 2009: thank you both for your response to my question. Yes I agree that it is easy to get out of communication when you have been married for some time. I think that 'love addict' theory though really has hit 'the nail on the head' so to speak. I am ... (read in full...)
No gift on my 40th birthday.....do I get him a birthday present?
Q. Hi, I’d appreciate a few views on this. Ive been with my boyfriend a year and a half. We broke up for two weeks around valentines and my 40th birthday and I cant help feeling miffed that he didn’t get me anything for my birthday. He did send flowers ...
A. 9 April 2009: Although you say you are not materialistic, it does seem as if you are because you are quite explicit about how much money is normally spent on each other. I think that it is the 'thought that counts' not the amount of money that has been spent. ... (read in full...)
Is this good or bad? I'm not quite sure.
Q. Hi a randomly odd question but i just want to know. i was hanging out with my friends and my friends brother just turned to me and said "i can't read you at times" not in a nasty way just stating that i am a difficult person to read. Is t...
A. 7 April 2009: Thats because .. all men can't read women. In time will come accross this alot. Even if you tell a man exactly what you mean by using the english language, they still don't get it!! Very often it has to be spelled out in large letters!! Please read ... (read in full...)
I don't think I love my husband anymore
Q. I don't think I love my husband anymore. My husband and I have been married for 5 years now, we have a 2 year old son. I was married at the age of 23. At the moment we have a lot going on, I've been telling him that I feel lost and that I don't...
A. 7 April 2009: I think you should get out now while you can. You are young and have your whole life ahead of you. You will meet someone else in time, but just don't make the same mistake by meeting a guy with the same personality as this one has. I have heard ... (read in full...)
Dysfunctional Friendship/Romance
Q. I live with my best friend in the whole world, but in the past we were a bit more than friends. I regret it now, but we've slept together many times - but it never felt like just sex, it was always really... loving. I started to fall in love with ...
A. 31 January 2009: It sounds to me that you are his 'doormat' .. wake up and smell the rosies girl!! ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS.. Think lodgically about his ACTIONS.. write down his ACTONS. read them out aloud to yourself.. NOW do you SEE the reality. He is ... (read in full...)
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