Can't deal with my husband's anger and negativity, but leaving him means leaving the U.S.
Q. I am marriaged to an American for more then 12 years now. I went to USA to work and study with a scholarship in Arts. We met through a friend from my Master´s Degree University. He is an Artist too,but from another University,but doesnt have a Mast...
A. 8 November 2013: Hi,
I'm not sure how the sytem works in USA but you should possibly see an immigration lawyer. I am sure you could stay if you leave him. You've been living there for 12 years now.
A quick google search and came up with this:
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I feel like I'm masturbating too much
Q. Hi all I am a 16 year old girl who is a virgin and I masturbate really often and I feel that I do it too much and I am getting addicted as I will masturbate when I wake up and when I get home and before I go to sleep also I watch porn while I'm ...
A. 8 November 2013: There is nothing wrong with masturbating. At your age I was the same and masturbated most days, in fact not much has changed. Masturbation is healthy and relaxing.
The only problem is if it interfers with your day to day life and activiti... (read in full...)
His reaction to his grandma giving me a gift a concern or not?
Q. Hi all, Wanted some help clarifying how to respond to something that hurt me slightly by my boyfriend of 2.5years. Boyfriends grandma is fairly old now, and I get on with her really well. Lovely lady. at her birthday dinner, i saw her using...
A. 8 November 2013: Hi OP,
Hmm so it's not just a one off thing with his Grandmother?. If his family say he is tight, well I guess he may not be the most generous.
I understand where you are coming from, the relationship I was in 5 years ago I paid for most th... (read in full...)
Boyfriend watching mother/son porn,should I be worried???
Q. I've been in relationship with this guy for 8 months( we are same age),and I always knew he likes older women witch i think its normal,but recently I find out he was watching porn mother son type ,where guy is seduce by his mother while dad is at ...
A. 7 November 2013: Jeez, I don't know I doubt very much he wants to bone his mother. Sometimes on porn sites its the highest rated videos that are watched or what is on the front page of the site. Talk to him about it and ask what is his preference, I'm sure if you ... (read in full...)
Should I worry about my boyfriend being friends with this cheater?
Q. My boyfriend is friends with a girl who cheats on her boyfriend with a lot of guys. (she even admits it) I'm not trying to judge her but I feel uncomfortable with her being friends with my boyfriend. I've met her and have been around her. She ...
A. 7 November 2013: If you trust your boyfriend, if you know he will not cheat or has any emotional or physical connection with this woman no need to worry. Just because he is friends with her, you don't have to be. I don't know your bf's situation like if the girl is ... (read in full...)
How to handle this feeling of helplessness as I don't want to date a separated man?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months. He has been separated for three years. His wife had an affair and now has a partner and two very young children. They have an 18 year old who lives with her. He assured me when we met that he has no f...
A. 7 November 2013: I'm not sure how it works in the UK but here if you bought a house with a married man/woman their spouse is entitled to half of the property if your partner passes away or divorces. You will lose out. If you decide to buy a home with this man do NOT ... (read in full...)
Why can't I 'finish' with my girlfriend or even by myself?
Q. kinda embarrassed about this but here goes: i bm having trouble finishing during sex with my gf. it's always been a problem for me since i was a teenager. whenever i masturbate, sometimes i cum/finish but sometimes i don't. it's been the same with ...
A. 7 November 2013: Could it be psychological?. I think olderthandirt is correct, possibly best if you go to see your GP and talk to him/her about it. It could be a medical issue. Don't worry too much, I'm sure you will be grand.
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His reaction to his grandma giving me a gift a concern or not?
Q. Hi all, Wanted some help clarifying how to respond to something that hurt me slightly by my boyfriend of 2.5years. Boyfriends grandma is fairly old now, and I get on with her really well. Lovely lady. at her birthday dinner, i saw her using...
A. 7 November 2013: All that fuss for a bag hook?. My grandma gave my brother girlfriend a watch she owned, nobody objected it was HER watch to give away and do what she wanted with.
He is not just being disrespectful to you but his grandmother. I'm sure she has her ... (read in full...)
What to say to queue jumpers?
Q. I waited outside in the heat yesterday, to get my book signed by a famous entertainer. I'm heavily pregnant and still people thought of nothing of jumping the queue. I always seem to be an easy target for this sort of Behaviour? I unfortunately ...
A. 7 November 2013: Tell them to get the fuck out of your way and grab them by the collar. Call them out on their rudeness. ... (read in full...)
Why do so many people think I "need" a boyfriend?
Q. My 30th b-day is around the corner and I'm getting more and more frustrated at friends I've had throughout my life. While my circle of friends/acquaintances has changed over the past 15 years, I have always had the same problem: I keep getting told ...
A. 7 November 2013: Just to add I don't think your behaviour screams desperate. Just because it does not comply with what others deem as normal, it is their problem not yours.... (read in full...)
Why do so many people think I "need" a boyfriend?
Q. My 30th b-day is around the corner and I'm getting more and more frustrated at friends I've had throughout my life. While my circle of friends/acquaintances has changed over the past 15 years, I have always had the same problem: I keep getting told ...
A. 7 November 2013: Hi OP, I just turned 30 and single for hmm around 5 years, not had sex in 5 years too. I don't like to sleep around or interested in one night stands. I understand where you are coming from, my friends and members of my family are getting... (read in full...)
Who should I go for? My fiance William or my soul mate Andy?
Q. I am at a relationship crossroads. I met my college sweetheart "Andy" when I was 18. We were friends for a year, and then dated for 3 and had planned to marry someday. We had typical young love problems and broke up when we graduated. He went to ...
A. 6 November 2013: Poor William, you are behaving like a douche towards him. You need to be honest with him and tell him how you feel about Andy. Maybe you don't have closure with Andy and eventually you may regret letting William go.... (read in full...)
Am I wrong about my BF ? Please help.
Q. I met my BF through a friend in a blind date. I though he was a whinner and he told me that all his female and ex girl friends were all the time mean with him. Also,his ex wife cheated on him after he took care of her kids and helped pay her house. ...
A. 6 November 2013: I'm guessing from your age he is an older gent. Some stay friends with exes although do not tend to hold any romantic feelings towards them. I am still friends with one ex, he meets up with my brother sometimes for a drink and to watch football. I ... (read in full...)
My husband expects me to work full time and perform all of the household chores
Q. My husband gets angry at me for stupid things. He wants me to be the traditional 50's wife, to cook, to clean, to do laundry and all that. I'm okay with most of that to a point; I would be more than willing to do it every day if I didn't work. My ...
A. 6 November 2013: What an arse. You deserve better than that, you are not his personal slave. Try to talk to him or a member of his family or yours. Explain how you are feeling and make sure if possible you have support around you.... (read in full...)
He gives me butterflies. He said he is "Falling for me hard" - what does this mean?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for almost three months now and I'm the happiest I've been in years, I literally can't remember the last time I was this happy in life. We have a lot of banter but he's also so sweet and caring and is a gentleman deep...
A. 6 November 2013: I've come to learn men generally mean what they say. We tend to read too much into it. Just enjoy your time together and be happy!.... (read in full...)
How do I deal with a toxic person who wants to be my friend? I'm reluctant about this situation
Q. There's this girl I started hanging out with outside of work. At first I thought she was a cool person however after getting to know her, I realised she's a toxic person (being negative about everything) and has disappointed me a few times (like ta...
A. 6 November 2013: Tend to agree with WiseOwl but to add I find work place friendships can become difficult and have learnt to distance myself and just be professional with co - workers, only go out with them at christmas time or if there is an occassion in the ... (read in full...)
Missionary out, every other position works?
Q. Okay, so this isn't really an issue, more of a "what the heck is going on" type of situation. quite plainly, when i would have sex with my boyfriend in the missionary position, it would hurt. the odd thing is, it would hurt only around the botto...
A. 6 November 2013: I remember one ex boyfriend who was a bit larger down stairs, if we did missionary it could hurt because he was hitting off my cervix, once even was a bit bruised but if we did doggy style or on top it did not hurt at all. Possibly a good idea to ... (read in full...)
I want to date my step sister but is this okay?
Q. I want to date my step sister. I am 24 and she is 25 and she has 2 kids and so do i. I want to tell her but i dont know how. She is so sexy but that is not why i want to be with her. We see a loot in the same whey. we joke about us dating and having ...
A. 6 November 2013: Hmm I guess it depends, did you grow up together? Have your parents just married lately?. Generally would say it is a bad idea and could get messy. Really depends on your situation. She may just see you as a brother.... (read in full...)
How do you deal with friends with a very different cultural and religious values?
Q. hello, i am in a serious trouble with myself. how do you deal with friends with a very different cultural/religion values between them? i am having a difficult time with it.. i spend time with them (off course they are my friends, so we go for movi...
A. 6 November 2013: I don't see how this is an issue. Why are you bothered about what other people say about your friends?. If they are racist or ignorant why not correct or challenge them. If anything it's the ones making comments on your friends because of their ... (read in full...)
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