The 17 yr old daughter of one of my friends is coming on to me quite strong..it's tempting but I need advce...please!
Q. Hey, I'm having real trouble getting my head around this one. I'm a 45 year old divorcee with 2 children of 22 and 19. They both live with me after my wife ran off with another man. I'm lucky that I have a close circle of friends around me with m...
A. 9 April 2008: Well we're all entitled to enjoy the attention of a horny and experimental 17 year-old, but I think the attention is usually given in order to gain power and control, and that would also seem to be the case here. I'd suggest you enjoy her attention ... (read in full...)
I'm keen on this job after an interview, but something just doesn't seem right. Can you help please?
Q. Question about a job interview. A few unsure feelings: I am currently on a gap year working after finishing college a year ago. I am looking into an apprenticeship within construction and noticed a trainee draughtsperson position locally ...
A. 9 April 2008: In my experience, both personal and second-hand, negative behaviour of an employer at interview or at the beginning of a new employee's contract is usually followed up by negative behaviour of the employer on the job and is usually associated with ... (read in full...)
He's usually confident around the ladies but around me he's nervous and stutters!
Q. If a guy who normally flirts with all the other ladies acts nervous and stutters around you, does that mean he likes you as more than a friend?...
A. 21 June 2007: Hi
Yes, in the absence of any further information, and unless he feels any kind of threat from you, you're probably on the right lines. Most likely he really values what you think of him.
Is this about someone in particular?
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Im getting to like him more each time I see him, but theres no physhical attraction!!
Q. there's a guy who likes me alot!! i am getting to like him more everyime i see him as he is becoming more confident around me!! he is also very caring!!the problem is that there is not a huge amount of physical attraction there for me!!! i'm not ...
A. 20 June 2007: Hello
I don't think this is an uncommon situation. Most people find themselves in your position at one time or another. Maybe even you've been in this position before. If so, how was it similar, what did you do and how did it turn out?
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Do men who have georgeous girlfriends still fantasize, look at porn or cheat?
Q. Do men who have drop dead gorgeous girlfriends still fantasize about other women, want to look at porn, or cheat? I am an attractive woman and all my boyfriends have looked at other women or porn at some time or another in our relationship(and some ...
A. 19 June 2007: Men, whether they're in a relationship or not like to look at women. I don't know, maybe it's the male equivalent of shoes - you see a nice pair and you're momentarily distracted.
Porn doesn't necessarily do it for all men - one friend of mine ... (read in full...)
I have an atypical male problem... I want the perfect mate
Q. I have a typical male problem in that i want to commit to my girl but only if a list of criterias are met... like "she doesn't control me, she is not too clingy, possessive, is tolerant of my mistakes when i am careless about her, gives me my own ...
A. 15 June 2007: Never mind all the pub psychology. All you have to do is ask yourself "Do I want her?" If you do, great, if not, move on. What's the point of making it any more complicated than that? You can't force yourself to want something you don't!... (read in full...)
How do I handle the silly nature of these people?
Q. When i am going out of station to a place i like, my family members become overwhelmed about the new adventure and imagine that if i am successful, it will relieve them of all their problems in life. They somewhat look at me as their savior who ...
A. 15 June 2007: They sound like a total pain in the neck!
I'd be inclined to tell them to get out my face and I'll give them what I want to give them if and when I'm good and ready! I think you really need to get that straight with them before you go any furt... (read in full...)
Going on a clubbing holiday and gonna get laid... I need some tips!
Q. im going on holiday soon and i am still a virgin. Im going on a clubbing holiday and i really want to have sex. has any1 got any tips?...
A. 15 June 2007: If you want to get laid that's fine - at least you know what you want. Bear in mind though that the only things you are in control of are your actions and reactions to what happens. Neither you nor anyone else has control over what actually ... (read in full...)
I find myself constantly having to take the leadership role and I am getting tired of it.
Q. My boyfriend and I are both 21, we have been dating for 2 1/2 years and we are starting to talk about marriage. My main concern is that he is not very masculine. He does not have any leadership traits, he is not chivalrous (he has bought me flowers ...
A. 15 June 2007: So let's see if we've got this straight. You see your boyfriend as lacking several personality traits that you would prefer him to have and to top it off he's weak, but at least it's only his personality and character. Poor bloke! And you're ... (read in full...)
He said that work pressured him to watch the freak sex show, I dont believe him, what do you think ?
Q. if u heard that ur bf says that work has pressured him into going in and watching a freak sex show while being on his company trip, would u believe him that he was pressured and gave in or not? cause i don't, i have never let someone pressure...
A. 14 June 2007: Er, what hook?
It sounds like you've heard from someone about something your boyfriend might have said about an event you weren't even party to. So what? Like harshbutfair said, why do you care so much?
My hunch is that he's either unnecessa... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend wants to end it but doesn't have the balls to say so
Q. Me and my boyfriends sex life have been a bit awkward lately, for diffrent reasons which i think can be over come. But when he was dropping me home on sunday, after a sex session gone wrong, he got a call from a work mate and he pulled in to phone ...
A. 14 June 2007: It doesn't sound like you're having your needs met.
What he might or might not be thinking is neither here nor there. Why do women have this tendency to try and guess what men are thinking? It's completely unnecessary!
Ask yourself how you... (read in full...)
I want to ask this girl out but avoid friends making a fuss. What do i do??
Q. I fancy this girl. The only problem is i dont want my friends to know they make a big fuss out of it! I want to ask this girl out to date etc but her best mate is my best mates sister! So, if her best mate knows than so will my mate which i want to ...
A. 14 June 2007: Yes. There's no problem here. Have the integrity to ask this girl out. If there's a fuss, you can laugh about it. "It's great isn't it? I wanted to ask her out, I was a bit nervous but I did it and I'm really glad I did! I'd do the same thing ... (read in full...)
Is the age gap ok??
Q. I've fallen for this 14 year old girl. I'm 16. i'm not too sure about the age gap, what you guys think? How can i ask her out or meet her without embarrassing myself coz if she rejects me she will tell her friends which will be hell for me as they ...
A. 14 June 2007: You haven't got anything to worry about. You fancy her, so good for you for being honest. It makes perfect sense to ask her out. It's a GOOD thing.
If she does happen to reject you and she or her friends find it necessary to "loud mouth" abou... (read in full...)
My large breasts are sooo uncomforatble! What should I do about it?
Q. Lately ive been feeling very self concious about my breasts. Im 17 and im a G cup.. but im small in comparison with my breasts, i wear size 10 clothes. I dont have any bras that fit and feel really uncomfortable. My question is.. can breasts be too ...
A. 6 June 2007: Hello Well, I think it's important to understand what you mean when you ask whether breasts can be TOO big. Too big for what? Or whom? For you? For your lover? If your lover loves you, the size of your breasts is neither here nor there. What... (read in full...)
I have lost interest in her because of her breasts!
Q. My gf and i have been in a relationship for over 3 months. I am begining to loose interest in her becasue she has very small breasts. This sounds really immature but I can't help but feel it. I really like her and she has the best personality and ...
A. 1 June 2007: I really don't see any problem here, other than your apparent reliance on what your friends think you should do. Sounds like you'd prefer a woman with a bigger cup size. Good for you for being honest about what you want - it's the polar opposite ... (read in full...)
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