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My boyfriend keeps registering on dating sites and tells me it's just "for a laugh"

Q.   Could some one advise me what to do please? I have found my boyfriend to be registering on different date sites. This is the fourth time I found out about it now. He says its just for a laugh and unregisters from them, but then secretly registers on ...

A.   26 May 2014: Advise you what to do? That`s so easy. Dump his sorry ass!!!!... (read in full...)

He said the message on his phone was a trap to see if I was snooping

Q.   Hi im in a relationship with an aries, I saw on his phone msgs to another woman saying he had feelings for her apparently she was in spain, I asked him about this as I was packing to leave, things got heated n he said he didnt want me to leave, we ...

A.   20 October 2013: jils, you are presented as being aged 41-50. Experience of life itself should tell you that he is full of bull crap. The most important thing now is deciding what to do about it. Believe me, but there will be lots more of his bull crap to come at y... (read in full...)

I HATE my ex! I need a healthy way of letting go!

Q.   I need help to control my anger before i seriously burst with rage! I absolutly HATE my ex boyfriend with a passion right now, he has made a complete fool out fo me and i have literally just thrown everything he ever bought me on ebay to get rid....

A.   22 February 2013: What exactly did he do wrong to you? Why did he make a fool out of you? He did buy you things, so he wasn't bad all the time then? or was he?. You are the one who is losing out here. The greatest payback you could make is for him to see you are happ... (read in full...)

I love 2 men and don't want to hurt either of them

Q.   I am in a very weird position. I love two men! I was dating a man in the army who was just about to deploy, he said he really likes me etc etc Then he went away and we decided to talk about taking our relationship further when he comes back. He is ...

A.   15 January 2013: Is this guy from the army the same guy from the army you have wrote in about twice. If so, you was told that he was using you. Suddenly there is someone else who now loves you back. To be honest the 2nd guy will probably end up the one being hurt. ... (read in full...)

While house-sitting for my girlfriend, I discovered she is not the person she lead me to believe she is.

Q.   So I have been with my girlfriend about 4 months and I thought things were going great. We got serious very quickly however and ended up spending almost every day together. Lately I've felt very uncertain about several things I've discover...

A.   3 December 2012: So what happens now? Every time she feels unsatisfied she goes off looking for threesome sex with strangers? Somehow I do not think it`s about that. A lot of cheats justify their behavior by blaming those they cheat on. She, imo just enjoys the ... (read in full...)

He cried, real tears, but guess what!

Q.   Just over two months ago I left my dating site obsessed boyfriend of four years. I accepted dating sites were part of his life and always will be. He has suddenly started trying to get me back again with the same old bull shit and accused me of ...

A.   24 November 2012: He has got that one right, he is not with you now and he`s at liberty to join any dating site that he wants. "But" seeing as it was dating sites that was the cause of your break up, you would think he knew that being active on them would not win you ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my husband's brother that I love him too and about the fantasy of a threesome with him and my husband?

Q.   My brother in law has called me and texted me and told me in person he loves me and is attracted to me. I haven't replied to his remarks out of respect to my husband. I just ignored it when he said it. I know he was intoxicated/high so I didn't ...

A.   1 November 2012: It looks like disrespect is mutually cutting three ways. I dont think it will work somehow.... (read in full...)

She said she just felt like talking to a guy on line! Your thoughts please? But why would she start talking to a stranger online?

Q.   I've been with my GF for almost 3 years. When I first met her she was always online chatting and I know she has done a lot of stuff she regrets while she was chatting.. She had promissed me to stop that because I said I would leave her and her 2 ki...

A.   10 October 2012: I have a tendency to try to route out old history on this forum to gain insight. So about you and your present girlfriend. You have in the past posted about knowing your girlfriend did webcam shows for guys. Now you are back again after finding out ... (read in full...)

I've been lied to again but don't know how to confront her...

Q.   I've just found out from my girlfriend's brother in-law that she deceived me again. To cut a long story short, she's lied to me a few times on about where she's been and other different things. I met up with my girlfriends brother in-law to ta...

A.   13 July 2012: It`s no use asking her anything. There are children involved and you love her, but it will not change anything. It is not what you want to do, but get out now before you fall in deeper.... (read in full...)

Wondering if my marriage is based on a lie?

Q.   hey aunts and uncles, im so fed up at the moment, my husband lies to me so much, little white lies but im thinking if he can lie about something so simple, what else can he lie about. So hes been going to a martial arts class twice a week, so...

A.   24 February 2012: He is lying to you and lying about you. He has probably lied all his life. Unless you are prepared to get out of the marriage, there may be little else you can do.... (read in full...)

I'm in a happy relationship now, so why wont my ex move on like I have done?

Q.   hi everyone i need to understand why my ex is still tracking my movements on the internet? we were together 7 years, its been over between us for 2 yrs but only stopped sexual contact 10 months ago. we have had zero contact except on 3 occasions via ...

A.   24 February 2012: I have been tracking you too, well on this forum I have. You have also participated in others questions. Both answers are about your ex. You also state he has blocked you on his facebook network, which is even more confusing because you believe he`s ... (read in full...)

Will asking about his past open a can of worms?

Q.   Hi there, I've been in a relationship for 6+ months, and all is going well. We are happy. We never talk about past relationships, we are both quite guarded people and are slowly opening up more over time. He has a lot of female friends. Which h...

A.   24 February 2012: We are all different I know. In this case I believe it`s likely he has nothing to hide. He is being too open. If you was in a situation where you had a male friend and you had a soft spot for him or vice versa, or there were any signs of sexual ... (read in full...)

I'm in a happy relationship now, so why wont my ex move on like I have done?

Q.   hi everyone i need to understand why my ex is still tracking my movements on the internet? we were together 7 years, its been over between us for 2 yrs but only stopped sexual contact 10 months ago. we have had zero contact except on 3 occasions via ...

A.   24 February 2012: Of course he has moved on. And so should you.... (read in full...)

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