Am I being immature for being annoyed by finding a male friend of hers asleep on her sofa?
Q. I am a 51 year old male that have been seeing a gal for a few months. I am not really the jealous type. I work graveyard shift and had been pretty much staying with my girlfriend every day. I came home for lunch at two a.m. to find a male friend of ...
A. 1 September 2011: I understand your anxieties but it all seems compleately innocent and in that cas i do feel as though your over reacting. They probably just both have been watcching TV and a movie and fallen asleep on the separate couches so purly innocent. Its ... (read in full...)
Getting over jerk of an ex!
Q. Hi I am having real problems forgetting my ex and getting my self-esteem back. We broke up in November last year, although he actually told me he didn't love me anymore in June of last year. But he said that he didn't know what he wanted, so an...
A. 1 September 2011: It may sound corny but you will meet someone. Its hard getting over a jerk whioch is so silly but if you loved him and you cared for him it will take time. im 7 months on from a manipulating jerk and i still miss him which is stupid as to what he ... (read in full...)
Husband doesn't love me but doesn't want divorce because he wants the property
Q. My husband does not love me. He is searching young girls for long term relationship keeping our marriage as it. He loves my education, property, and background, not me. He always harass me in front of his family and close friends. When I asked for ...
A. 1 September 2011: If your marrage is how you say it is then your husband does not respect you. You deserve someone who loves you for you not what you can provide for them. I dont know how the legal system works in nepal but in the UK things get split 50/50. I ... (read in full...)
How do you stop crying over a man who treats you like crap?
Q. How do u stop crying over a guy you honestly sincerely know isn't good enough, treats you like crap, then says "i love you"? This guy messed with me for two years. I honestly did love him but our relationship was completely dysfunctional, but there ...
A. 11 February 2011: Hi, the reason i said get out of town and that it will hurt to end it is becasue thats just what i have had to do. The break up and make up situation is not good and it kills you each time i bet. They always turn around and are nice and sweet ... (read in full...)
How do you stop crying over a man who treats you like crap?
Q. How do u stop crying over a guy you honestly sincerely know isn't good enough, treats you like crap, then says "i love you"? This guy messed with me for two years. I honestly did love him but our relationship was completely dysfunctional, but there ...
A. 9 February 2011: because you love him or at least think you do. it will hurt loads butyou have to break it off, get away for a weekend or stay in and hide with friends but you cant stay in a relationship with Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde... (read in full...)
I feel he's emotionally blackmailing me to stay with him and I don't know what to do... Please help!
Q. Ive posted a question here before about a possessive, controlling boyfriend. good news i said i needed time out - thats lasted a week. He found out his friend dies yesterday and i went to comfort him as i do still love him and care for him. Lo...
A. 9 February 2011: Thank you for all advice and help. Im heading out of town this weekend visiting ppl and for a get away for a night. So thank you so much... (read in full...)
I cheated on my girlfriend with a kiss. Should I tell her?
Q. i cheated on my girlfriend, it was only a kiss, i know its wrong still yes, i'm not on here looking to be judged, what i want to know is, should i tell her, she'll be destroyed, it was only a kiss and she's cheated on me a few times before in the ...
A. 8 February 2011: What you did wasn't right, but what she did also wasnt right. By the sounds of it, she was honest about kissing someone else, so you should be too. And hope she forgives you like you forgave her.... (read in full...)
Emotional numbing advice plz?
Q. i haven't been able to feel much lately since a recent incident with an ex. Idk how to over come it..i just don't feel anything anymore......
A. 8 February 2011: Spend time with friends and family, is my best advice. If it hadn't been for them then I would not have smiled recently at all.... (read in full...)
I feel he's emotionally blackmailing me to stay with him and I don't know what to do... Please help!
Q. Ive posted a question here before about a possessive, controlling boyfriend. good news i said i needed time out - thats lasted a week. He found out his friend dies yesterday and i went to comfort him as i do still love him and care for him. Lo...
A. 8 February 2011: thank you guys. Ive just read these messages - ill give you an update. It all came to a head last night, becasue i hadnt told my parents i was gonna go back (yes i know but didnt read replies till this morning and head screwed up) he sent me a text ... (read in full...)
Whatever happened to holding hands and watching the sunset?
Q. So, alot of things have been hard to adjust to since I got out of the Army. Not the least of which has been dating, or...not dating, I suppose. I like to think I'm a nice guy, outgoing in public, but private at home. I own my own house, and c...
A. 7 February 2011: Sometimes people find it easier to text something than say it to someone's face. It's not good, but it helps them say stuff they probably never would.... (read in full...)
Whatever happened to holding hands and watching the sunset?
Q. So, alot of things have been hard to adjust to since I got out of the Army. Not the least of which has been dating, or...not dating, I suppose. I like to think I'm a nice guy, outgoing in public, but private at home. I own my own house, and c...
A. 7 February 2011: I think you are great! A guy who actually wants to get to know the girl before trying to get her into bed! I do think you need to prob reign in the celibate part but i agree that people should be treated nicely.
I dont think your doing anything wron... (read in full...)
How can I stop worrying?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about the past 7 weeks or so, and I really like him. We're exclusive but not official,but if he was to ask me out, I'd say yes in a heartbeat... but that's besides the point. Anyway, the thing is before I met him I had ...
A. 19 January 2011: ok, what calms you down? one thing i tried with my first boyfriend only a year ago and it worked for me was that i looked into his eyes and took deep breath. If you really like / love this guy then try not to think about how you should be feeling, ... (read in full...)
I feel like I was played in the worst possible way!
Q. Hey aunts. Little help will be appreciated. I've been going through a rough patch lately. So there is this guy, used to be my closest friend for a long time then, over a year ago his behavior started to change. To cut a long sory short he spent an ...
A. 19 January 2011: Hi there. One thing that i seem to be learning is that sometimes moving from the friend line to relationship line is not always a good idea. The nice guy you knew as a mate turns once they know that you two are together and to me this is what this ... (read in full...)
If I do all he wants even if I'm not in the mood will this make things any better?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going through a load of issues and i dont know what to do anymore. im nervous around him as i dont totally feel 100% safe anymore which sounds horrid i know. He wrestled my phone off me, has chucked me and my stuff ...
A. 19 January 2011: i dont know how to end it. he keeps saying he will go back home and i will miss the friend he was.... (read in full...)
If I do all he wants even if I'm not in the mood will this make things any better?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going through a load of issues and i dont know what to do anymore. im nervous around him as i dont totally feel 100% safe anymore which sounds horrid i know. He wrestled my phone off me, has chucked me and my stuff ...
A. 18 January 2011: he was nice at the weekend tho, and has been trying to keep calm. only bump we have had is the fact that i said i wont stay through the week as i dont feel 100% ok. he does seem truely destraught that he scared me and is trying. I just dont like the ... (read in full...)
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