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*oserosen
writes:My husband does not love me. He is searching young girls for long term relationship keeping our marriage as it. He loves my education, property, and background, not me. He always harass me in front of his family and close friends. When I asked for divorce he neglect for it. He worries if he divorce me he need to give property to me. Should I divorce him or go along with this marriage.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (6 September 2011):
 if it was me I'd leave. IF you can go then do so.
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (6 September 2011):
 Liquidate all assets and get a bank account separate from him and walk out.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 September 2011):
 Can you not file for divorce even if he is out of the country? Honestly, I think you need to contact a laywer.
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reader, roserosen +, writes (5 September 2011):
roserosen is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy husband wants to have children with another wife. In Nepal, if there are no children after 10 years of marriage the man can marry another wife. He is denying to have children with me and waiting to reach 10 years of our marriage. I am phD. He thinks I can earn and survive on my own. He is waiting to marry another after 10 years of our marriage. Now he is in Phillipines. I am unable to get divorce alone in my country. What can I do?
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reader, roserosen +, writes (5 September 2011):
roserosen is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy husband wants to have children with his other wife. In Nepal, if there are no children after 10 years of marriage the man can marry another wife. He is denying to have children with me and waiting to make 10 years of our marriage. I have a phD. He thinks I can earn and survive on my own. He is waiting to marry another girl after 10 years of our marriage.Now he is in Phillipines. I am unable to get divorce in my country. What can I do?
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reader, roserosen +, writes (5 September 2011):
roserosen is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy husband wants to have children with other wife. In nepal, if there is no children until 10 years of marriage the man can marry other wife. He is denying to have children with me and waiting to make 10 years of our marriage. I am phD. He thinks I can earn and survive on my own. He is waiting to marry another after 10 years of our marriage.Now he is in Philippines. I am unable to get divorce along. What can I do?
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reader, RAY50 +, writes (4 September 2011):
 Well as a man I can tell you what I have done .First if there is no love there is no married life.If you have a good job an can servive on you'r own then ( as for me ) I would DIVORCE him. fight in court for children ,you'r home an other stuff.Byt does anything ( other than you'r children ) realy mean that much if you'r not wanted,loved,cared-for or happy.Believe me when I say I understand .I am in a tough spot my'self.but i am so fathfull it hurts.but that is another story for another day.. think about it ..you do deserve better.do-not let life pass-by.. I wish you the very-best of luck, an real love..
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (1 September 2011):
I don't know how it works in Nepal, legal wise. But I would cut my losses and file for divorce.
Tell him to take a hike.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2011): Hi,
He sounds horrible. He will continue to use you until he meets someone else and wants to go off with them. Fast forward your life in 5 years time. Would you want to be in the same situation you are in now? Or would you rather be single and leading your own life, or having met someone new with whom you are having a loving and supportive relationship with? Although it maybe a difficult experience, better things will come from leaving him. I know it is hard, but you will be stronger and have a better future. Good luck x
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reader, empty-1 +, writes (1 September 2011):
I would get ahole of a lawyer, good legal counsel is invaluable.
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reader, babyghost  +, writes (1 September 2011):
If your marrage is how you say it is then your husband does not respect you. You deserve someone who loves you for you not what you can provide for them. I dont know how the legal system works in nepal but in the UK things get split 50/50. I understand it maybe hard to read/hear but you are better than he is treating you and once you find the right person you will see that.
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